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Like a bread roll right outta the bakery oven
Great now I’m hungry for fat people
Omg I can't believe this a real subreddit 😂😂
This comment made me ugly laugh Lol
Anybody gonna eat that dead fat guy in the corner?
The extra fat I would imagine would pair well with the dryness and acidity of a nice Chianti Classico and some fava beans
Soft to the touch goes a long way for me
Because fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round
The bigger the cushion, the better the push'n. That's what I say.
Thick thighs save lives.
thicc
My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo.
I like to sink her with my pink torpedo
Big bottom
Big bottom
Talkin bout mud flaps my girl’s got em
Big bottom drives me out of my mind. How can I leave this behind?
Yours is pink WTF
The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand
Is it their butt or back meat? Or both? The world may never know but it sure looks nice regardless.
Hell yeah this ^ is the right answer 😁
Don’t know, don’t care. Drowning in titty meat, in my lane, thriving
Especially when they're riding you then lean forward and have a titty right there in your face, don't need to lift your head up.
The fact that i haven’t had to lift my head in years speaks volumes then 😂, thanks for the laugh
This dude understands
“Titty meat”
Hips, ass, titties, that’s why.
And they are usually better at slobbering knob.
Always better. Nobody gives head like a fat girl.
An older woman does lol. More experience in my experience
I am an older woman who is also fat. I think I may be your dream chick lol.
Hello, would you like to get dinners later?
Lmaooo. I just legit lol'd in line at a store loud enough people stared at me
Hey, don’t laugh. It looks like I’m gonna get some free meals out of this. Lol.
💀
RIP that inbox
Omg dm me
less teeth
You see a average woman with a handsome muscular man that girl knows how to throw it down.
Big girls know how to eat amirite
I'm dolphin laugh squeaking at this
Cause they cuddly
Snuggle honeys.
Exactly! Cuddling with a pack of bones doesn't exactly interest me. I'd rather have some cushion for the cuddles and warmth.
Ever heard of Sir Mix-A-Lot?
Mix-A-Lot knew what was up.
A sprung anaconda, that's what.
Call 1 (900)MIXALOT and kick them nasty thoughts
Don’t want none unless you got buns hon
36-24-36? Haha, Only if she's five foot three
A true poet of the 90s
He is a poet of the highest order. I have specifically requested sir mix a lot lyrics for my funeral. Not even kidding.
He liked big butts and he couldn't lie?
That man made me feel good about myself!
He made us all feel good about ourselves.
Us other brothers can't deny
That guy with the anaconda?
It don't want none unless you got buns hun.
My anaconda don’t-want-none-unless you birth-sons-hon.
Wait that was King Henry VIII.
You ever watched the music video? Those women are considered tiny today
The lack of big butts is definitely surprising
Yeah, "when a girl waks in with an ITTY BITTY WAIST" and "little in the middle" this is not describing chubby, this is the real definition of curvy
As a chubby (5'5' 160 lbs) wife, i feel better after reading these comments.
I feel so awkward next to my fit, muscular husband.
Glad you feel better. The most important thing is that he loves YOU. He made hid choice and it was you be proud of that.
Aww. I love this. Thank you.
Yes, the important thing is that he loves you, but you must also love yourself.
Girl don’t even…you know what, nevermind
This is what I was thinking lol. (I’m making an assumption) but 160 at 5’5 doesn’t really sound chubby. I guess it depends on muscle and fat distribution
Lol I'm 5'5 145 and they told me I'm still overweight for my height I'm supposed to be 130 hell No..I'd look like I was on something heaven forbid I had an itch and scratched 🤣 people would think I was lmao I learned go by your body frame not what they say.
I'm 5'8" and 165 and last time I was at my GP she told me I was overweight (I'm technically "on the line") and should aim for 140 lbs. I had to remind her that 6 years ago, at 140 lbs, she was the one who expressed concern about possible substance use and then pressed me about my eating habits and was concerned about my weight loss bc I was frail, bruised everywhere, and my hair was falling out (I was very depressed and basically only ate one meal every other day for months). I'm sure 165 can be an unhealthy weight at my height, but i eat really well, work out a ton, and I have visible abs, for Christ's sake. It's irresponsible and frankly lazy to recommend patients make major changes (like a 25 lb weight loss) bc of an outdated chart that doesn't even take into account body composition, which is what actually matters.
If you have visible abs and your doctor is telling you you’re overweight, they’re a fucking idiot. Find another doctor. They should know what the BMI was created to facilito. Remember not everyone who went to medical school and passed got A’s.
That’s the thing! BMI is a lie. The issues with averages is that when you look at an outlier it’s hard to give them definitive measures. If you’re active and eating fairly okay everything else should work itself out
That’s not chubby 😅
You are right thats not chubby. That is straight up overweight according to BMI
Seriously, I'm 5'3" 180 and I'm chubby, she's normal
Respectfully the other girl is chubby.
You and I are obese.
No shame in it, in general people just seem to have lost definition of what these words mean.
Thank you for saying it. It's all good and respect your bodies, but don't lose sight of the way norms have shifted.
Chubby isn’t a weight class. That’s personal preference. Thick might be the correct slang word though
She would either be considered overweight or obese.
If you’re over 40 BMI, then you’re morbidly obese.
I'm 5'3" 180
I'm chubby
🇺🇸
That's a bit more than chubby. Nothing wrong with that, but as a society we have kinda completely forgotten what being in shape is.
Yeah that commenter is delusional… I’m 6’0 male and I’m 185 with a very active lifestyle and I still have noticeable weight to lose. There’s no universe where 5’3 is passing as chubby.
You and I are almost twinsies. Most of the dudes I've dated have been on the fit side though. I think maybe we (people of our physique) just look good idk
Well it isn't a slim weight and unless she's jacked, that's a decent bit of excess fat.
Overweight/obesity is so normalized these days that people apparently have no clue what an actual healthy weight looks like.
That height and weight absolutely isn't a slim/fit weight. I'm not talking heroin chic as slim either.
Unless she's all muscle, yes, it is.
You're probably mistaking 'fat' for 'chubby'
5’9’ 200lb wife next to a bodybuilder hubby who is cut like a diamond, he loves grabbing onto anything and everything on my body he can get ahold of.
I know he loves my body, but when I look at us together in pictures I’m like “Why?! He could do so much better than me.”
Im a relatively fit dude and most of my peers in the gym have the exact same type in a woman than they did before the gym.
Personally I have no type, a pretty face is by far the most important factor to me. But aside from that I have been with super skinny girls and girls on the thicker side and stuff in between, its all beautiful.
Yeah I can relate to this, even more so from my mid-20's and on. The bodies I'll find attractive have quite the range, but the pretty face is a must.
Big boobs and more feminine curvy shape, soft skin
That booty shelf or whatever that happens when they arch their back
Idk ask my balls
Idk ask my balls
The real answer to OP’s question
Hey u/RandeeRoads . How's your balls?
Full of microplastics and pee
I'm into lifting weights because I want to look like Conan the Barbarian, not because I want to date a fitness model. I lift for my satisfaction and health, if others find it attractive, cool cool cool.
"I want to look like Conan the Barbarian" a noble pursuit, godspeed
I have grown the hair, the muscle... thats a ways out.
Big ol' titties
Physical appearances aren't the only things that attract me. I've dated/married all shapes. First wife was over 200 pounds, second wife weighed roughly 115 pounds. Personality is HUGE with me. There are also physically attractive overweight ladies and there are not so attractive thin women. I typically don't have a physical appearance type. Enthusiasm and interest in me play a role as well. I'll go after a thicker woman all day long versus chasing after a thinner woman that acts like she interested or potentially playing games.
The sad thing is I’ve noticed that women have learned to “play hard to get” because men reject them for showing interest.
I’ve seen this happen time and time again, if I ignore a guy he’ll go on and on about how much he likes me. But the minute I show interest back, he completely loses interest. Ever since this has happened over and over again, I just avoid dating altogether because it’s annoying to have to play like this for a guy to be interested.
I'm sorry to hear that. Not all of us are that way. These days most men are afraid to show interest because we get treated like garbage if the other party isn't interested, occasionally this isn't the case, but it's seldom that we are shown respect after. It works this way on both sides I suppose. The sad thing about women playing hard to get, is that if I show interest and she shows none, I will not waste my time showing interest in that person again. This has happened to me within the past year. Girlfriend and I broke up last summer (we are back together now). We've been together for 8 years. After taking a couple of months off from dating or attempting to date at all, I showed interest in a lady that I've known for years. She was openly flirting with me so I took that as a sign she was interested. After a couple of weeks of messaging, I finally asked to have dinner with me. She acted completely uninterested, so I took that as an indicator not to ask again. I'm not trying to be the creepy guy that can't take a hint. After the girlfriend and I got back together a few months later, I run into the other girl. She asked why I stopped messaging her that she was interested. I laughed and said that she didn't act interested in the slightest and that's why I stopped. She was completely dumbfounded. What was I supposed to do???
Long story long, I'm sorry. I know it's hard out there. I can assure you that there are men out there that play just as many games as some women do. It's a shame we can't communicate more clearly with each other. BTW, avoid Tinder and other dating apps. It's good for mental health.
Yeah, I’ve always been fit and into chubbier women. I just love them more. I think it’s genetic as this trend seems to run in my family. Lol
I read Everybody Lies be Stephens-Davidowitz where he analyzed a bunch of Internet search behavior, in particular, Pornhub's. His conclusion is that there are plenty of men that are simply into chubbier women. If they weren't, why would they be watching porn of them? People just have their individual preferences for all sorts of things, and we mostly pretend these don't exist and we have a singular beauty standard.
There’s also research about this now and it’s finding that women need the right amount of body fat to be healthy and have balanced hormones. What we consider “chubby” is often just what women naturally look like when they are healthy. Look at old paintings and sculptures and you’ll see that men wanting to see more curvaceous women naked has always been a thing.
I mean personally I’ve never searched based on body size, but more so based on what the girl looks like. Unless maybe BBW is the search
Is it the appeal of lifting weight outside the gym as well?
🤣
When the squat rack simply aint enough anymore
This took me out 💀
Well I'm pretty fit, I've been a gym rat for almost 20 years and I rather like thicc women. I like to look masculine myself, but I like women who look feminine. Generally speaking in my opinion peak femininity is at quite a bit higher body fat than what fitness chicks aim for, and I like big breasts and big butts, not big lats and quads.
I'm not a fit/gym guy in the slightest but your sentiments about feminity and fitness chicks is spot on for me as far as attraction goes.
In southern cal I see more fit guys with fit women. This may be your region.
Agreed, also in SoCal and couples tend to match up
I’m in NYC but from Miami and same experience. If the man was fit so was she. Not always the other way around though
Yep I agree. I’m from San Diego County and fit people mate with fit people. Not much disparity.
Because I’ve got a sickness for the thiccness
Not all “fit dudes” are actually into fitness….sometimes they are more into fitness di#% into thick women
After pumping iron all day, it's nice having something soft to lay with
I sorta always assumed fit people will be into fit people, due to similarity in lifestyle and choice.
This is usually the case, but I've also heard that dudes will get in shape so they can handle the kinda girl they're into. As in, they are into bigger women and want to be able to pick them up and stuff effortlessly
Pick them up, and stuff effortlessly.
Ftfy
This is why I work out. I like my ladies a Lil thicker but I also like them tall. So I gotta be able to move some weight. I can't be tweaking my back or messing up my hip when I go for the underside hip thrust. Gotta hit it just right in perfect motion to earn that shower. No time for "hold on, hold on! My fibula!"
My guy here gets it lol.
My wife isn’t “tiny” by any stretch…but mannnn I love her face when I pick her ass up.
Wanna know why I care about deadlifting?? This is why. This right here. Lol.
As a bigger woman, it is hot AF when a guy can lift you against the wall for sexy times. But also that he was okay with the fact I could lift him 😆. But I was also pretty buff at the time, had to mostly give up the gym after I injured my back 😭
See I'm a pretty tiny dude, my girlfriend now is on the more petite end but some of my exes were larger than me, and even before I entered my gym phase, I could usually lift them.
Them being strong enough to lift me never bothered me 💀
Did your mumma never tell you it’s all about the bass , no treble .
Mainly titties but being able to pick up a woman who isn’t on the small side can definitely be a confidence booster for some .
Have you never heard of “thick thighs save lives?”
I feel OP by "chubby/thick" means anything that does not look like a freestanding coat hanger.
I have a friend that was confused by my preference as well and couldn't understand that I just like voluptuous women with wider hips, that doesn't necessarily mean I like fat/obese/chubby women
yeah, and I like fat/obese/chubby women, and everybody knows that about me... but they assume I like ALL fat/obese/chubby women. NOT THE CASE, I'm not tryna fuck jabba the hut or whatever 😂😂😂😂
I just tell them, "it's a shape thing, not a size thing."
- sad Jabba noises *
Do-cheetos wa No-nookie?
One of the rare comments that took me out.
Jabba no Nut
The shape is essential
As someone who looks like a freestanding coat hanger, I take offense.
Do you mean curvy or fat? Because they’re not the same thing.
Personally, I don’t care what shape a woman is if she’s got a good personality and accepts me for me.
I like both 🤷🏻♂️
Fat bottomed girls make the world go round
The thing is fit dudes were not born fit, like it is not necessarily hard wired as part of their makeup as a person. I’m the fittest I have been in my whole life and to a degree I still feel it as kind of a temporary condition.
You know what is hard wired though, and a permanent condition going all the way back to boyhood???? At a base level being naturally attracted to big boobs and big ol’ wiggly butts.. it’s hard wired dyed in the wool, not subject to change because I ate different and worked out.
Now you are onto something as I am definitely very attracted to my fiance as a life partner she is pretty fit and lives the same lifestyle as me and I chose her to be with for life, so both dynamics are at play at the same time and would be for most I’d bet. It’s not an either/or dynamic as you’re framing it
As a tall, very fit man (former pro soccer player) this assumption happens alot. I've been with a few girls who later expressed to me their shock that I would be into them. Let me tell you this, nothing on this planet feels as good as nice warm pillowy thickness. I'm drooling as I type this.
I'll throw out a quote from my girlfriend as to why she finds me appealing as a big dude who clearly cares about his fitness and health but isn't the aesthetic obsessed dude: "You look like you know what an 11pm pizza looks like".
I've dated someone who was obsessed with being skinny. Phrases like "carbs are poison" was frequently said. I had bought some carbonated watermelon juice at the store early on into us dating and she tried to tell me I needed to throw it away.
9/10 times people who talk about "chubby/thick" women are talking about women that arent underweight. And I bet this is one of those situations.
yeahhh i feel like a lot of them are just referring to women who are slim thick/curvy with wide hips and larger breasts but still have definition between their waist and hips..
Because GYATT
Curves are in baby. Heroin shique is coming back a bit though.
I hope not, but not surprising given the return of 90s fashion. I'm throwing change in coin slots this time around.
Ugh. Living through the super-skinny trend of the early aughts as a teen girl was not good. Took years to undo that damage. I hope that trend stays dead.
A lot of actresses and models are getting that sunken cheek surgery and getting rail thin. Hopefully the status quo realizes Hollywood is bullshit.
Preach.
I'm not physically attracted to someone because of their lifestyle, my attractions go back way further than any current beliefs. And don't forget that physical appearance does not directly reflect work. Physical exercise is one small portion of what makes our bodies look the way they do. I'm a fairly thin, fairly muscular guy. I know people who exercise way more than I do and still can't lose weight. I know people who lift way less than I do, eat junk, drink and don't sleep and yet they are extremely muscular. I'm not saying anything new, just a reminder.
Thick doesn’t mean unhealthy. A fit person can also be thick. Even a person who leans out like crazy can still have that frame and that’s just how they’re built
That said, people have varying opinions and preferences. I’ve seen small skinny women who are dating very fat, unfit men. And vice versa. (No criticisms here!)
I think the first sentence answers it for you. You assumed. Just because someone has a hobby that makes them more physically appealing as far as standards go, doesn’t mean they sub to those same standards. Some people go to the gym as a hobby not because they buy into some non lazy, alpha, clean eating, macro counting culture. And don’t necessarily want to bring that home.
The men I know who are fit and have heavier wives. Just find their wife attractive. It’s just that simple. Idk how old you are, but while physical attraction is obviously a major part of choosing a mate, as you get older that manifests beyond what your eyes can see. Your partner can be 100lbs one year and 200 the next, they’re not fit anymore oh no does that mean you don’t like them now?
as far as lifestyle, I know a man who doesn’t really date women who go to the gym often.. mainly because he doesn’t want to slip into disordered eating again. He realizes he’s generalizing but anytime he’s met a woman at the gym, it’s turned into this almond mom talk that wasn’t good for his mental health. “I didn’t go to the gym today so I’m gonna get the salad” “you’re going to eat those did you just eat..” “stairmaster for 20more mins since we’re going to happy hour later”. Their “lifestyle” was the same, they both go to the gym, but that’s where those similaires stop.
cuz fat women are hot idk 🤷♀️
idt there’s too much logic to attraction personally, there are plenty of gorgeous fat women out there so if someone’s into them, gym bro or not, it’s probably just because they’re attractive. i think finding someone attractive is something that’s hard to rationalize as like a logical reason
I'm straight up not attracted to skinny girls. Fat girls only please. Idk, just the way I am.
More people need to be real about this. The way body positivity is framed it sounds like "sure you're fat, but you could find an insane person who might tolerate fucking you but most likely would rather fuck a skinny woman".
The reality is while there are alot of people who only want to fuck skinny people, there's also alot of people like us who find skinny woman as sexually stimulating as plywood and love a bigger babe
Personality is the most important factor to me. If someone isn’t beautiful inside, then they’re ugly as fuck.
The common thing with these incels is total inability to accept that love and sex are for people of all shapes, sizes, types provided you have some kind of attractive personality and depth to you...
How fit are we talking?
My first guess - you’re equating their fitness with desire to be healthy. It’s possible these guys are actually only getting fit for aesthetics, to attract the type of women they want - maybe heavier women want cut guys so that’s why they’re doing it.
Or maybe the fit guys go after heavier women because they assume they have low self-esteem and that gives the guys the upper hand in the relationship. Shitty, but it happens.
The really fit guys I know value fitness for their health and it is a lifestyle, like you said. These guys live in the gym. All of them have very fit partners as well because they have similar values and can share hobbies.
I know some fit guys that prefer thicker girls…for some it’s just a personal preference.. but for a few of those fit guys.. they are fit because they are trying to alleviate some sort of insecurity.. usually deep rooted stuff… and having a fit GF will ignite some of those insecurities that they are coping with… they would prefer to have some sort of “leverage” in their relationships. By leverage I mean… their gf will never leave/cheat/and they will appreciate them more… because they got a “fit guy” … I’m not saying this is the reality.. I’m suggesting this is the thought process.
They are into anything and most guys will bone anything.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also, beggars can’t be choosers.
I am overweight, and I have never known why so many are chubby chasers. (My mom told me to stop calling them fat freaks.)
I've asked this question before since I'm chubby & they prefer the softness lol
most people are chubby and thick these days
Personally, I’m mostly attracted to faces and personality.
Why do you think they go to the gym? To get stronger. Why? To lift HEAVY things...
When I have sex with a girl I like to grab onto some stuff. Not exactly play the Xylophone.
Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round
Probably because they find them attractive. No other reason is needed.
The answer is simple. I’m a little bony. If she’s also a little bony my hips are gonna hurt after 10 mins
There is a difference between chubby and thick. They aren't the same thing.
And there's a difference between thick and thicc.
And thicccccccccccc
Because they don't run that fast as fit and thin women.
Fat chick here. Can confirm this is absolutely a thing. Feels strange but very fit guys have been VERY into it before. Can be awkward but anyway yeah... I guess people like what they like 🤷🏻♀️
Just because you’re thick or chubby doesn’t mean you don’t have the same lifestyle. Some people literally cannot lose weight in the standard of being ‘fit’ but with their body type, that is considered ‘fit’. I think the challenge with your question is that it anchors on the societal impression of what ‘fit’ is that we really need to move away from. Society cannot be dictated by a single perception.
I wouldn’t say I’m chubby, but I’m definitely not fit (very little muscle, my mass is mostly squish)
I’ve asked my fit boyfriend if he’d prefer I look like those fit buff gym girls, but his answer is just that squish is good. He plays with my thighs like a stress ball or play dough.
Date an overweight lady, and you'll know why.
I wouldn't say my husband is necessarily into chubby women but he was into me, and after 2 babies I got a little chubby. He's still super into me.
They eat a lot and we know how to cook.
I think Sir-Mix-A-Lot was pretty clear on the reasoning.
Well, I must be a fit dude at heart then
The jibbly bits
Because they will eat snacks with me
Queen and MIKA have songs about this. Big girls are just beautiful. It wasn’t until modern times that skinny girls became the icons. Go look at any renaissance painting. Even Marilyn Monroe was a little thicker. Thick thighs save lives. In the words of Moto Moto, “I like em big. I like them chunky.”
My anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, Hun.
I've fucked skinny women like 90-110lbs and chubby women. Skinny women are too boney, chubby is comfy. Also that wave in your ass and tits as I'm hitting it is awesomeness
Attraction is attraction. There is no need to explain it with logic. It is what it is. That's like asking why you choose to be straight.
Personal experience, scrawny women are less fun in bed. I'm a... spirited man sexually. Skinny girls i've been with tend to need a bit more of a gentle touch. Plus i find curves physically pleasing.
Because they look sexy to just like thin athletic women or women with muscles.
The male sex drive is a heck of a thing to experience. We aren't as picky as you might think.
Some guys only want really thin women and some of are okay with some chub. The only thing that really would make a woman unattractive to me personally is either unhealthily thin or very morbidly obese.
But being overweight isn't a deal breaker at all depending on how it's carried.
Personally, it's for the personality, and all the chubby/thick women I've dated were so damn soft to cuddle with.
Fit women are typically into other fit women. Fit men like to be the fittest in the room
Forget chubby or thick, I'm dead set fat and guys love it. Especially fit guys.
I punch way above my class as far as guys go. No, it's not for sex. I don't offer it and some never ask. Most of it is about cuddling. Guys like to hold someone soft and warm and there are a lot of women around that just aren't.
Another part if it is that fat people tend to be less judgemental about appearances and body types. What they see as a flaw in themselves (often because someone has pointed it out to them) we can accept as being just a part of them.
Different people like different things for different reasons.
Midwesterner that moved to California. All types of women have their pluses but I personally prefer my women in a less boney, more cuddly shape
Sometimes, things feel better to the touch than the eye.
And once you've touched them, the eye begins to seek them out.
I like warm soft things lol