My dad (57 m) started dating “Becky” (25 F) 4 months ago. For reference, I am a 26 year old and my dad and mom (to note, she is 54) divorced when I was 24 (2 years ago), and this is his first relationship (to my knowledge) since mom and dad separated.

My dad has become the proverbial “rich man dating young bimbo upgrade douche bag” and it’s made my mom feel like yesterdays trash. Him and “Becky” have such an obvious Transactional relationship that it’s been making me question how he sees women. Like, what? Was he checking out my friends growing up, is that something I have to worry about now? Fuck you.

I’ve tried expressing to him that their relationship makes me uncomfortable for every obvious fucking reason, but he won’t listen and I’m tired of his blatant disrespect and dismissal of my feelings. So! If he sees no issue with it, then I guess neither do I!

This weekend was beckys birthday, and my dad threw a massive garden party for it with her bimbo friends plus his friends and his business partners, all I’m sure so he could try and get his creepy buddy’s set up with her gold-digging friends. But you know what, since that was the vibe, why wouldn’t I join in on the fun?

So what did I do? I found myself an older man and decided to bring him as my plus one! :) How old is he? He’s 62, so let’s just call him “ol’ Joe”. Only fitting if his girlfriend is younger than me, that my new boyfriend be older than him!

So the party starts, I’m on my best behavior with him and all his friends, acting like I support it all when I leave to “get my new guy because he just arrived!” It was honestly ART coming back up to him and all his friends sitting together at the main table, the birthday girl basically hanging all over him, to introduce them all to my old-ass “boyfriend”! Wish I took a photo of their faces.

“What’s wrong dad? You dont look so good - Becky, you should get his heart medication, this party might be too taxing on him!” And then I sat on ol’ joes lap! I made sure to be as shameless as his new girlfriend, and YES I felt disgusting doing it, but it was fucking worth it to watch my My dad basically throw Becky off of him, which ruined her special day. I cannot express how satisfying it was to watch him fume from across the table, but what was he going to say? AND THE BEST PART???? One of his partners KNEW OL’JOE!!!! They were golf buddy’s!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA

and before he could say anything to me, I made my exit with ol’joe because he was “taking me on a private boat ride, and we didn’t want to miss our port departure!”

And now He’s calling me non stop and I just keep sending him to voice mail. Though, I did text him about what ED medication he takes so I could recommend the brand to ol’joe! At this point I don’t care how this affects our relationship because I am disgusted with him and his choices. I am satisfied with the pay back and I hope he likes the taste of his own medicine!

EDIT:

To anyone asking about “ol joe” and claiming that I fucked my self over in this process:

1.) I NEVER slept with him. I ditched him after we left the party.

2.) he was in on the whole thing, but only because he thought it was kink related and that he would be getting action afterwards, which was NEVER the case. YES I did things I’m not proud of, I took advantage of the guy, but he thought he was going to be taking advantage of me, thinking I was an easy target because I had “daddy issues”. So I don’t feel bad about that or for him. I Only slightly bad for myself because I sat on his lap.

3.) idk why any of you are concerned over this guy. He was a CREEP. He WILLINGLY came to a party where he presumably knew no one there because he though me pissing my dad off was part of a “kink game” - he was weird, and in my opinion I fucked over 2 gross old men that day, so I pat myself on the back.

4.) Sorry that I don’t like the idea of MY DAD treating another human being as a sexual object and trying to throw that back in his face by making myself into that objectified person. And I have that opinion of their relationship because IM WATCHING IT UNFOLD IN REAL TIME. If you saw them together, you’d understand where I’m coming from. He is HANDSY with her IN PUBLIC PLACES and in front of me. And YES she has a choice in this, but to play into that dynamic is also weird, and I feel bad that she’s become so complacent in her own exploitation. That’s sad. but If he wants to be with someone younger in a transactional relationship, clearly I can’t stop him, but is it really so much to ask at his grown fucking age to have some fucking respect for your daughter and keep that shit out of my face and out of my life? I don’t think so but I guess that’s just me!