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I am interested to know why you need to spice it up? What is wrong about it ATM? Do you need more dopamine hits? You can get that elsewhere you know.....
Firstly it is not the top males only sleeping with the women. Unless you consider my post man, the guy at my garage, and the guy at the supermarket as top guys.
You have basically regurgitated a theory which is purported over the internet, so you give creators money via courses and likes and subs, because they tell you what you want to hear. It's not your fault, these women only like these extraordinary men. Just go outside to see it isn't true even remotely.
Secondly. Men do not give up on women generally speaking, because the majority have no clue about their sexual energy and are desperate to sleep with anything that moves to manage the sexual urges.
What you're suggesting Is the guys you used to date who you thought were ok, are now mental for some reason. Because these men are also now in the dating pool.
Yes just keep going mate.
You can't take seriously what a women says, it will change by the hour!
Look at the evidence. She was kissing you etc. she was well into you, I wouldn't try and work out her mind after that. And you did well to attract her.
Just move on to the next one now. And take the confidence from the last experience with you
Firstly, humans are able to create their own meanings.
Second point. Meaning is assigned by thought. Thought is extremely limited and cannot understand true meaning, doesn't mean there is no meaning.
You should try and get back with the guy if he is Mr perfect for you.
Yes as a man you need to stand out. We kinda got it the opposite generally ATM. People are worshipping female bodies and falling over females, no wonder females detest most modern men. It's the male who is meant to be the one revered not the female!
To get noticed you will either have to project something, confidence, humour, strength. Or if you're not that type, demonstrate with your actions......
I never lived in US.
But generally speaking Western Europe is extremely safe. Some small pockets of crime, noticably in London lately for knife crime. But generally it's safe, you don't need a weapon, and generally can walk around alone at night without being worried.
Not exactly a proper experiment is it?
I have lived and travelled in many of the countries you mention and I'm almost 6ft 6.
It makes no difference dating in those countries. The only thing you get in Mexico Peru is a lot of people giggling and pointing how freakishly tall you are.
Ayahuasca doesn't lie, but your brain and imagination can lie or come up with all sorts of nonsense, especially whilst taking Aya. Discernment is key when taking Aya.
"What are some good ways to meet women without coming of as creepy?
Wud be interested to know what you mean by creepy? Wanting sex? Isn't that what you want? If it is just ask. It's easier than being creepy!
Looks are subjective. The op said physical prime.
I dunno how it is for women, but for men, a lot of the physical stuff comes quite late on -obvs different for every man. But some men don't physically stop growing until very late. especially in the shoulder areas.
I don't think anyone finds it creepy except for some women, and I guess that's because they don't want you going for the younger girls.
Well I recently discovered I have body dysmorphia. If that's the right word. A delusional sense of the body. I think this came from trauma in my childhood and I guess part of my brain thinks I'm still a small child.
I mentioned before on here.
But when I'm out practically everyone I think is taller and bigger than me. It's only when they really close and it's obvious they're not my brain registers. But I go around most of the day subconsciously believing I'm small, when in fact I'm 6 ft 5 nearly 6 and weigh 200 pounds.
It's also not only height. I often look at someone and think how broad they are or how big their arms are, but in reality mine are bigger.
So yes. All the time I feel small but in reality I'm not. Quite weird really.
Women get approached men have to approach. Always been like this. So if you are scared as a man to approach or get rejected you're kinda screwed.
So in terms of having to do something to get a date, then yes women have it easier. But I think once on the date it's more of a combined effort but the women has a safety net knowing it's likely someone else will ask them out, where as the guy will have to go through the rejection process again if it fails.
It is what it is I guess.
In the East, many men not wishing to engage, would, when out in public, walk and look down at their big toe when going past a women. Hth.
It means...
Initially u got massive dopamine hits from having sex with him. Like all drugs the effects wear off and larger or more exotic doses the addict wants.
Usually manifesting in going with someone else, ramping things up in the bedroom....
That's the way it will go if you carry on with your addiction.
Be aware this has nothing to.do with him. Just your addiction.
I would try and love and desire the actual person rather than using him to get your hit. This way relationship can continue if that's what you want.
Normally men are asked what they do for work or don't get asked anything at all, leaving all conversation initiation to them, which can make one nervous.
I think to put at ease ask some interesting questions about him, what he likes doing. That way you're showing a genuine interest in him and reflexively he won't feel the need to impress
It is impossible to be scared of violence. You are only able to be scared of the thought of violence not violence itself.
Do you want to live your life scared of a thought?
First of all you need to cultivate sexual energy. This is your imprint so to speak, the point out of which you vibrate out into the universe. It is " your song".
Your song goes out to the ether via your actions. The energetic vibrations from your actions are then detected and picked up by people vibrating on a similar level, doing similar things with similar goals.
You don't need to do anything to find them. The universe takes care of that as long as you play your part, denoted in steps 1 and 2 above.
This is how you achieve "flow" type relationships.
I think one of the main issues rarely talked about is "The big lie".
This was a propaganda method successfully used by Goebbels in WW2. It goes, if you tell a big enough lie, and repeat it loud and often enough, people start to believe it, even if it is nonsense.
And the men guiding younger men are feeding them nonsense so they can make money.
They have actually convinced young men, perfectly intelligent and handsome young men That if they even want a slight chance with women, then they are not good enough. Only giant men with giant schlongs and bank accounts have sex.
What horse cp!
Is your father Brad Pitt? Or his dad? How did you get here? How did Dave down road get here? Is his dad Robert Redford? What about the guy with 3 kids at the supermarket...the list is endless..
Men you need to switch off the influencers and build some faith in life, women and most importantly yourself.
Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.
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