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Using r/FemaleDatingStratergy as a barometer for what women think is like citing one of the incel subs as evidence of male collective thought
Well, men don’t have much control over dick size or height, so all they can hope for is that they meet women who aren’t fixated on those things.
That's WHY it's so important to women. Because it means you're better than other men
An innate, popularised, objective and unfakeable metric to rank men?
Must be a woman's dream
We got surgery for height now. Guess that’s similar to breast implants.
Unless you literally have a micro penis or the woman is on the thicker side it's not all that important
or the woman is on the thicker side it's not all that important
Which is most women today.
yeah pretty much the best they can hope for is a woman who is neutral/indifferent about their height/dick
There’s more women than you would think who don’t care that much. The people always talking about it are a vocal minority
There is also hypnosis
😆 This is awesome! Become a hypnotist and implant the suggestion that your dick is very big.
"You are getting sleepy, very, very, sleepy. You see big dicks. My dick is very big"
The next day she starts telling you that you are a big dick. 🤣
But muhhhh genes, destiny and love, and tingles.
Who said men can self improve? Women hate guys who go to gym
Women are lookin for men with god gifted features and talent, self improvement = arrogance, women say.
Some women prefer oral sex over PIV. If you’re small, get skilled! Lots of women don’t care.
Honestly. I’m not trying to make men feel better. It’s true. A lot of women do not care about size. And lots of us don’t want it to be too big!!
a lot of women naturally want to be dominated in bed, it's hard to dominate a woman with a 4" penis...
A lot of men naturally want to be dominated and I happily oblige them, and I don’t have a penis. It’s not hard for me to dominate them without a penis.
I’ve had men dominate me with cunnilingus. That can drive a woman crazy and she has no control in the situation.
I don’t think any woman wants it too big but there’s gotta be something there. I don’t mind a small penis but don’t come at me with 2 inches.
I feel like it’s both underrated and overrated by different types of people honestly. It’s not a make or break feature, unless you’re literally working with a micro-peen or something. In which case, yeah, that’s probably gonna be tough to overcome lol.
But at the same time, if a lesbian can make a woman cum with zero penis involved… It’s obviously not the end all be all in terms of sex. It’s not something a guy can change so it’s not worth worrying about either way. Just work with what you got bro.
Not to mention that there have been studies where lesbians reported higher satisfaction with intimacy than heterosexual women.
lol
Lesbians also tend to end up in sexless relationships/marriages at a much higher rate than heterosexuals.
Why wouldnt that be the case? Who knows a womans body better than another woman?
It's not rocket science. You can figure it out too!
Is there a tiny possibility that women have different expectations in sex with other women compared to sex with men? Do you see many lesbians saying "I really like it when my girlfriend is at least 6' tall" yet they will readily apply that standard to men.
It's not the end all be all but it's important for a large contingent of heterosexual women via both visual arousal and function.
Yeah but a guy can orgasm with his own hand as well but vagina is objectively better. Just because a finger can make a lady orgasm doesn’t mean it’s as intense and enjoyable as a big dick
Your fist is able to reach areas no dick can
Right, it’s not a make or break feature, nothing is, even facial attractiveness can be overcame by the combination of bad frame, short height, and small penis. My point is simply that it’s a MAJOR factor of male attractiveness
i have never met a woman who actually desires a specific dick size. additionally- do you know how hard it is for us to GUESS the measurement of a guys dick after just seeing it? hard. no one knows what 6 inches is anymore.
also- the anatomy of many women will not accept more than 5 or so inches. my cervix is around 5 inches from my actual vaginal orifice so realistically.. a dick any longer than 6 inches would HURT if the guy tried to push it all the way in.
nuance is lost on people like OP. They have some pathological need to see all women as a statistic, despite the fact that each of our anatomies are different. I know some women who literally cannot use anything but a light tampon, others who can use a cup. Some have a "tall" vagjnal canal, others: short. The dick size that feels best for each or us is unique to us and men like OP can't handle the concept of that.
That said, some things are pretty universal like:
- getting hit in the cervix is AWFUL
- girth matters more than length as long as the length is in average range
- If you're not stimulating the clit in some way, a long dick won't make up for it
I’m aware that women have their own individual preferences as to what the ideal size is. That being said, this study is pretty solid evidence for what I’m saying is true as a generalization https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3637716/#:~:text=The%20finding%20suggests%20that%20selection,in%20our%20model%20(79.6%25).
this study backs up my comment more than yours. I am so tired of people using "evidence" to confirm their biases without understanding how published studies work.
Yes, this group of Australian women in their 20s, who were overwhelmingly of similar phenotype did seem to respond positively to both width and length of penis in computerized cartoon models they were shown but with diminishing returns and most correlated to their own phenotype.
If you have twisted that to mean what you said, cool. do whatever you want.
I’m not sure how the study backs up your comment, could you please elaborate on that? This study also seems to indicate women’s (as a generalization, like I said, I’m aware of women’s varying anatomies) preference for larger than average penises
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/279192722_Women's_Preferences_for_Penis_Size_A_New_Research_Method_Using_Selection_among_3D_Models bare in mind, those numbers are for visible length, it’s not like the models were bone pressed
Can confirm. I know guys think it sounds like a badge of honor to make a girl feel like she’s got a bruised cervix, but it doesn’t feel great getting hit hard repeatedly.
god.. talk about the worst pain ever. literally so bad.
Not as bad as giving birth, but it don’t feel great and it’s certainly not something I’m bragging to my friends about.
real. i have not given birth but i’ve witnessed births and it is impressive what the human body is willing to withstand
Did it twice. Epidural- 5 stars, Would recommend. God bless meds, modern medicine, good doctors, and an awesome husband.
How young are you? Most of the complaints of big dick come from young women dating young men who don’t know what they are doing. Then they find a large guy who knows how to navigate and not flop like a fish and consider it some of the best sex ever. Lots of women will say things like how at first her partner was too big and it was hard then she got used to it as the body adapts and it ends up being the best sex of their lives.
It’s usually just young women who complain about big dicks because they are hooking up with inexperienced guys and they themselves haven’t learned how to take it all yet. But if you ever go to like a swingers or more sexually open sort of lifestyle, women unanimously all prefer the larger guys with a few exceptions of girls who rather fuck a hotter guy than a larger guy (but hot hung guys always overwhelmingly dominate).
I’ve also noticed irl my average looking friends who are hung always tend to have sexual relations with ex gfs after the relationship…
no, they're talking about literal physical limits. If a woman's vagina is only 5 inches deep, there is no "technique" that is going to get your dick inside her more than 5 inches, unless you are actively hurting her.
The cervix tilts to the side to allow it to go even deeper… if the guy knows what he’s doing he can avoid hitting the cervix and hit the A spot which is designed to create heavy lube and orgasms
There’s women on this post alone with them
I am a woman with a specific ideal size range so now you have lol
the anatomy of many women will not accept more than 5 or so inches
And on a similar vein the anatomy of many women requires more than 5
Female dating strategy is full of mentally ill women, far more deranged than the men on redpill.
So their sexual preferences are different than the vast majority of women? If anything, I’d say their hate for men makes their answers MORE honest
their sexual preferences are different than the vast majority of women
Yes. Kinda like how incels and hardcore red pills have different tastes than normal men. For a simple example, i would prefer a working partner similar to my age. I don't want a stay-at-home and 18 years old.
But if a girl saw the red pill sub and said that since these men hate women so they would answer correctly is a false assumption. So I think this is not the right path.
Those are preferences are more based on ideology such as thinking that women shouldn’t work more so than pure physical preferences
Yes but age is a preference no? So is boobs size and their hair type. Their voice.
I think when a red piller prefers younger, it’s more so an ideological preference due to their fixation on “teaching a woman how it’s done” and also because they tend to value low body counts, which is more likely for a younger woman.
Ok so i didn't want to talk about it but if women cared so much about dick size then i wouldn't have been single for so long.Even my current gf has trouble with my size because I'm too big for her and it's not good tbh. I am not able to enjoy it because I fear that I will hurt her. So no she isn't with me because of my size. I would say she is with me irrespective of it.
Honestly bro, idk you’re size and I’m not going to inquire about that, but assuming you’re not freakishly huge, I think it’s likely more so a case of your gf having a smaller ideal size than most women because every time I research the topic, it seems pretty clear that women ideally prefer bigger than average penises
Well you can always move the bar to fit your narrative. I gave you a real life example that size is not the primary dating strategy but you are focused on proving it is by finding ways so that it explains your post.
If you truly want to know then ask a girl. Then again, you can always say like other guys that you don't believe they will be truthful. It's easy to come to a conclusion when you are not taking the main demographic into account. In this case, the women. If they say they are not looking for a huge dick then why would you not agree? Why would you agree with a straight guy who probably can't look at another guy's junk without averting his eyes? Can a straight guy know more about what women want?
Food for thought.
Also no, she isn't smaller. Also, that is not the point. If girls prefer a huge dick she would have been ecstatic not afraid of it.
I think you’re misunderstanding my post. When women are attracted or repulsed by a man, it’s because of the sum of a man. I’m not saying they mate based off of penis size.
Also I think you’re failing to account that as men, women are individuals with preferences. There are men who are legitimately attracted to fat or obese women, though this is not indicative of the average man’s preference. I don’t think you have a big enough sample size to come to a conclusion on the importance of penis size
Female dating strategy is full of women who have basically zero identity except for ferocious shit testing
Yes actually they do not represent the median or average woman
I don’t think it makes sense that ideology impacts physical preferences for the opposite sex but I guess it’s possible
Reddit is already known for not exactly being reflective of the general public. Then once you take into a consideration that a sub like female dating strategy does not represent women overall.
I do agree that women on female dating strategy are not good representatives of women in real life. Most women I know irl are polite and fun to be around, but if you just checked that sub you’d think every woman is narcissistic and hates men. The thing for me though is I don’t see why their physical preferences in terms of men would be different. I thought it would be a good resource to check into spaces where women didn’t care what men thought. I knew the women on fds would be brutally honest which is why it’s eye opening how much importance they give penis size
80% women have low self esteem, which can be considered a symptom of mental illness.
But she has to like you first to even find out. You can't use it to attract women in the first place.
Word gets out pretty quick for these guys. Women tend to brag about it
So... if you like a girl, the plan is to fuck all of her friends in the hope that they TELL her about your big dick so that she wants to date you because she's HEARD about your dick?
That's your strategy?
If you're a man who doesn't fuck around with women who "brag" about him, his dick size goes back to being useless as a means of pulling women.
No that’s not my strategy. I’m just saying women find out because they brag about how lucky their guy is, which in return gives that guy more options later down the line.
I’ve been in a workplace where it got out that a guy had a big dick and he basically got passed around by the women there.
Is there a greatest irony in life than thinking that women don't really talk about private things :D
I don't. And I don't want a used man whore that everyone talks about also, ew.
I can't believe I have to point this out but you don't know someone's penis size unless you're already in a sexual situation. Even if for some reason a couple of cm difference is really important to you, you won't know and you're hardly going to pull out the measuring tape once it's out. And I'll just say that the average insertable dildo length is 5-6 inches (the range a penis usually falls into).
You can tbh. Just look if he has a buldge
So that shows if he has a penis.
No, it shows the size too
Women literally check those
You think women have x ray vision?
I am 5’5”. And that alone will keep women from ever knowing my dick size. If a woman is with a tall man in public, that is far more important than knowing the hobbit she is with his packing a meat hammer.
that alone will keep women from ever knowing my dick size.
If you keep fixating on this then for sure.
Fixating on my dick size or my hight? I don’t focus on either. But I understand that hight and wages are correlated in the United States. So, if I put my hight on a dating app, I will exclude myself from most searches. I don’t need to focus on anything to know I don’t match with anybody. And I can look up why the only guys that do, represent about ten percent of men. And they match with everyone they pick.
if I put my hight on a dating app, I will exclude myself from most searches.
First of all, a dating app should be your last resort. Most people find their partner in settings like friends of friends or work or similar activities like gym, classes etc.
Also, note that you should not join these activities with the sole purpose of finding a partner. These activities are for you to socialize and get to know people.
Also, you are taking it personally. I assume you also have a set of rules for attraction and don't swipe right on everyone. Now, you may not know that but subconsciously your mind is making those decisions for you. So, for example i would say you like a girl who is has a bigger bust size. Now, would it be wrong to say that the girl who doesn't fit into this is like you?
And I can look up why the only guys that do represent about ten percent of men. And they match with everyone they pick.
I don't understand what you are trying to say here.
Yes, most people date the people that are available. Otherwise known as a dating pool. People date the people they are in proximity to. Not all of us can keep a dating pool available throughout our entire lives. Not all of us are in the same life path. I’ve always been holding off on looking for a life partner, because responsibilities came first. Things like, knowing myself. Finding what I bring to the table. Making money. Responsibility to my family. Jobs like the military. But the more experiences I have, the more I become I big fish in a small pond most places I find myself stationary.
Some of us can’t survive without a partner. Someone to define them. Some of us can’t survive with a partner. Someone that makes them feel trapped. I would fall into the feeling trapped category. But, I doesn’t stop me from using what is available to at least understand the world around me. I have a degree in psychology. But I got more out of learning astrology.
But if you don’t understand why online dating doesn’t work for most people, YouTube will explain it in detail. Look up Hoe Math on YouTube. When the dating pool becomes everyone, women will aim up, not over. Most leave feeling used, because men will fuck down, without attachment. And most women will think they can do better because they fucked up. Not that it went well after.
This would only matter if a guy was already desirable otherwise she wouldn’t be seeing/interacting with it.
It's also interesting how basically every woman claims to have had one or several ex who were 7 or 8 inches.
Ultimately I don't think most guys will be dumped solely for their size but it does seem like pretty much every woman prefers and has had 7+ before. A woman never prefers average it's always "if he makes up for it in other ways average is ok" but you'll never hear a woman say "big is ok if he makes up for it in other ways" because big is inherently good in their eyes
Lol every big dick guy knows this brother, it’s called “Girl Inches”. Whenever you hear a girl talk about the size a penis was in any situation, you can reliable assume it’s actual size was 1.5-2 inches shorter. It’s almost a rule of nature at this point.
There’s a variety of reasons for this. The number one main reason, which should be obvious, is that men consistently lie about this. Its similar to the way guys lie about height. If every average 5.5 joe tells women “yeah I’m like 7 inches”, guess what she’s gonna believe ? That’s the average.
But the actual data on this tells another story all together.
Girl inches isn’t true. It’s only true for larger guys where they think it’s like 9 when it’s 8. But the study OP posted women gave their preference and what isn’t talked about was they were asked to estimate their partners size in relation to the size they chose and always significantly reported their partner was smaller than they were
it’s called “Girl Inches”. Whenever you hear a girl talk about the size a penis was in any situation, you can reliable assume it’s actual size was 1.5-2 inches shorter.
Yeah, it's like how dudes misunderstand bra cup sizes.
Exactly. They are allegedly so rare yet so many women claim to have been with one. It makes 0 sense.
I don't think it's super rare among black men. I've definitely seen more than a few
Are most women sleeping with black men?
Don't know but I'm sure a lot have before.
This is literally false. Stop pushing this stereotype. Its weird af
Nope it's not. Stop being jealous.
Im literally black. Youre making shit up. Most men are in the average range
Most men are in the average range
Okay and this wasn't my statement. I said it's not overly rare for a black man to be 7 or 8 inches and I've seen more than a few.
Your dick size has nothing to do with this. Everything's not about you.
This makes 0 sense. Youre literally sterotyping. Just stop
No it makes perfect sense that I've seen a lot of "above average" penis sizes on black men. You just don't like it because yours is average.
You said you dont think 7 to 8 is super rare on black men. Its rare on any race of men
I didnt know that being in the top percentile for size is seen as above average. Is being 6'2 seen as above average height or is it seen as tall? Youre trolling
If I reply with a well-informed evidence-based answer are you going to actually read it or talk in circles? I need to know before I waste the effort.
It is extremely overrated. As a very well endowed male you can't just whip it out while flirting
Yeah but it can help you keep her
Not in my experience. What matters most is how you make them feel, not how you look.
There’s no such thing as a singular feature that can save you. If you’re tall and ugly with a small penis, you’re still fucked. If you have a good frame but short, ugly, and small penis, you’re still fucked. If you’re well off enough in other aspects that you’re not an incel, you’re attractiveness will significantly increase after she sees your dick
Personality is the most important thing assuming you're close to average in all areas.
But then you aren't average anymore if you have great personality :/
Looking back on my previous comment I was dehumanizing people to strictly their sexual appeal a bit. You’re right, personality absolutely is someone’s value as a human being. I’m more so speaking on purely in terms of inspiring physical attraction
And I'm saying whilst if you have a micropenis it might be a turn off, having a huge dick isn't a turn on per se.
What is that based off of? From what I can tell it seems to be Small dick- negative Average dick- neutral Big dick- positive
Personal experience having a huge dick lol. It doesn't matter and ime women don't care. Personality (generally more what redpillers describe but with some agreement with bluepill for me) means the most.
Women don’t really care about dick size or atleast most don’t
The reason it’s talked about is usually just joking
Most studies done on the topic indicate otherwise. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3637716/#:~:text=The%20finding%20suggests%20that%20selection,in%20our%20model%20(79.6%25).
As someone who studies psychology we wouldn’t be able to use such an article since it’s based on another species and since there was only used one elected group of women which basically allows for the research to be biased
Nobody agrees with you
Women who like sex care about dick size
That’s like saying men don’t care about ass size
Nobody agrees with you
I agree with her.
That’s like saying men don’t care about ass size
I don't. Unless it's something out of a horror show hygiene wise and shape wise too. But that is not a parameter I'm fixated upon.
You lack experience with women. I can already tell because you believe what a woman types.
Anybody who gets laid knows women respond better to a bigger dick
I have a girlfriend bro. Also it has been many months too. You can see that from my post history. 🤣
You having a gf doesn’t mean u have experience.
You believe what women say instead of what they do
U have a girlfriend who doesn’t care about ur “size” to make u feel better
Every girl I’ve fucked gets excited about dick size and I’ve even made a girl orgasm from dick alone
Idk dude instead of arguing on Reddit with me, you should be weary of ur relationship
Girls are telling u they don’t care about dick size but they get excited for mine?
Yikes dude
have a girlfriend who doesn’t care about ur “size” to make u feel better
Umm actually she says I'm too big for her.
You having a gf doesn’t mean u have experience.
Well I have experience too.
Idk dude instead of arguing on Reddit with me, you should be weary of ur relationship
Idk dude instead of arguing on reddit you should try to find a girl who doesn't view you as a dildo or a wallet. Just saying.
Girls are telling u they don’t care about dick size but they get excited for mine?
Lmao as I said. She says I'm too big for her and I hurt her if I try to be rough. I know If you were in my place you would be flexing that. But I'm not like you.
I’m flexing it because ur tryna be disingenuous
Look I have a big one and it's not nice. I always have to stop because girls are not able to endure the pain. Yes there was a girl who liked it but it doesn't mean that every girl cares about size. If you have slept with as many women as you claim then either you have met with size queens or just making it up.
I have a bigger dick than normal and I can tell you that no girl has ever said omg if you were 1 in smaller i wouldn't have dated you.
So you are not taking my view into account and your statement that women say one thing and mean another thing is being disingenuous. You are being disingenuous by ignoring their statement to fit your narrative.
Also, if you only have your dick size to flex then it's pretty sad.
Plenty of women agree with me. Guys however don’t. There’s literally a term “size queening” for women who prioritize taking big dicks and if it was a priority for all you wouldn’t even have that kind of term/kink
Also what proof do you have that nobody agrees with me?
Every girl who I’ve shown my dick too gets extremely happy and excited.
They get aroused and wetter quicker too
This narrative that you think women like small dicks is very false
U realize women like sex too?
Now big is just gonna be subjective to the women because not every woman can take a 10 inch dick
But they care dude
I never said they liked small dicks
Dick size has very little to do with sex tho
So your sexual history is more valid than my friend group
I know plenty of women who’ve complained that a guy they’ve been with only has a big dick but he’s boring in the bedroom and I know plenty who have been with small dicks who are more exciting in the bedroom
Idk when guys like you are gonna realize that your own limited sexual history can’t be used to generalize what women like
Just because they had experiences, doesn’t mean they don’t care
It’s funny because the insult you guys like to spam is “small dick energy”
We also say man up even tho we’re not men lol what’s your point
Because if u don’t care u wouldn’t be using that insult every chance u get
No matter what u say ur not gonna change my mind
Then I won’t try changing your mind
Every girl who I’ve shown my dick too gets extremely happy and excited.
They get aroused and wetter quicker too
Do you have a fake dick you use as a base of comparison here?
No I don’t.
But u seem to be dealing with low quality men with small dicks, if u don’t get aroused during sex
No matter what u say, it doesn’t change my mind
U can say this all day till tomorrow. Every girl I’ve fucked has responded so well to my dick
Every girl who I’ve shown my dick too gets extremely happy and excited.
Probably because they're your sex partner. During sex, it's weird if you get naked and your partner doesn't get excited.
U realize women like sex too?
there you go, you understand.
Do you like... have a bunch of cameras in the bedrooms of men with smaller dicks than you? How do you know they get "aroused and wetter quicker"? Do you and your buddies keep stop-watches and carefully monitor the pussy juice to see which man "gets a woman wet the slowest"? Does it count if you engage in foreplay, or is it better measured by just "getting it out" and seeing if the sight of it alone gets her wet?
Strawman
You can make up as many random scenarios you want “it’s sex that’s why”. Being envious isn’t gonna help ur argument
Women care about dick size
Even without sex, I’ve had women compliment how my bludge looks when i wear pants.
It’s very feminine how your tryna cope with something that is very obvious , just because u have a small dick
I'm a 40 year old queer man in a 25-year long relationship with another man. Even in the gay community, I've never heard of anyone "compliment" another man for... "how their bulge looks".
If you say wherever you go, women are gazing excitedly at your bulge and getting wet at the thought of you whipping it out, then you have a very... unique experience.
Have you ever had any other men say women come up to them to compliment their bulges, or would you say your dick is truly unique?
You’re a gay dude speaking on hetero sexual relationships.
*bisexual; I've also dated women
It’s probably a unique experience, because the average dick isn’t even big
Which is where the excitement comes from
Because once you have a big dick, it’s nice to fuck and arousing
It’s like finally pulling a girl with a fat ass
Most women do not care much, we can come much more easily without penetration. The huge penises in porn would probably intimidate a woman because they can be painful if you are not careful. The expression small or big penis energy suck by the way.
I'd say 15-20% really care a lot. We don't know what makes them like this. The general theory among men is that these are the ones who had a big one and the others just haven't.
I don't subscribe to that theory myself, but I have noticed a strong correlation between size queens and women who really like and value sex. Whatever that means.
Yeah I suspect lots of young women get big ones maybe and the guy is just inexperienced and hurts her. But just about every chick I’ve heard talk about booking up with a partner who’s large who they first didn’t enjoy, eventually adapted and learned how to take it, then consider it the best sex of their lives because it’s so intense and powerful vaginal full body orgasms. I suspect that’s what makes the 20% women. They spent time adapting and learned to love it.
IMO as a big dicked guy… I agree. Women down play it but, in the sheets they’re all “omg you fuck me so deeeeep 🤤💦”
Yep they dont want to admit it often around men or sound sluty or make men insecure so they keep it on the DL. But I was accidentally added to a girls private chat and got to see them all talk about how lucky so and so is to find a hot guy who’s also hung, or a girl talk about how she feels bad lying to her partners that size doesn’t matter, or all them laugh about how true it is they all have a big dick former partner they think about who rock their world, or “confess” that they miss a big dick blah blah. Or how one girl talked about her current guy was hung and she never thought she’d like large dicks until she found a guy who knows how to use it and feels like he ruined her because she can’t go back to normal if he breaks up with her.
It was pretty savage to see a bunch of chicks go mask off and honest about it. It seems like they do prefer larger dicks but will be fine settling for average. But if they get a larger than average they lucked out because it’s rare to find a bf who also has a large dick. So if they find both it’s like winning the lotto - but most women realize there aren’t enough big guys to go around so they have to come to terms that they’ll have to learn to be happy with average else they’ll be single forever… thus they say size doesn’t matter because they don’t want men to feel bad or get pushed away by feeling insecure
If you make her O, last a decent amount and be able to go again, it doesn’t really matter
Yeah but quality of orgasm matters. An intense powerful vaginal orgasm has certain requirements. I can also orgasm with my hand but won’t pretend like it’s the same as a tight pussy giving me an O.
And how would we know?
"Dick size is as important as height in male attractiveness."
Way to lose all credibility right off from the opening sentence. 😄
By the way, women do not talk about dick, or sizes, when they are having their "girl talks." That's the type of shit that only exists in an incel's mind because they are totally clueless about women.
To the nerdy reddit demographic that’s probably true. But for more social and open people, that conversation definitely happens. If a guy is hung she’s hooking up with, she’s telling her friends and bragging about it.
This may not be true with the anime watching and knitting shut in Reddit types… but I’ve heard numerous girls talk about it
That’s absolutely not true, I’ve witnessed my friend, who according to a woman, was “super hot” get rejected for having a small dick
Well. If he approached her with his dick out I can kinda see that happen.
She actually heard about his penis size from what another woman who’d slept with him told her, even though she thought he was an attractive guy, this was enough to sway her. I’m aware this doesn’t mean shit though, it’s an anecdote based off one thing that happened in my life I’m only including it because many others here are giving anecdotes
Penis size is literally one of the most talked about topics among women. Have you even heard them talk among themselves?
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I mean let's assume you are correct.
What is the point of discussing the importance of dick size in dating? Women like what they like and men can't change their size.
It’s simply to spark a discussion about the aspects of what determines a man’s physical attractiveness. I dick size up particularly because from what I hear in person and online, its value is MASSIVELY underrated. I think it could potentially help some dudes have a better understanding on where they stand in terms of attractiveness. Just anecdotally, I get pissed when people act like I don’t have anything to worry in about in dating as I’m tall and generally considered attractive, but they fail to understand that there’s a key component to attractiveness that they aren’t even taking into consideration.
It helps men know where they stand and how much effort they need to put into dating, or if any effort would be wasted.
Lol you're somewhat correct but not fully.
Small dick guys will never satisfy a woman. But being at least 5.5 to 6 is the bare minimum. You have to know how to use it and most guys don't.
Dick size ain't everything. Understanding how to pleasure a woman is.
You're a bit naive but you will learn
MINIMUM? try max
that's definitely more the minimum thats why when women say their size preferences they usually say "at least 6 inches" I've never heard 6 inches max lol
6 inches would be the max for me. Who wants to be sore the next day?
Different strokes. I'm slightly bigger than 6 and I've been called small
i reckon girth plays a larger role
I don't think size matters too much, most women say men last seconds. Simply lasting for at least a minute puts one ahead of most.
Yes there's a minimum but the amount of guys that can take advantage are very small.
i completely agree
she was just a hoe my guy
Unfortunately those are very common
The height and ethnicity of the woman absolutely matter.
Yes but having a larger size and knowing how to use it… is where the magic is at. That’s why these guys get constant FWBs and return customers.
and?
why do men who "want" women constantly think about cock and other men ? it's fine to be gay or bi
When are yall gonna stop using that when dudes bring up anything?
Calling dudes gay for an insecurity is trashy as hell
it's just weird. if the woman did the same thing. i'd have the same response. it's weird as fuck to be constantly comparing your genitalia.
There’s more weight that goes into a man’s size dude.
People constantly use it to belittle dudes. It’s no wonder some are worried about it.
who cares. if your belittled shrug it off. random strangers thoughts should no matter at all. regarding this topic
You literally did the same about a post about children not too long ago even though you are against having children??
It had nothing to do with you at least this has something to do with men.
hmm ? what post are you referring to again ?
i want men to be secure in themselves. comparing their genitalia constantly is not the way.
Literally the first one on your account.
You want them to be secure in themselves by calling them gay if they have an insecurity?
Things like that is why they have an insecurity
I'm talking about grown men. how did this topic even come up ? wtf
being called gay isn't a insult away. Grown men seem to be insecure about it for no reason.
“If you’re belittled shrug it off”
Cause you’re using it as an insult. Why are you calling straight dudes gay over an insecurity?
Which one is it? I wanna help them or they are ridiculous?
Bro, this subreddit is primarily for the discussion of gender issues and attraction. Penis size is absolutely a relevant topic here
Even queer men don't think about it that much. It's more about bears, twinks and twunks. This obsession is uniquely red pilled.
First, don't act like you talk for "queer" men.
Second, stop calling gay and bisexual men "queer".
It's fairly common for gay mens profiles to implicitly or explicitly bring up penis size.
It's just so weird i don't understand it. it makes no sense.
They got insulted in a Call of Duty lobby once and never got over it.
Idk it could be the fact that plenty of women use it to insult dudes???
Again remember when I said women don’t listen to dudes about their issues and if they do we are told “just get over it”
Dude, you can't pull this nonsense with me. I have been involved in competitive gaming for decades. The activity that is infamous for people being excessively rude and having no filter. You know how many times I've heard women use this an insult? Maybe once or twice, and it wasn't even that bad. Dudes, on the other hand, use this as an insult against each other on the daily.
So because men do an action it’s ok?
So because a woman hits a man he should hit her back?
Do you realize how dumb that sounds? Not to mention I’ve been called a lot of things for just rejecting women or in just disagreeing.
You literally just saw a woman call dudes gay for an insecurity but now wanna talk about dudes doing it?
Well you are the one trying to make it seem like women insulting men about their size is a massive societal issue, whereas in reality it's 99.9% dudes insulting each other. Simple reality check.
Remember when Greta thunburg made a dick joke against Andrew Tate and was celebrated?
That doesn’t hurt him but the many other men that hear it.
It is a massive issue. I’ve heard more women say “small dick energy” than men.
Simple reality check and you didn’t answer my questions.
If you hear someone insulting the tater tot and think that it's being directed against you, you are unwittingly telling on yourself lmao.
I see it similar to how men view breasts.
Ideally we want some nice firm big breasts. But the reality is, if you meet someone you like and they have something else, you're probably not going to be that bothered.
I think issues only arise at extreme ends of the scale, if you have micro penis or very large penis.
Most of the sexually active women I know have a penis size preference that is larger than average. For casual sex big penis is one of the biggest factors.
I know women including myself that care about dick size. If it’s not 7 inches or more they typically get tossed back to the pool.
Yeah I don’t get why the size doesn’t matter thing is so widespread
It doesn’t mean that it isn’t 🤷🏾♀️ the world is too big to make generalizations
7 inches is perfect, ideal is 6+
Also, under 5.5 circumference is just unbearable.
True. I'd rather be with someone who's 5'6 with a 7' dick than with someone who's 6'4 with a 5' dick.
If I was a woman I d prefer smaller.
That’s kinda gay
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