Stop trying... be yourself... take care of you. The rest will happen

Get the biggest pair of dirty work boots (men’s) and leave them outside your front door. Get security Cameras that you can monitor... possibly consult a security firm.

I’ve made a good stovetop from a can and I burned sticks in it.

I’d NEVER do this to my wife or accept it from her... that’s annoying ass heck.

Quit caring what a bunch of Reddit comments tell you... some might care but generally Reddit is the Scorched Earth of relationships... positive advice maybe but all else? Bah Fooey.

Are you talking about the top trim board sticking past the end? If so that’s a very common style where I’m at.