I'm white / Asian too and I always pull the same tricks. I revert to making them feel insecure. If they come near me I cover my nose and look disgusted as if they reek which makes them pretty insecure. Or "I'm sorry I don't have any spare change" if they try and speak to me. Or "sorry I don't want to buy any drugs, god bless you get well soon".

Sorry I'm a Satanic ENTP Can't help you there

"Struggle with grasping reality"

I think theres the fundamental misunderstanding- to ENTPs reality is ever changing and fluid. When you say we struggle to "grasp reality" i don't think that's the correct way of thinking about it because our problem is we have the ability to grasp EVERYBODIES reality at the same time and we're cursed to see EVERYONES perception all at once- we OVER grasp reality. that gives us the ability to tackle the same problem 50 different ways.

We get indoctrinated because we attend the cult meetings. If other mbti's actually took the time to listen to incel rhetoric or were raised on incel rhetoric they would be just as susceptible as us. We don't think we're outside of societal norms, we want to understand the people who are and through listening to those people sometimes we get dragged into their beliefs.

We care to understand our opposition and we welcome people to challenge us. We're the ones who step into the ring with the incels and sometimes we get our asses handed to us. We have the most contact with the opposition to we're at the most risk of getting "turned"

I think ENTPs are generally more attracted to abstract, eccentric and contrary ideas. We are the ones who are willing to sit there and give everyone a genuine chance, including the tin foil hat lunatics. Our openess and curiosity makes us more vulnerable to extreme ideas because we actually are willing to subject ourselves to ideas that challenge our and societal beliefs.

While other people will hear the Incel rhetoric and immediately shut down and leave the conversation, we will actually sit there and ask "why do you think that way" - "but what about this" - "yh but have you considered x y z" - that's a circumstance that VERY difficult for us to walk away from. We engage in that debate and even though we're known to be debaters we can loose them through being ill prepared and not well informed and if you've lost a debate to an incel that insinuates the incel is correct in your eyes.

We're not particularly susceptible to incel rhetoric we're more susceptible to contrary to popular belief rhetorics because we're willing to hear them out.

You know that its a sport right. As in we do it for FUN. I don't train so I can assault people that's what you need to understand. I'm not kill bill, I'm not bat woman, I'm just enjoying a sport. How about we just don't attack each other?

I think ENTPs protect their emotional intimacy in the same way some people protect their sexually intimacy. Being emotionally vulnerable infront of someone is the ENTPs equivalent of being naked and if let someone see that part of me before I'm ready I feel cheap almost. You see it as wearing a mask I see it as keeping my cloths on. Not everyone in my opinion deserves to see certain parts of me.

Its a sport... I do for fun im not training to fight men or be the next johnwick. Im triggered because telling a woman that you could beat them up if you wanted to, completely unprovoked and taking pride out of making her feel unsafe in your presence is antagonistic. Any man that enjoys making women feel small and unsafe is a pathetic man. Im not defensive because you can hypothetically beat me up, Im defensive because youre a man I don't know and you felt the need to let me know that you could hurt me. If I turned to you and said "you know I could hit you with a car if I wanted to and there's nothing you'd be able to do about it" you'd feel just as threatened.

I'm often featured in marketing for the MMA classes on social media and in the comment section there will be alot of men saying things along these lines about me. Or I will be asked "what do you for fun" and when I say MMA immediately they bring up a hypothetical scenario where they beat me up.

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Tell EM

Its the "And Im not misogynistic because my mum is literally a woman" vibe. The "I literally have a black friend" vibe.

I don't handle conflicts under extreme stress at all. I tend to disengage.

I usually find that when people resort to gas lighting and manipulation its because they're afraid of the reprocussions associated with accountability. They are also usually trying to win the argument, not find a resolution- when people do this I usually disengage as it takes 2 to find a resolution and if a resolution is not currently on the table theres no gain for me to even be in the argument in the first place. Youre literally arguing with someone who has no interest in resolving anything or taking accountability that's just dead end. Also if I myself am stressed that's futher reason to remove myself because chances are I'm not thinking with optimum rationality due to my stressed state.

If a 250lb guy came to you and said "you know I could knock you out if I wanted to" 100% you'd take that as a threat. I care because when a man (usually a man I don't even know that well) who is twice my size takes enjoyment and pride out the fact he has the capacity to harm me that a threatening thing.

"I know you've trained in MMA since you were 8 but when I'm angry I just see red bro" 💀 its interesting as well how these men never "see red" when they're around men bigger then them. Funny that

Its always the men who heavy breathe when they walk up stairs as well, it's NEVER the physically fit ones. Its the ones who know they'd get hulk smashed by other men so they punch down on women to feel superior.

You leave Eeyore out of this he LITERALLY has a nail in his ass. Eeyore has a valid reason to be depressed.

Literally just a personal account on learning difficulties

OK so as I said I competed in Judo. There are priviliges that I have, that I didn't work for that allowed me to compete at that level. I had financial privilege- my parents could pay for classes, travel and equipment, I had natural athletic ability; I put on muscle easily. I had parents that who fed me a good diet. If I didn't have those priviliges theres no way I would of competed at the level I did and thats just a fact. I'm humble enough to acknowledge that I have a unfair advantage over the kid with a low metabolism from a poor obese family - if that kid got frustrated with their situation id never fix myself to go up to them and say "me? I'm not priviliged" ESPECIALLY if I saw them training 5 times longer then me and still not being able to get on my level.

The intelligent kids arnt even being educated in same classrooms as the lesser ones. They literally divide maths classes based on abilities- the world where autistic kids are holding back prodigies dosnt exsist. I didnt even take the same exams as everyone else i had to take a easier version of the exam where my grade ceiling was a C- I didn't even qualify to even get the opportunity or attempt for a B or an A. Infact alot of special needs kids arnt even in the same schools. I may not be gifted academically, but im decent athletically and I would never go up to someone with scoliosis whos trying their hardest to keep up and go "what do you want a participation ribbon? You're a lesser and youre holding prodigies like me back"

Or you can just have empathy for people who are less fortunate then you? When I was in exstra education there were people with harsher struggles then me (inaudible, severe autism ext) and I acknowledged it and helped those around me.