You're surrounded by ignorant people. Don't listen to these people, they're only trying to make you feel bad.

A smart person would NEVER say shit like that. Do you think Leonardo da Vinci gathered up people in a room and told them that they're dumb? No. Only ignorant people feel the need to bring other people down.

One of the most common names for men. Especially for men born in the 60s, 70s. In the 80s the name Andreas got popular instead.

Is someone else hitting him? A child at day care? An adult at daycare?

Honestly, anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, could fall in love with someone else and leave their partner. We've all seen it happen.

Your gf needs therapy. She goes into the bathroom and locks the door whenever she's upset. This isn't normal. She needs help. I'm not trying to criticize her coping strategies, I'm just saying she needs healthier ones.

Mine were over 12'000 and my doctor hasn't even bothered to call me.

First of all, I am truly sorry you had to go through that shit. Feel free to not answer this question, but how on Earth didn't the doctors report the abuse when you were hospitalized?

Hope you can move out as soon as possible.

You can't make this better. You can't change his attitude. What is probably already happening is that you're heartbroken.

Therefore, you take on most of the responsibility/care of your son because you think that if your boyfriend doesn't have to any of the diaper changes, midnight feedings etc., then he'll start loving his son. He gets to be the fun dad, while you get to be the overwhelmed mom.

This will continue. You will never get rid of that role. I've seen this happen so many times.

Save the game frequently over the Winter season. Sims go outside in a t-shirt and end up dying. Then you can just exit your game without saving.

I celebrated Mother's day for years, even when I was an adult. My mom loved getting celebrated. Then one day I just stopped.

It's completely fine. Expect a temper tantrum though. I don't know what your mother is capable of. If she's going call up her friends and family and tell them that you are rejecting her. I also don't know if you have siblings. If you do, they might pressure you into seeing your mom on mother's day.

I would never be able to take care of all those cats, dogs, chickens, cows etc.

Only rich people can afford to get arrested that many times.

Sending healing hugs to you.

Justice for Joost? The man was violent towards a woman. Justice for everyone who has been physically assaulted.

I didn't read that OP pressured this woman to date her. Quite the opposite. It was wrong of this woman to make out with OP at parties like it was casual and it didn't mean anything when she was fully aware of that OP had feelings for her and wanted a relationship with her.

I don't think OP should refer to the woman's boyfriend as ugly though because he has not done anything wrong (at least not what we know of).

Hahaha

I got anxiety just from reading your post, and I was pretty calm before I started reading.

You need help. I'm really concerned about your mental health. I can tell that you're full of anxiety.

Nobody should have to go through that. I'm so sorry.

Nothing good comes out of a "belt whooping". There's a reason why there are sayings like "Violence breeds violence", "Hurt people hurt people" and so on.

A whole lot of people are "straight straight". Unfortunately ;)

Has he told his friends that he's dating a man?

That sounds good. I get that you're sick a lot, it's completely normal, but I still wanted to urge you to get tested. Like I said, a lot of health care professionals still believe HIV is something that only gay men get.

Definitely not meant to scare you in any sort of way. But a lot of the times doctors only test women for Chlamydia and gonorrhea and not for HIV. Unfortunately, a lot of health care professionals still believe that only men who have sex with men should get checked for HIV.

I just wanted to urge you to get tested for HIV. You mentioned that your ex cheated on you with multiple people, and then you mentioned that you are sick a lot (that you always catch whatever illness your children have). HIV (untreated) can lead to a weakened immune system.

Fully agree. It's dangerous to be homeless as a woman, and if you add mental health issues to the mix it's even more dangerous. There are people who are going to see a homeless woman with mental health issues as an easy target.

Have you ever talked to a therapist? I have a family member plus I had a relative with autism. They can't handle when people don't think the way think or that people do things differently. My relative only did things that he enjoyed with his children.

I know that he took his children to look at houses (viewings) and car museums. None of his children had a good time.

Autism is a spectrum. I am aware of that. But it seems like you have trouble connecting with people in general who don't think the way you think.

I had to take a break during my studies for multiple reasons. I know a lot of people who had to quit their studies and then return to uni years later. Life is full of shit that you cannot predict.

I sincerely hope that you get to return to your studies in the future.