Yes that’s why POTs want “free” M&G and consider an arrangement only the moment intimacy starts otherwise they call us “rinsers” I would argue there is companionship but apparently most only want to pay if there is intimacy…. Don’t worry about it what is done is done. I did many things with my past SD but never had full s*x so he was possibly also considering me that way.
How to find sexual compatibility? On top of everything else compatibility? I often wonder. Maybe being asexual at least may have specific dating apps, whereas having varying libidos can’t be quantified…
Waow you must have a lot of time to dig out post history and paste it here seriously…. No I’m looking for a PERSONALITY and my own age (up to 15 years older) Young dudes are just hot and after sex. And sure they like me. But nevertheless you are right. Soft, feminists (eventhough they all complain about feminists), introverts, homebodies, sensitive…and usually have a powerhouse of a woman by their side. You are right it’s not for me. I have a great career (been paying my top taxes for more than 10 years) and great friends. And most of the time I’m happy with that. I also explore with kinks and that alternative scene when I want. The country is great and free like that. (Thing is a lot of danish women also want that stronger, outgoing, fun to be with successful man and often meet him abroad and bring him back)
You are right. No delusions. You can’t have it all and I’m mainly asking for a personality. Yes of course one who is in her 40s shouldn’t be as picky. I am on my A game, for my age. And I am willing to date much older than myself!! And irl I also sometimes date younger as, and I’m gonna be flamed for it lol, people think I am younger than I really am.
OP has an issue = OP must be the problem. Haha
I meant danish men sexual prowess. As a positive. Yes i speak the language too. And been studying self development for many years. I work with men and love them. I’m in a male dominated field even.
No let’s just recognize and accept there is a cultural difference that not just me but all foreign women are struggling with
This was just for the needs of the post…trying to describe myself. I can’t really come here and say Im ugly and boring and don’t understand why I can’t find anyone… Idk what I’m trying to achieve here, just make my point and not ask anyone to change but just accept that I don’t fit this culture when it comes to dating and relationships. Friendships, social life and work like are great and I’m the first to defend Danes saying I didn’t have too hard time befriending them they are super friendly (mainly women), trustworthy and loyal. Most Important values.
You mean everywhere else than Scandinavia? In my country men also wash the dishes…lol but yes the culture is different. I’ve tried all sorts of changing myself and taking the lead, showing interest putting myself out there with no reciprocity just a “you are an amazing woman…” and nothing. Princess, you mean men want to be princesses right? Or weren’t they complaining about feminists making their lives too hard (or too easy??) But special bonus points for your sex skills ;)
I think I don’t fit their culture (for relationships) and I shall change.
Waow thanks, this is the most constructive reply!! Yes all my other expats friends have run into the same issues. Really great gals! Only the Americans didn’t have issues. And it’s partly bc they are extremely outgoing that personality type may mesh well with danish men. My expat friends who settled for a Dane had to settle for less. Less educated, and no passion for career, and homebody/not social, but of course the other inner qualities made up for it and made it a good mate. I really really like this country…so this is the only downside. Spending my life with danish women because as you said danish women are amazing. Very high level of self confidence while humble, friendly, outgoing, smart, independent, ambitious, fun,…all the qualities I look for in a man lol. Also this is the only place where I’ve heard (even) local women looking for a foreign man…
Thank you for your constructive input. It’s just that with other nationalities it clicks, here it clicks in friendships, at work as colleagues, even roommates but just not romantically the elusive “falling in love” I don’t push their right buttons.
See post above. I’ve been looking for love for so long and failing, hence an interest (no experience) for the alternative dating style…since I seem to get more appreciation in that way :/
You may attack my SB posts but that’s only because I failed at dating for love normally. I’m a humble person, I’m just trying my best to describe things for the needs of this post. I know it’s not coming off the best way…Not make a dating profile.
Is she at a level so below you (and such income difference) that you can take care of another girls´rent while she is saying being in need of a SD??
It was actually in this forum they suggested Botox to help with the downturned mouth. (Injecting around outside corners on a few points)
Nice to hear because I’m such a perfectionist I’m the nightmare demanding customer…
No it didn’t but it’s weird to hear the “crunch” noise of the needle going in towards the temples. You have a numbing cream applied beforehand.
Thank you that’s so kind
Haha no it’s not! My use of Reddit photos integration isn’t great so thanks for that.
The bottom is the after. The second is the before
Yes, haha the third is actually for a “Y2K dress up party” and only joined that photo to see the after on the mouth corners.
It was only 3 ml. And they suggested the temples as it’s a classic where we age and lose volume first. So temples / then cheeks overall in that area. And lips. Botox around the mouth where it was inverted, and on top of eyebrows area. I did extensive research and traveled to see them. They only do that basically.
Go out on some hobbies and socializing where women into the same sort of thing may go to. And take a closer look at how you present your own dating profile. A sens of wit, good personality, and just being a responsible adult goes a long way!!
For the ladies - Just how important is money?
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