She can hire a dependable nanny.
You're never going to win, as long he has a need for his mother's approval. He'll never fix the lost time with her, and now he's doing the same thing with your child. NTA time to move on.
Updateme!
You did this for you, how embarrassing. You are a TERRIBLE person. YTA
Have you heard the saying: Don't bring a knife to a gun fight." The sword isn't practical for self defense.
Choose Lana. Ella is lying.
Updateme!
Wait until he brings his daughter to the hospital to meet the new baby, OP is going to go mental.
Nope, I wouldn't use the toothbrush.
I have a sister who allowed her bio daughter's stepfather to peep on her, and then make my niece apologize to him for freaking out, NTA.
You're not the bad guy.
NTA - I have a friend who divorced her husband and he finally told her, he was only with her because he thought she would what's get money from her parents. She's an adult, she'll either figure it out or she won't.
Lord, I'm so happy my kids don't want children. The idea of grandkids distresses me.
They almost always kill the mother.
Why would you stay with her?
What are weird for them to die on. You might as well put a picture of everybody’s dead parents or relatives at your wedding based on their logic. NTA
I can't imagine he's worth it, especially since she's never going too go away.
Holy insecurity Batman. If she thinks you're going to cheat at a funeral, she's not worth marrying. NTA
AITA for telling my fiancée "I guess our wedding isn't as important to me as you thought" after she told me not to go to an old friends funeral?
AmItheAsshole