For momentum.

An uncle just got married and they went on a nice trip to Hawaii and had a ceremony there by themselves. Then when they came back they went to the courthouse with just their parents and kids and later that day had a casual bbq with probably around 40 people. Very low key, bring your own drinks. It served its purpose.

I love Aegon (in the sense that he is interesting and entertaining). I love Daemon in that same way.

My advice would be don’t wait for the questions, be upfront. So like.. instead of waiting for the “where are we going for your bachelorette?” tell your friends right away your plan or that you are skipping it. It applies to everything else you don’t want to do

It’s your wedding so whatever you want, you don’t need the approval from strangers. There are no rules. You don’t need to meet the expectations of people, it’s your wedding. Just be clear with your guests about what the plan is.

Well I’m giving them a 3 course meal why am I getting downvoted lol

I was in Tulum during a category 2 hurricane a few years ago and it lasted one night. It wasn’t bad. However if you’re in a resort they might move you from your room and that would be very annoying. You might spend a night or 2 at the convention center to be safer. I would cancel.

Full planner. For me, it was absolutely worth it, but I’m not the average person because I work up north so I’m away 50% of the time. I couldn’t do this without a planner, but if I had the time I don’t know if I would say the same.

I had a B-list. I have more family/friends than money lol… so there were some people I couldn’t invite before knowing other people wouldn’t come. Doesn’t mean I didn’t want the B-list people there, it’s just that I couldn’t afford to have everyone.

Plus around 4k for the planner

Kelowna bride here.

I will give you two breakdowns: the suggested by the planner and the real one. Our planner told us that for what we wanted 35k should be doable, 90 guests. We are getting married at the family home so this budget doesn’t include venue.

PLANNER BUDGET: - Attire & beauty: 1,050 (3%) - Ceremony (officiant): 350 (1%) - Catering, service staff & alcohol: 18,200 (52%) - Stationary: 350 (1%) - Flowers: 3,500 (10%) - Photography: 2,100 (6%) - Music: 2,100 (6%) - Rentals/Design: 3,850 (11%) - Transportation: 2,450 (7%) - Miscellaneous: 1,050 (3%)

This is what we spent: - Beauty & Attire: 3,200 just for me - Officiant: 250 - Catering: 12,000 - Service staff: 5,000 - Alcohol: TBD - Stationary: No idea, a lot because I’m DIYing and lost track of it. - Flowers: 3,800 - Photography: 1,975 - Music: 2,080 - Rentals: 5,560 - Transportation: 2,610 - Miscellaneous: 2,990 (His wedding ring 1520, mine 1020, marriage license 100, favours 350)

The way you spelled misspelled Caraxes made me think Michael Cera as a dragon

I would watch an entire show just following her around

Honestly people should keep these fake posts under other threads like AITA where you expect 95% of the posts to be fakes

I was taken aback when my planner told me I needed to feed all my vendors with the same meal. They even got to pick. That’s a lot of money in my opinion, I’m feeding the photographer, the dj, the dj’s assistant, the planner and the planner’s assistant. And the planner, the assistant and the photographer need a seat with the guests.

I asked my photographer to basically just do candids + a few portraits. I find most of the photos soooo cringe, especially because my fiancé hates pictures so it would be doubly awkward and cringy,

I want a “That’s so Haleana” spinoff and to see her visions

Except Rhaenys wasn’t name heir.. Rhaenyra was

I think it’s normal, I understand both sides. My advice is don’t take it personally and adjust your expectations. I’m on the other side of the spectrum, I’m the first to get married and everyone is so hyped, and I’m trying to lower that hype because I know I will not be able to afford 7 million crazy bachelorettes and events once everyone else starts getting married

100%. He can be a violent blood thirsty person and still be loyal LOL. Question other things but not this specific trait.

Recession Marry You-Bruno Mars played by a cello and violin.

First dance Perfect - Ed Sheeran

People are kinda mean, it’s your wedding, if you like them and the bridesmaids are comfortable wearing them, do it. I would wear it (I’m a size 12), but it definitely requires some spanx because slip dresses usually accentuate the wrong spots. I wouldn’t mind tho.

Taylor

Alicent doesn’t know Rhaenyra didn’t give that order, Rhaenyra doesn’t know if Luke’s death was an accident. There is miscommunication, that’s a fact. Yes they usurped the throne but that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t be willing to negotiate peace. Both sides lost a son. Now it is clear war is the only option. I’m not saying it was perfectly executed but I understand the reasoning behind it and I liked it.