I sort of just got to the age where I knew it wouldn't matter what the reaction would be, I could just go home haha.

Absolutely none of my fucking business. Everything will work out for you op, you deserve to be here

Find an interest, show up to that interest every day/week and you'll start learning names and talking to people. Even if it's just asking questions, next time you see that person you'll know someone. Keep going and you'll naturally draw your people in.

Example my interest is yoga, I've made so many friends at my studio within just a year

I was the 19 year old that knew what I wanted.... Spoiler alert I did not. Like others said, just stay on your brother's side. Be there for him, keep up to date on how he's feeling. Older men know how to say things to keep the interest, know how to play the game to their advantage. Not saying this is what's happening, but just let your brother know you're on his side no matter what

It's really hard to keep up a strong interest with a new person over just text, if you don't have the ability to see each other regularly. He could still be interested, you're just not physically available. Not trying to give you hope or anything though, my recommendation is to not pursue someone if it doesn't feel like they're pursuing you in return.

I'm not because we all know gays and girls can't drive (as they shouldn't know how to in the first place)

To add to that, when you're trying to merge with your blinker, so everyone pulls up further just so you can't get in front of them

You could give me $5000, if you wanted to that is

So many other options to choose from, it makes me laugh when I see a line at any Hattie B's location

Gonna piggy back off of this to say get vaccinated for HPV

If it's not your thing people should accept that and move on. I'm a needy bottom too, but if the top isn't going to enjoy it, how will I?

Oh yeah I feel sorry for him. That kind of hate rots your insides

This is just worked for me, I picked up a hobby I can take with me and started going to a little cafe close to me. After a while of doing that people started recognizing me, asking me how progress was going, talking about their hobbies, and just go from there. Invite people to sit with you or to bring their hobbies in sometime

Do you like him, or is he attractive and unobtainable so you're addicted to the chase? I realized I was addicted to the small little bits of dopamine I got when my one sided crushes would give me any sort of attention, but that doesn't mean they liked me back. Situations like this made me realize I was feeling humiliation, and not just sad or lonely. Once you realize how shitty that feels it's super easy to get over someone. Dudes that make you feel lead on, that create expectations for you just to let you down, make you feel less than because you're in different stages of life, etc. do not deserve you.

Her constant power stance live in my mind rent free

I love them, one of the hottest guys I've hooked up with was covered head to toe and had two gold canine teeth 😍 I hope he's doing well

"Azealia Banks oddly suggests SZA jacked her style"

It's to the point that if the DJ were to start playing Britney I would go feral. I can't name any specific songs, but I've been out before and thought "they're playing a lot of mens songs tonight huh?"