Truly disgusting. There are no words.
OP, if she hasn't told you about smth so massive, what else is she keeping hidden? I would slow down on getting married. It's only been 1 .5 years, give it some more time as you learn more about this person.
OP, the moment she asked for an open relationship, your marriage ended.
You're not old, you're EXPERIENCED! Keep at it! Best of luck <3
You didn't continue doing it afterwards?
You should have reported him. If it's not too late, pls do it.
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE HE DID THIS TO YOU. HE'S ABUSING YOU. PLEASE GET OUT.
So true, I just wish OP knew that. It took me so many years to figure that out for myself.
I knew he was raping his daughter, but please don't tell me he did that to his grand daughter as well, did he?
Would this fall under grand theft?
Did you read the DMs btwn your husband and sister? The fact that he blocked her so quickly, to me, would mean he doesn't want you to read the content of those messages. Blocking means nothing, you can easily unblock. Also, look at his deleted DMs on IG, that's how my bf at the time was communicating with his exgf.
I avoid eye contact with everyone, men, women, children (not dogs). I think you might be taking it too personal. Maybe if you stopped trying to make eye contact with strangers you wouldn't feel so weird.
Yeah, ppl need to check out r/whenwomenrefuse to see what can happen when a woman flat out refuses a man's advances. It can literally be deadly at times.
Your immaturity, lack of accountability and ignorance shows that you have no business being a father. Thank you for that. Pls go get a vasectomy.
This is excellent advice and so true.
It's an EA, OP. Trust your gut more than his words, he's the one who had EA before.
So glad other ppl feel this way.
Is anyone else jealous of how easy boomers had it?
Adulting