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AIO for crying that my boyfriend 31M pushed me 25F off the bed?
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So you just said to get up a few times so he could eat hot food, and then he pushed you? Just trying to understand what was annoying him so bad, because if it just the sound of your voice that is a problem.
Sorry the way I phrase things are weird because english isn’t my first language. Apologies!
So I went inside the room and told him “Hey the food’s here, come eat with me while it’s hot.” I was hoping he’d hop off the bed and come watch an episode of a tv show while we eat together. I saw he was doomscrolling on his phone and ignored what I said.
I’ve been in a more affectionate mood lately and I decided to lay on top of him in a cuddly way, hoping it would encourage him to get out of bed. I can see how this comes across as nagging and if that’s the case I can work on it. I think he got annoyed that I was telling him “Hey can you get off your phone and eat with me please?” that’s when he decided to kick me off the bed as a punishment for telling him what to do. I guess his logic he doesn’t want to be bothered or touched? I also worded it as “bugging” because that’s how he phrased it
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE HE DID THIS TO YOU. HE'S ABUSING YOU. PLEASE GET OUT.