Don't blame him. He wants to dance, he can find someone who'll dance with him
He can dance if he wants to, he can leave his friends behind!
Because uh.....
His friends don’t dance and if they don’t dance well they’re no friends of his
You know, that dance wasn't as safe as they said it was
doo doo dee dee doo doo doo dee dee
This thread is awesome. Awesome to the max.
Oh my, what a coincidance!
What was the name of the first man, now again?
The first man’s name was Kiki, He wore such little pants
That’s an awesome comment. You’re a shark, and sharks don’t look back. Because they don’t have necks.
Don't you worry about sharks. You let me worry about blank.
My only regret is I have boneitus
You can dance, we can dance. Everybody get in my pants
song dance*
He says they can go where they want to, a place they'll never find.
Is that a reference to a song that is neither offspring nor green day on reddit?
Life finds a way
And if there's no way, then that's no life of mine.
Life, a 100% mortality rate
In his pants 100% in his pants
If i hear the music, I'm gonna dance
Cause his friends don't dance, and if they don't dance, well, they're no friends of mine!
But if his friends don't dance and if they don't dance then they'll sit down in time
Everybody look at your pants
'Cause his friends don't dance and if they don't dance Well, they're no friends of his.
Same as it ever was
He wanna dance with somebody. He wanna find that heat with somebody.
You can dance if you want to, you can leave your friends behind
Dancing with your self oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh what a feeling. When we're dancing on the ceiling
He's in the mood for dancing, romancing
You can't start a fire
You can't start a fire without a spark
...
That fire was always burning since the world was turning, it was like that when I got here.
It's just a jump to the left
Say you wanna dance don’cha wanna dance say ya wanna dance !
DANCE
Yeah, I see no problem in finding someone who wants to partake in dancing if the other person doesn't want to. It's not like it's cheating or anything as you can dance platonically w/o any feeling besides the dancing involved
She clearly didn't want to dance, so I'm wondering why she's up there in the first place. If the guy somehow forced her to, it totally flips the script.
Still a pretty ruthless thing to do regardless. If they’re in a relationship, pretty shitty to try to make your partner dance who doesn’t want to then deliberately take her back to their seats and replace her with another female sitting right next to her. Then the crowd goes crazy… I imagine she feels awful
She is storming out at the end of the video.
Hopefully right into a dance studio.
Reminds me of when Prince told Kim Kardashian to get off the stage because she couldn’t dance
She was being a starfish.
and he didn't even 'cheat' on his girl that's his sister
Even if it was his gf .. I dont see this as cheating. If she doesn't want to dance, and he does .. he can dance with whoever wants to dance with him. It's dancing, not screwing.
“Ok, don’t want to have fun? You can sit right here and watch me have fun with your friend.”
Does no one realize this is a bit? All three are wearing matching outfits and the dude has a credit card reader at his waist, first girl has one in her back pocket. This is a staff doing a bit for the 1000th time to entertain resort guests
Those are cell phones.
And while the original two have similar shirts, player three does not.
really? The look like they read radiation levels.
Well technically those can read cards too with the right attachment
You're not wrong.
Adding, instead of an extra comment, a lot of people where I'm at wear their phones on their hips like that, and ladies tend to put phones in their back pockets anyway because of how small their pockets usually are.
Don't even need an accessory anymore. Most phones can read cards with the NFC chip now.
Lol yea definitely a cellphone, girls tend to keep their phones in their back pocket but redditor probably never interacted with a girl before to know that xD
this a party in a highschool in Mexico these are High schoolers from the CBTA
I dance, hence the name, and I have seen this exact same thing play out time and time again.
Could it be a bit? 100% but it just as well could be some sort of dance group, like a social club with all skill levels, where they were their matching shirts and go to events.
It takes a strong willed beginner to dance in the first place, it takes a stronger one to be the first couple on the dance floor.
Wow that’s crazy, it’s almost like it is entertaining regardless of it being a bit. Do you walk out of movies because the zombies don’t come to bite your arm?
besides the "staged" part - who says dancing is fun for everyone?
there are 2 types of people
the ones who enjoy dancing
the ones who don't
neither group can understand the other, at all.
I don't enjoy dancing, I wish I did, but I'm bad at it and too self conscious. I completely understand people who enjoy it however. It looks fun.
Take some MDMA and let loose.
Quit doing all drugs 4 years ago. When I partook, dancing was fun.
don’t want to have fun
That's unfair to say. 'Fun' isn't the same for everyone,
All matter aside. Boy has the biggest bunda than both girls.
He had cake
Rip
Lmao bunda
I've got some Latino homies and the ones that dance are caked the fuck up. I need to learns some rhythm because I have hank Hill ass
Its so true bro, a night out is like 20k steps if you go hard
Futbol and Banda are going to be the next big thing after girls get sick of squats.
GAaaaaaaaaaaaahw
It's from all the dancing he does
I had to go back and check lmao
BBL DRIZZY 🔊🎶 BBL DRIZZAAAYY 🔊🎶
What a legend
She won't do it, but her sister will - Jimmy O
She do the boogie She do the tube snake boogie
Yup. Well done. I want to be that confident when the time arises.
That’s how you show intolerance for a stick in the mud.
Always been called that bc I have anxiety. Sucks man.
As a fellow stick in the mud I feel you. I'm old now so I've learned to care less about the crowd but it never goes away. I like doing other, less performative activities.
Yeah, my favorite thing to do when people around me are dancing is to stare awkwardly at my drink and try not to make eye contact with people.
I leave the room and hang out with smokers and have conversations.
Oh yeah, when I was a smoker I'd spend most of my time at social events outside smoking and chatting
I don’t smoke. I just feel way less awkward and have way more fun talking to smokers while not smoking than I do dancing.
As a person who recently quit (yeah I have a backup hidden pack in case of emergency), I loved when people would just start chatting me up while in the smoking area.
And I'm severely socially inept.
As someone who never smoke…can i ask why do you need an emergency hidden pack? Sounds like a recipe for relapse to me.
It's just an addict behavior thing.
I make eye contact while shitting my britches.
Sucks when you can’t do a thing out of fear not because I don’t want to do the thing! I love doing the things!
It's almost worse to be the opposite. I'm not a dancer, I don't like to dance and I think it looks weird at best and awful at worst. If I'm at an event where people are expected to dance (weddings) people think I'm afraid but I really just don't want to do that.
I appreciate hearing your side and that’s totally fair, if you don’t want to dance you absolutely don’t have to! Lol I’m not good at dancing either, I don’t look smooth and cool, I look awkward probably, it’s not about how it looks it’s about just having fun and moving. Sometimes moving just feels good!
DANCE. YOU MUST DANCE OR SOCIETY WILL SHUN YOU!
tbf for much of human history this has been true
that's why a lot of people drink before they go out
Anxiety sucks. But it isn't your enemy that you have to defeat. It's your friend trying to protect you that you have to try to prove wrong. And if you really don't want to do something, then so be it. If anyone tells you that you are a stick in the mud because of it? Tell them to fuck off.
Such a stick in the mud thing to say
Same. I feel bad for that poor girl. It took alot of courage to go out there, probably peer pressured. That would be burned in my memories for absolutely ever. The boy should have danced with someone who wanted to to begin with
Not every one who is a stick in the mud has anxiety. It's often a cop out for someone just not feeling socially fit.
As someone with anxiety and a part time stick in the mud
Just because she doesn't want to dance?
Absolute king move.
Not a hold up, just reality
She failed the vibe check
Meanwhile the guy was the entire vibe
Trade in
Hear me out, i grew up dancing like this casually in parties. Changing partners is not insulting. You dance with someone, then you dance with someone else. You dance with your cousin, your uncle, and your brother. Dancing is not exclusive to romantic couples and dancing with someone does not mean you are in an exclusive relationship. So, they're probably friends, friend 1 didn't want to dance , then you ask friend 2 . Nothing mean or evil here
I think it was meant as: the first girl didnt show any desire to participate in the dance, so she got replaced with a girl who does.
Good on him for not putting up with whatever the hell was going on with her. What a buzzkill.
Yes.
I love it, wish I had the balls to do this. My wife hates dancing and says no all the time, but she would chop my dick off if I did this.
"why don't you go dance with her? You seemed pretty chummy the other day."
And so he did.
Absolute fucking king shit 👑
Not a hol up. She wasn't reciprocating his energy, so he got someone who did.
If you don’t collaborate you evaporate
Everybody say hotel, motel, Holiday Inn!! If your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend!!
If "B!+(# don't kill my vibe" was a hombre
you can say bitch
This needs to be a thug life meme
Chadest thing I've seen
There are two kinds of people in this world, those who dance and those who don't
"this one is broken. I'm gonna get a new one."
She had it coming
Peer pressure, an introvert's nightmare. 😅
Chad move
Like a gent, walked her off the stage and put on the rizzzzzzx
takes notes
Lol everyone acting like she's in the wrong for clearly being uncomfortable. Maybe she gets stage fright or is on her period or is having a rough time and he just drags her out like a show pony. Collaborate doesn't mean yield to all of your partners demands it means listening and working together via compromise.
she aint in the wrong at all but hes well within his right to find somebody to match his vibe; idt she's his partner or anything
Don't forget that before you can follow those steps you have to stop for a moment and consider your partner's feelings.
So it's stop. Then collaborate and listen.
Right. Dancing is not something that everyone's comfortable with
She's not in the wrong. She's just not wanting to have fun in that setting. Dude was in the right for dancing with somebody else. The walk off is just funny is all.
Looks like she was pleading to be let go, she obviously didn't want to be part of the show. Idk why people want to dunk on her for not wanting to dance, bunch of weirdos man.
Good for him. And her
I wanna dance with somebody...I really wanna dance with somebody!
Don't chase'm, replace'm!!!
Bitch don't kill my vibe
Holup - why he cakin so hard.
That's common in Mexico. Both ways, if a chick isn't feeling it: if a guy isn't feeling it. It's a no bs culture. They don't even have a word for "bullying". The strongest survive.
It's quicker to switch to the sister than to reload.
The man is there to have fun and dance and will not let anything bum out the vibe lol
Do people not do this? Years ago asked my friend for a dance, she was a bit shy and refused, so I asked the next girl..a neighbour of hers who I’d never met before. It doesn’t have to be anything more than a dance. Enjoy the moment and have fun folks.
And I’m never gonna dance again, the way I danced with youuuuuu
Dude changed his dance partner when the first one wasn't vibing with him, I don't see why is this a holup.
seriously why people keep spamming the sub with unrelated posts labeling them as a holup ?
Life lesson here in action lol
If you can't change the person. Change the person
This isn’t a holup
If your girl start acting up, then you take her friend.
That's some King shit right there 👑
He not for the b.s. he came to dance.
And that girl that wanders off will be wondering where are all the good guys at in 10 years.
Just as a wise person once said: "If you can't change the girl, change the girl"
Chad
My man
He followed dance etiquette by walking her off the dance floor. Much better than just leaving her there to dance with the woman who wanted to actually dance.
He who has the cake, makes the rules.
Bro upgraded in real time!!
What's the hold up though?
It's safe to assume the first girl was his girlfriend. Idk who the second one is tho in relation to the both of them.
Aye dude just want to have someone fun to dance with. Nice!
If you can’t change the girl Change the girl
Pretty common to switch partners after each song at salsa clubs in latinamerica
I'm the jealous type so I don't like that shit
I wake up
That’s what I’m talking about
My man! He did what all of us should do in a such a situation. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Chad🗿
I did that with my GF and her cousin. The cousin wanted to dance, GF did not. The cousin was a better dancer than me and we had a ton of fun, the GF was pissed all night even though she wanted me along to dance with her cousin because she had been 'feeling down'. Even though I was setup to not win, I was winning all night.
(nothing else happened. she's still my friend even though the GF is not)
Take the leap bro 😉
He said: he thought he could fix her; he changed her.
This one’s not working, I need to get a new one
She was lame, I’d swap too
No HolUp
Talk about trading up lol.
great call
This a a big Hold Up?
Good for him. Other one could not dance
I don't wanna dance...
Upgrades, people
The guy has booty bigger than both girls combined.
First girl had that coming. She seems like a real Debbie Downer.
I would do the same..TF you standing in front of me for then 🤣
Is that possible way? Please someone test this and share experience
Plan B always work
That takes more confidence than most people have. Respect
On the floors of Tokyo Or down in London town to go, go
No one puts baby in the corner
As it was forewritten in the ancient verse of the first rappers of delight. 'if your girl starts acting up, then you take her friend'
"Iiii should have bought you flowers"
Well, you may may be a lover, but you ain't no dancer!
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