( 26M ) I’m on a sports team and have a mild crush on a team mate. I noticed before that sometimes he will be a bit rude to me specifically. So a few hours ago we were on a work out session, and I was so happy when I saw him. Wasn’t expecting at all, since he was on a shift during the afternoon (doctor). I finished my part and as I was walking out I tap his shoulder and said “You got this!!!” to what he replies “You’re not done! You skipped one!”. I go “really?” and turn to my other mate to check it, cause if I actually had done that, I would have to do one more. Everything’s fine till then.
But as I go I hear “you should stop worrying about other people’s lives and learn how to count”.
I don’t know. I feel stupid. Just got my things and went home.
Other time he called me “inelegant” when I tried to cheer him up, and later came to “apologize”, although it wasn’t an apologize really. It was something in terms of “let me tell you what I meant cause you got it wrong….”. I took it as I joke and let it went away, but today I’m kinda hurt 😕
He’s one of those circuit party instagays, and I know I’m not as successful (ten years younger) or have as much money as he does, but I liked him.
UPDATE: Saw him today and he was actively avoiding me. Literally talking to everybody else and giving me his back lol. I’m done with this shit. Sad to loose a friend, but guess we never even were in the first place