I (38m) have been seeing someone (38f) regularly and consistently since March. We had our first dispute this week, which was resolved, but in that conversation she mentioned she’s not ready to be my girlfriend or call me her boyfriend.
We are not “exclusive” although I think she would be very upset if I was seeing/sleeping with someone else. Our only agreement is that we will disclose if we have sex with someone else so the other person can than decide what’s best for them and their own sexual health.
She tells me she really likes me and acts like we are BF/GF but she doesn’t want any commitment. Is this a big red flag? Up until this point I just thought we were getting to know each other and having fun. Seemed like it was natural that it was progressing into a relationship. Now I’m kind of feeling weird, like it’s a waste of time.
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