When my father died I noted, sadly, that that was the only way to get away from her. He was fairly passive himself. It was just easier that way. I wouldn’t be surprised if more men gave up this way.
Yes. Exactly. I know my mil means no harm or disrespect, generally. To me it’s symptomatic of over all misogyny that occurs with older women as well. The men however, imo, do discount the status and achievements of women. I appreciate your patience with elderly women like my mil. I’m glad you don’t let the men get away with it!
Oh my. My mil has called women doctors “ honey and sweetie “ basically not acknowledging their status/achievements. One doctor reminded her who she was and to address her as Doctor. I love it! My mil was raised in a terribly misogynistic environment and has always discounted women’s success. Especially with my daughter v her favorite grandson. Don’t be afraid to straighten them out! I’m still cheering!
I’m happy for you. I’m glad you have someone you can trust.
Yuck. That looks disgusting! Is that an appropriate name? Lol
Who is this clown? First time I’ve heard of him. Thank goodness
What is this woman thinking? I’d never let any child of either gender alone with an unknown adult. Good grief lady! Maybe I’m overreacting but I can also read .my discomfort with this is off the charts.
My son and daughter in law had a huge rain storm at their outdoor shower and a hurricane on their honeymoon. Wedding day was fine iirc. Bride felt cursed. Poor thing
Our son is built (big and tall) like my brother in law and one of his sons is built like my husband (slender and not quite as tall). So OP, I think you’re overreacting. I say that gently. It’s mostly just an expression.
My mother is like this. She really put a damper on your day. I’m familiar with the day being ruined before you’re bombarded with guilt. I think that’s what my mother was after. If she could spoil my day she was happy. Could be the case here too.
I’m so sorry OP. Unfortunately she isn’t going to change. You and your husband will have to work on blowing off any guilt. Takes practice and sometimes therapy. I do envy you in one aspect though, you live a long way away from her.! Happy Mother’s Day for your first!
And unfortunately, I think the family of the groom will have to kiss the ring goodbye. That is sad also. If he is fortunate enough to get out of this relationship, it might be a small price to pay. I’m sorry OP. If it’s any comfort, this internet stranger agrees with you and I wish you strength
Thank you! My younger self needed to hear that!
As a server when I was 18 I dropped a glass into the ice bin. I was horrified. Apologized all day. The bus guys were great about it. I know what a colossal mess it makes.
And please be careful there too. I have a similar sister. Just tossing out some caution for conversations that make you feel good warm and fuzzy.
This takes my breath away! Suits your coloring perfectly. You look beautiful and graceful . Don’t change a thing! You will knock people’s socks off. Congrats!
I bow to your superiority. You have out suffered me. I definitely had to walk to school barefoot, in the snow uphill both ways but I never had to do it Backwards! Bravo!
Ding ding ding! That has to positively be the number one answer here!
I could see eating that in Vegas if I was up all night
What’s something you would never eat for breakfast?
Cooking