"I will live with this every day, and I will try to live for all of us," she said.
aww gee, that makes my family member's murder much easier to live with 🥰
How the fuck do you live for another person? Specifically how do you live for two people you killed?
With a big ol dose of narcissism is my guess. She’s making it about herself.
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I thought that she was low IQ or mentally disabled when I first watched the video.
Yup. As far as she is concerned, this is something which was done to her. She was sent to jail, after she got into a crash with them. It doesn't even occur to her that anything other than her exists- jail, her car, the victims. Those are all just bad vibes she doesn't enjoy thinking about. She wants to go to school, and as an object of her desire that exists and makes her happy to think about getting. But if it isn't her or something she wants or enjoys, nope, not even on the radar.
It's incredible her lawyer was able to convince her to say something only that vapid and self aggrandizing after being so totally callous and disinterested in the hospital. That's the video I would have played at the closing. Don't believe what this person says now on stage now that they know they might be held accountable. This is how the person felt when they did it.
something which was done to her
I would be willing to guess that she has never even heard the word "accountability"
"Yeah but when can I get my car?"
I wonder if she's a psychopath or really in some state of shock. I've volunteered as a paramedic for years and we've saved people from wrecked cars who were severely injured but just kept asking about their new car, or how they're getting to their appointment now. When you're in shock, your brain might think of something different that was important to you instead of the accident. Like going to school, in this case.
DUI and this is the night of.
She’s probably still drunk. I hope that she sobered up and realized she killed two people and that she understands what that means. But… I doubt it. Her statement after was still awful and self-centered.
She's heard of it, but when is she going to school?
There's footage from when the cops got to the scene and she said something like "why would this happen to me, I go to Bradley" but it didn't happen to her, it happened because of her. Idt she's ever had to deal with the consequences of her own actions
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My Brother was T-boned at an intersection the other day when a couple of teens ran their red light. He was walloped silly and his car was totaled.
Found out today that the teens claimed he was at fault and tried to claim on HIS insurance. Officer at the scene then filed his accident report showing they were to blame. Brother's ins co was going to call the teens later this afternoon to tell them their claim was denied.
She should run for office, she'd probably win 🙄
Bradley ain’t even nice, she’s just delusional.
i went to bradley (few years before her) definitely wouldn’t consider it a fancy school and something that would make me special
"this can't happen. I go to Bradley" is what she said. She even tried to convince the cops to just let her go because of it
I was thinking this belongs in im the main character
That's like textbook narcissism. I have never seen that so clear cut.
This video was taken mere minutes after she blew a .26 (more than 3 times the legal limit), plus she admitted that she smoked some pot on top of that. It's impossible to assign any sort of psychological disorder to anyone who is this drunk or high.
My very good friend received a kidney from a young woman who was killed in a car accident. He lives every day because of her. Nothing can bring her back, but because of her, his kids have a daddy.
I’m glad you feel that way. I myself received (1-9-22) a young man’s lungs when he was killed by a drunk driver. I live because of him. I’m greatful beyond words but make no mistake he is not living because someone drove drunk!
I became an organ donor when I first got my license, despite my family’s wishes. I’m still an organ donor as an adult. Hearing your story reminds me of why I’m still one, 18 years later. I’m glad you were able to live on through that young man. I say if they can use anything from me, please take it. I want to be cremated anyway and I don’t need it when I’m gone.
Do you think three shots is a little much?
"These two are for Jesse and Sarah! RIP bitches!"
She doesn't come off as a particularly bright person, but she seems to think she's a lot smarter than she is. I'm sure that sentence not only makes sense to her, but it's particularly profound.
"She wants to go public with her story"... what a narcissistic sociopath. Fuck her. He story is that she's a careless murderer.
It’s the “I’ll live for all of us” statement that made my jaw drop. Like ma’am you guys were not friends, your friend did not die of cancer and now you have to live for both of y’all. You killed two people.
This person literally is missing some part of her brain.
Yah that's not normal. It scares the shit out of me actually. Some humans aren't human, and I don't mean that poetically. That is not a person I'm seeing in that video
People in the past were cracking jokes and throwing stuff at people getting executed.
Not sure what your definition of a human is but this is very human, unfortunately.
Nah she's just a psychopath.
Always a class act when apologizing to the victims families by telling them how bad you feel about having to live with this awful thing you did.
Fuck off to prison already.
OK... sure I'll be in jail for 14 years. But what about Tuesday?
See you next Tuesday in Jail.
C U Next Tuesday
She sure is.
Someone should write to her to tell her she may go to school on Tuesday -- in 2037.
She can get a political science degree and run for senator, when she gets out in 2030 on good behavior.
She must serve at least 85% of her sentence which works to just shy of 12 years. She's stuck there until early 2035.
So the article said she graduated from college, but no mention of being a grad student or enrolled anywhere. Was she that drunk that she thought she had to go to school that wasn’t real? Man, she was on one that night. She probably doesn’t even remember getting into her car. Scary game when one gets that loaded.
She graduated after the incident. At the time of her arrest she had a few weeks left of her senior year. She was bailed out of jail within a few days and returned to classes. She was planning to walk at the ceremony but the student body signed a petition en masse saying that it would be absurd to allow her to. She still got her diploma though. Her trial was finished about a year later and so she was just sentenced a couple weeks ago— graduated in May of 2022. The accident was in April.
Good for the student body.
Yeah, YouTube has the full body cam footage at the scene, she said she was a 5 out of 10 level of drunk and that she's been really drunk before. Pretty fucked, also seemed pretty non chalant on all the footage. Apparently at trial she was pretty remorseful, so maybe she had to sober up to understand what she'd done.
She could very well still be in shock. She's not engaging with the homicide aspect because her brain at that point probably can't.
Doesn't make her less of a reckless POS though. Human brains are just weird.
as an ex paramedic this is not shock. this is denial. Her brain is denying she did anything wrong, so to avoid facing her issues it just blocks it out. shock is dramatically different.
The state of shock is the best forget-all-your-memories-agent I’ve ever had. Was in a 5 car pile up once and went into shock as a result. I exited my vehicle and became fixated on finding my hat. I don’t remember, the paramedics told the hospital staff and they told me. Not sure what the hell was going on with my brain but apparently I didn’t want anyone taking me anywhere without my hat. 😂
She actually did make to class eventually and graduated (I assume while her trial was pending). Victim's family protested and she was not allowed to walk at the graduation ceremony though.
Source on that?
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Also, she was singing in the ER, complaining about how long it was taking to get discharged, and bragging about going to Las Vegas for her birthday.
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I... Thought you were joking... Wow.
I am not a troll and wouldn't joke about something like this. It's all kinds of fucked op. The cop's comments were spot on. Assuming appeals don't change her sentence, Illinois requires that she serve 85% of her sentence, so she'll have at least a decade to reflect on what she did if she's even capable of thinking about others.
My head is still spinning over this. The incident, her reaction, and her not only getting to go to class but graduating. I am non plussed.
Yeah, me too. Makes me feel sick. One can hope it's a degree in tech or something that will be useless by the time she gets out.
She blew a 0.26. I've never been so drunk that I would be singing after someone told me that I just killed two people. I think this woman is a sociopath.
How bad is a .26? That feels like a lot but I'm not a big drinker
A quick google suggests roughly 3 standard drinks per hour (for a relatively average sized woman like in the video) to reach the .08 legal limit. A standard drink is roughly 12 oz of regular beer, 5 oz of wine, or 1.5 oz (a shot) of hard liquor. So three of those in some combination, and most people will no longer be able to legally drive. This lady consumed enough to be triple that legal cutoff.
And to correct the other commenter, .08 means .08% of your blood content is alcohol, not 8%, that's not physiologically possible. Once people get up around .35% or .4% it's already borderline lethal.
It's a lot, enough to probably make me babble incoherently. The standard is .08, so she's over 3 times the legal limit. It's significant impairment for all but the hardest chronic drinkers.
How bad is a .26?
Its bad. Really bad.
A level of 0.16 and you're sloppy drunk. At 0.26 .... you're annihilated.
Its amazing she can talk coherently at all.
I’m a recovering alcoholic and my average BAC was .25% daily. When I was waiting in the lobby of the detox facility I went to they breathalyzed me (after not having a drink in about 20 hours) and I blew a .21%. Five years sober now. Watching videos like this make me realize how far gone I was and how far I’ve come. However, even on my WORST days I’d never act so aloof upon hearing my actions killed someone. She’s definitely got some sociopathic tendencies alongside her substance abuse problems.
EDIT: apparently I used a word incorrectly and upset at least one Redditor with my wanton disregard for the English language and its intricacies.
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That probably wasn't the first time that cop had to explain to a suspect their self-inflicted incoming shitstorm.
This is pretty disgusting too:
In response to the incident, Melgoza's attorney, Kevin Sullivan, said
that his client was remorseful and wanted to spread awareness about the dangers of drunk driving.“She could really become a poster child or a poster person
for what not to do and who better to have that come from than her, than
she, who’s experienced just this."
"On a scale of 1 being not drunk to 10 being the drunkest you've ever been, how drunk would you say you are."
"5 because I've been really drunk before..."
This fucking bitch...
“I go to Bradley …. like, how does this happen to me?”
Uhhh…bc you got drunk as fuck and thought it’d be a good idea to go for a drive.
What an entitled piece of shit.
She might have a concussion and her short term memory is fucked and so what he's saying literally can't stick in her head
She's also extremely fucking drunk. Her BAC was like .26
In the full video, she was trying to hold her head still between her hands while trying to follow the pen.
i feel like anyone who has ever been that fucked up can see that it clearly isnt registering in her brain what happened. like literally not even 1%. she likely ended up not being remorseful, but the lack of remorse here seems like more of a lack of understanding cuz shes too fucked up. which isnt an excuse, just an explanation. she's a piece of shit regardless lol
Yeah. I was thinking either head injury from the wreck, shock, or she's just that drunk....but really it's probably a combination of all those. Anyone whose ever known someone who drinks to the point of delirium has likely had conversations that go just about like that one did.
She's probably drunk, high, and concussed. Not a great mix for cognitive processes.
Edit: pricesses to processes
IDK if you meant “processes” or “princesses” there, but we’ll allow either.
I wonder what she was like when she sobered up the next morning and found out she killed two people.
She'll feel very bad that those two people damaged her car
In the body can footage she kept saying “when they hit my car” so I’m guessing you’re not to far off
Can you link this please?
I feel like she must be eaten her stash of something, the way she's behaving in hospital in the last 5 mins is... very telling. She's singing and dancing, even at 3x the legal limit of alcohol that's some strong disassociation there.
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This is like someone who ate a bunch of benzos while drinking. Disassociated, focused on random things, memory is a mess, emotions don't line up etc.
Probably still wondering when she's going back to school.
DUI... what was she on to be that disconnected from reality?
My guess is Xanax. I’m a bartender. That’s not alcohol, that’s alcohol “and”. It’s the part of my job I hate the most.
“Why is that person so fucked up? What all did you give them!?!?”
“Right now they have had 3 beers and 2 shots”.
“You should have cut them off!!!!!!”.
“Let me explain something to you. This behavior all kicked off in the last 15 minutes. I have neither the time, nor the authority, to follow everyone to the bathroom every time they go. And if they take a fist full of pills in there, they don’t fucking tell me about it. I’m learning about this at the same time you are”.
God I can’t wait to be an accountant.
Yea soon as I saw this unfold I said oh that’s Xanax behavior. It makes you very relaxed and carefree much like her. More importantly, it can make the user extremely forgetful- take enough and you have the memory of a goldfish. You can have repetitive conversations the entire day, reiterating the exact same thing with someone like that. Blacking out is common on higher doses than one is used to. Xanax- great for relaxation and time travel.
As an accountant, you are still babysitting people and held responsible for their decisions.
Sir why did you spend 15k to go swimming with your horse ? But really it's more like does the 15k for horse swimming go to horse care or entertainment and recreation?
My fav was the heavy-equipment servicer claiming the pool construction company was to lay a slab of concrete at a client's building, and the home theater company was for electrical work - no, that would be your vacation home address and the IRS is not going to be fooled by that.
You should never lie to your accountant or your lawyer.
IAAL. Clients lie all the time thinking it will help. It never does. If you fuck up, tell me so I can handle the fuck up. If you don't tell me and I get blindsided by the big reveal at an inopportune moment, that's on you, bud.
I have never been in a situation where my client telling me the whole truth was disadvantageous or negatively impacted my client.
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Yup, my guess too. Nothing in my experience, Wipes your memory so completely like fucking Xanax.
My whole life trajectory shifted because I took two Xanax bars right before going to the club back in ‘99. Never did em before.
11pm till 3pm the next day are gone. Forever. That’s when I woke up. Have no memory beyond walking into that club. I missed a 2pm meeting to keep my job, and 2 weeks later moved 500 miles to “start over”.
I’m thankful I was 21 and had time to turn things around. Never touched Xanax again.
God I can’t wait to be an accountant.
You should be a comedian because adding this comment at the end was the funniest thing I've read this morning.
On a serious note accounting, especially if you are a CPA working for a small accounting firm instead of working for a corporation, can be a very rewarding job both mentally and financially.
But, it isn't all roses, and you'll be trading clients drunk on booze for clients drunk on the small amount of managerial power they have, or business owners who are just as dumb as the lady in this video when you are trying to tell them something important, and then blame you when they inevitably fail.
Trust me, I’ll be happier. As it stands, all the managers drunk on what little power they have, go to the bar after work and get actually drunk. I’ve never experienced the former, but I’ll put the latter up against anything you got.
LOL Have fun drinking YOURSELF to death as an accountant. I should know, I am one.
Gotta be Xanax.
I saw a video where a girl rolled her car and was looking at her dead friend who's brain was popped out on the ground and she was pretty emotionless but still appeared pretty coherent
I was in a long term relationship with someone who had a heavy dependence on Xanax and was also an alcoholic. She would go into blackouts that caused an absolute disconnection from reality in the scariest way but was still able to speak semi coherently. Just like this. She would also not remember anything the next day from after the 2nd or 3rd drink. Not a single thing.
As someone who used to abuse Xanax and had a drinking problem, this is the answer.
Xanax and alcohol blackouts are no joke. That's absolutely what this is.
Xanax and alcohol. Seen it before as an professional EMT. They’re like zombies with no recollection of what happened.
I've done Xanax twice. Once without alcohol and once with alcohol. With alcohol it's the hardest drug you can do, IMHO. I've never blacked out except for xan + alcohol.
Could just be alcohol. Denial is a really powerful coping mechanism. Also lack of remorse and guilt could be at play.
I watched the full body cam footage & earlier in the video she says
“ I know that I hit one person tonight, there’s no way I hit two people because if I hit two people I would be crying right now”.
Maybe she’s just really stupid. I don’t know.
Also having been in a crazy crash before, your brain can just be completely scrambled afterwards. You can just start clinging to the most real things in life (like school I guess) because everything else doesn’t make sense. I didn’t feel like I was thinking normally until hours after the crash maybe even the next day.
Its not denial it's avoidance
You have to address it occurring to deny it, here she is pretending it doesn’t exist at all. She hears the words, but in this moment it’s easier to avoid than address it. There’s also alcohol, possible injury at case as well.
It’s Xanax
People are gonna overlook this but it's definitely Xanax.
You can be barred out on three 1mg Xanax and probably chop ur arm off on accident without even realizing it. Super dangerous drug when people use it recreationally.
Mix that with just a couple drinks?
Gonezo.
Edit: toxicology report shows no xanax! but take this as a warning not to abuse xanax!!
Yup. I got branded on benzos and didn’t realize it till 2 days later. I can’t imagine waking up in jail on murder charges and not remembering what I did.
100%. I knew a guy who used to do Xanax a lot and it was impossible to talk to him. Legit would forget the beginning of my sentence by the end of my sentence.
I thought the same thing. A benzo and alcohol combo will absolutely make someone this stupid, clueless and completely nonchalant about everything going on. It's one of the most ridiculous drug combos ever. You're a complete bumbling idiot with completely reduced motor skills, but with the confidence of a superhero. You can't remember the last 2 seconds, but you're convinced you could do whatever you want or talk your way out of anything.
Really feels like Xanax.
Yeah like where two seconds later that last thought is deleted.
Definitely some type of benzo
Doesn't have to be drugs. You can see this in people who were in acccidents or suffered emotional trauma quite often. It's a form of dissociative state where they don't really see or hear the reality around them or refuse to accept certain facts. I've seen people who were in acccidents insisting they need to go to work the next day despite fractures or intracranial bleeding, a friend of mine had a biker who had lost an arm insisting he had to go home and prepare dinner right now, completely ignoring anybody telling him his arm was missing. He would catch everything else from the conversation but was in complete denial regarding his arm.
Yeah, what she did deserves no remorse, but you see cops on, like, forensic shows talking about how someone's reaction didn't line up with what they thought it should be. I don't think that should ever count toward somebody's sentence or somebody's guilt. I know for a fact that if I was in a situation like calling in the dead body of a loved one I would be stone cold calm the whole time and then break down when I'm alone finally.
According to her in the original video, three vodkas, about half an hour ago. The test said it was actually 0.28% (Edit: after checking again 0.264%) BAC worth of vodkas though. Also marijuana and a vape for it in her purse, which she claims she never even touched yet, but even if she did, I'd say it's mainly the vodkas that did it. For refference 0.31% is blackout and organ failure
Edit: full bodycam video
You're citing BAC averages. I've seen a man talking and walking at 0.5% which is associated with comas. So it really depends on tolerance and frequency of use. Likewise I've seen countless people at 0.2-0.3% who masked their impairment so well you could only really tell after blood tests. In no way is it acceptable to drive with this much alcohol on board Source: ER RN
Yeah. Was just going to say something similar. My sister’s an ER nurse in Camden, NJ and has dozens of stories about the alcoholic regulars brought in by police or EMTs with BAC levels in the 0.4 and 0.5 area and are still lucid. Tolerance is a remarkable thing.
those are the types that have seizures/delirium tremors and die if they stop drinking. benzos/barbituates can be just as addicting.
3 vodkas and half an hour? that just doesnt seem to add up, even for a lightweight.
of course anything can happen, and in this case it obviously did. but something else seems to be at play to me here... who knows.
Well, that's what she said while hammered and laughing about how she's gonna go to school tomorrow and graduate in 4 weeks, the only thing we know for sure is that the test showed 0.264%
She could also have a concussion from the wreck. Also the cop is tells her he already told her, which just has me believe she has no real short term memory at the moment.
I had a roommate that was hit by a car while riding his bike. He called me from the ambulance 5 times asking me to tell his boss that he was going to miss work.
My sister called me no less than 10 times while trapped in her car after she was t-boned in an intersection about 2 miles from my house. I couldn’t get a straight answer out of her, I knew she was in a crash, I knew she was hurt. I didn’t know where she was and I didn’t know what happened. I finally persuaded her to hand the phone to a paramedic and they told me she had a nasty bump on her head and definitely a broken arm but she should be fine, and she was, but those 10 minutes of flying around my house getting dressed and putting on shoes while my sister rambled incoherently about the mess on her seat and how she didn’t know where her purse was - those were the longest 10 minutes. She’s hang up and I’d be able to do nothing except hope she called back. I know I’m her emergency contact and the hospital will absolutely call me, but I didn’t know how injured she was or anything.
she didn’t know where her purse was
Reminds me of the time I was hit on the side and hit my head on the window. All I could think of was my glasses and I couldn't stop pleading with the paramedics to give me my glasses. I calmed down as soon as they put my smashed glasses on me. I still couldn't see but somehow felt better. It was a little stupid but the paramedics were really kind.
Yeah, ER doctor here: this seems like significant substances on board plus possible concussion.
more horrifying than facepalm...
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Just so everyone's aware. She didn't hit another car. She hit pedestrians walking. She doesn't have a head injury. She literally hit two innocent people walking and kept driving because she was so fucking drunk.
This same thing happened to my brother, he was driving his motorcycle, and this bitch driving on pills/alcohol drove straight into him from a blind curve. She said he "came out of nowhere" but she was driving in his lane, she never once applied her brakes. He died there and I will never get to talk to or see him again.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss; I hope you're well and I hope you're figuring life out as best you can
Thank you for your kindness 😊 I think about him every day. It's been the toughest time for me that I have experienced. She was recently sentenced to 5-6 years, I hope she has time to think about him too. I'm excited right now, our family is in works to start a memorial scholarship for him at his old high school. It's where he first fell in love with welding, we want to help other people if that becomes their dream too.
I've had a lot of ups and downs in my life. I consider myself a somewhat strong, capable person. In therapy for many things, but stories like this are baffling to me (in a good way). I'm always so impressed and amazed at other people's ability to have something terrible happen and turn it into something good for others. Thank you for sharing, it made a difference in my day ❤️
In one video I saw she was the one who called 911, but in it she insisted she only hit one person, going 40-50 mph 🤦🏼♀️
Yea. When I watched the video this is what she said. She was going at least 40 and one person just popped up and she hit them and called 911. Didn’t get out just called. Then she heard a second person was hit but said she only saw one.
What a piece of shit.
You know how we have indoor only cats? We shoud have indoor only people too.
That is kind of what prisons do.
She’s most definitely about to become an indoor only person after her trial
Yeah it's called prison
This reminds me of an incident in DC. A couple of teenage girls stole a guy’s car, sped off recklessly and crashed it, killing the owner in the process, and as they were casually walking away from the carnage, one of them is worried about her phone that she can’t find. Doesn’t care about the man she just murdered through depraved indifference, but is worried about her phone.
Please tell me they were punished
I think he's talking about this: https://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/teen-sentenced-to-juvenile-detention-for-dc-carjacking-that-killed-uber-eats-driver/2721236/
Both juveniles. One of them received the maximum sentence they could give a juvenile, which will see her jailed until 21.
So, shitty, I understand their brains aren’t fully developed but getting out at 21 for violent crimes committed as teens needs to have a higher prison sentence like up to 30 years old. 10 year olds understand violence and hurting people is bad. I have no empathy for these teens and I’m appalled they can get out so young.
I'll never get or subscribe to this "they didnt know what they were doing" excuse. I was a teen (shocker, I hear upwards of 80% of adults can claim this) and a damn well sure understood A) my actions can get people killed and B) killing people is bad. This isnt rocket science.
You know when someone talks but you just don't hear what they said? I get the feeling that this lady lives her life like that
There have been a few times I. My life where I thought, "OHHHH this is how they came up with the idea for the machine from A Clockwork Orange."
apparently when you get “black out drunk”, the memory part of your brain shuts down, so you’re no longer able to store information even for a short period of time. also why you can’t remember anything the next day.
She was sentenced to 14 years and claims she wants to make a positive impact by speaking out about the dangers of drinking and driving. As if she had never heard about the dangers and needs to get the word out.
I’ve heard stories of drunk drivers that have hurt or killed people and actually express genuine remorse for what they’ve done. This just feels like she’s trying to manipulate people to feel sorry for her.
That’s exactly what I thought, saying what you think people want to hear to get a better outcome.
So my mother is like this. It's bizarre and I still don't understand it. This is the first time seeing another person behave like this.
When I was a teenager I was the victim of a crime. My mother didn't want anybody to know so she forbid me from talking about it. About 15 years later my PTSD from the event was so bad I started going to therapy. My grandfather called me and was yelling at me that my life had been perfect and I needed to quit therapy because it was hurting my mothers feelings. I told him, no this happened to me when I was a teenager and it ruined my life and I need to sort it out. He laughed at me and called me a liar. I spent the next year begging my mother to tell him the truth. Every single time she acted like this lady. She acted like she couldn't understand or hear everytime I said, "please just tell grandad the truth so we can move on". It was beyond frustrating. It got to the point where the only sentence I would ever say to her was that and she never once answered or even acknowledged that she could even hear me saying it to her face. She would just say "you're crazy" or something unrelated. Then she disowned me on my birthday because it's the only thing I would say and had the rest of the family cut me off. They all stopped talking to me in 2017 because of this. It's been so hard to explain this behavior but man this reminds me so much of it.
With a family like that, you’re better without them. You’ll never get your narcissist mother to admit she couldn’t stop something from happening to you, so she denies it ever did. That isn’t about you, as I’m sure your therapist has told you, it’s about her. Live your life and don’t regret them being out of it.
Thanks for the kind response. I rarely share that story and when I do I panic afterwards a little, but this video reminded me so much of that I had to. I still have a hard time understanding how a person can behave that way. I understand what causes it, but like how do you go through life acting that way and get away with it? At least this lady is going to jail, but she is probably still to this day asking guards when she can go back to school.
I'm your mom now.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm sorry it wasn't recognized when it happened and that no one believed you when it came out. You deserve better than the hand you were delt. If you can, please go have a "me" day to decompress after having to relive such a traumatizing time in your life.
We're starting a family now I see! I'll be your little sister OP! I've got your back. I know what it's like to go through hard times and have no one. My own family refused to believe I was depressed/anxious/having suicidal thoughts until I got better which made no sense to me. When my older sister told us she was starting antidepressants my mother did everything she could to support her...but not me when I begged her for help years ago. I love my mom and my sister, and I'm so glad my sister is getting support, but there are times where I have to acknowledge that they had treated me poorly and I don't deserve that. I feel like an outcast in my own family sometimes.
So here's to your new family here. We love you, and I'm so sorry you had to go through so much of it alone. I hope you have an amazing day every day, and if you don't, then I hope the next day is better to you. As Kittens said, take a day to yourself. Do something you want to do and find peace in that moment. And remember that there's some strangers somewhere in the world who read your story and understand, and that we love you all the same.
I am so sorry your mother and family failed you. I hope your therapist is helping you through this.
Thank you. For years it felt unbearable but now most of the time I'm okay. I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to be a downer by sharing that.
Never apologize, share your story and live your life to the fullest! We may not know each other but I'm rooting for you!
No friend don't invalidate your feeling and experience by saying you're being a downer. You survived through it. You don't have to apologize. If anything this internet stranger is glad and proud that you're doing better than where you were before.
You're better off without them. Make your own family and friends ☺️
Her commitment to education is commendable.
if “stay in school” was a person
“You’re going to jail, and you’re not getting your car out of impound.” “Ok, but can I have it on Tuesday for my night class?” Is she high, stupid, or both?
"When can I go to school?"
You can talk to them about Continuing Education when you get to C block.
She also thought the cop was breaking some rule, calling her pathetic and disgusting. "No ma'am, I am allowed to state facts, murderer "
14 years. She'll be out at a early 30's. Is that justice for 2 lives? IDK
Argh. This stupid bitch sickens me.
Mixing alcohol while you’re a complete idiot is very dangerous.
I used to work in a jail. One morning, around 0230 or so, we had this college kid in for drunk driving. I was booking him in, and he asked when he'd be getting out. I told him he had to be arraigned first, and that would happen that afternoon.
He said we couldn't do that because he had a final in a few hours, and we wouldn't want to face the wrath of Prof. What's His Name. I told him I'd see his college prof and raise him one district court judge.
Well maybe tuesday, after 14 years
“Can you say that as a cop”
Oh, so she DOES comprehend things. She is just a psychopath
Yep. Shows she was listening to everything he said. She only chose to react emotionally when he said how much of a horrific person she is. Totally remorseless when told she had killed 2 people. Disgusting person.
She really thought she had him with that one
Long story short. I worked with a great guy that really drunk one night and had a head on with a car.
His first memory of it was sitting on the side of the road and a cop screaming at him that he had just killed three people.
They had to take him to the E.R. and he said he was starting to sober up and he asked another cop, "Did I really kill three people tonight."
The cop said, "No, you didn't, just two."
The guy went on to say it all felt like a bad dream, even after he was sober and in jail and he kept wanting to wake up."
She’s gonna be 14 years behind on her homework. Sheesh, there goes the weekend
"You could care less."
No, officer, I'm not sure she can.
Her sister requested the maximum sentence.. Said "she has no consideration for other people"
Yeah I think her sister may be aware that her sibling is a fucking sociopath and prison is a good spot for her
I know this isn’t a popular opinion but I feel alcohol does more harm than good to human society.
The woman who killed my husband, and very seriously injured me, while illegally passing on a curve, on a hill, in the mountains, in a no passing zone had the balls to say, "well, I thought they could see me and would get out of the way".
People are vile and incredibly stupid.
She got probation and a suspended sentence BTW.
She's seems like she's currently concussed or some shit, honestly can't believe someone of sane mind would act this way
Concussed and still drunk. That officer (I assume) might as well be talking to a wall.
Just remember, she was so drunk when she hit and killed the victim’s, she only thought she hit one person, she also rolls her eyes at the cop when he says he cares more about the people she killed than her
I’m not defending her in the least but I wonder if she had a concussion. My sister had one and no matter what going on around her she kept obsessing on the same questions. Over and over.
Edit: I see now that she hit people walking not another vehicle. Probably not a concussion.
Going off personal experience, traumatic injury/accident in combination with probably a lot of alcohol can result in someone just being disconnected from reality.
Legit words don't have enough gravity to describe how much this sickens me. You took 2 lives show no remorse and didn't even get a life sentence. Wtf lesson is she even suppose to learn here? She was not punished harshly enough first offence or not this shits so broken. 14 years for taking 2 lives is pathetic.
Tbh its hard to gauge. She probably is under the influence still and in denial. Depending on the timing of the video. Which I assume is at an infirmary after the crash. Not ruling out no remorse/guilt. Just that if she is currently intoxicated the gravity of her situation hasn't set in. Which is why she probably got 14 instead of life. Intent matters a lot.
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