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It sounds like you come from somewhere where men and women are expected to conform to gender roles in order to be seen as Men or Women.
That's not compatible with most Danish men, who would prefer to be treated as People.
Having poofier hair will not get you a nicer drink. Expecting a man to pay by default or to "defend you" or get jealous if someone talks to you is going to be a turn-off. Some dudes are into princess behaviour, but most want at least some level of equality and reciprocity.
So if your flirty behaviour plays into any of that, or if after a couple of dates, you make it clear you are looking for a traditionally gendered relationship, most Danish men will dip.
P.S. Tak gutter. Jeg skal nok holde min egen dør og betale mine egne regninger hvis i bliver ved med at tage opvasken og gå op i mine orgasmer. 👍👍
You mean everywhere else than Scandinavia? In my country men also wash the dishes…lol but yes the culture is different. I’ve tried all sorts of changing myself and taking the lead, showing interest putting myself out there with no reciprocity just a “you are an amazing woman…” and nothing. Princess, you mean men want to be princesses right? Or weren’t they complaining about feminists making their lives too hard (or too easy??) But special bonus points for your sex skills ;)
Yes, patriarchy predominates the global scene, this isn't the own you think it is. And a lot of Danish men are feminists, which seems to be one of the problems you're encountering.
You may want A man, but you don't sound like you like men all that much.
Nowhere did I mention my sexual prowess, clearly you're putting as much effort into learning the language as you are into achieving self-insight.
I meant danish men sexual prowess. As a positive. Yes i speak the language too. And been studying self development for many years. I work with men and love them. I’m in a male dominated field even.