I mentioned to my partner that there was an upcoming beach day for FTMs over 30, and they (NB) wondered why it couldn’t just be a trans beach day over 30. I guess the main critique was that many queer people including trans men are transmisogynistic and not welcoming to trans women, to the point of making meetups worded in a way that make them “safe” from people AMAB.
Idk if the age minimum is as much of an issue, since that’s a reaction to much of queer life centered around young people. But is there’s a need to create a “safe space” for trans men? Like you can still pair off with men at a trans meetup if you vibe with them more than the women, and that way the meetup doesn’t have to contribute to trans women feeling like pariahs. Is there a valid defense of this kind of hyperspecific group?
Trans men are often pushed to the side or spoken over at general queer, or general trans, events. So it makes sense that some would arrange events only for trans men.
If the wording was implying that the exclusion was necessary for safety, that's a whole different matter, and is totally transmisogynistic.