Recs please. He has a big dick, but he doesn’t slam it in during their first time.

{Take Me to the River by Kaci Rose} He’s a protective mountain man and even delays having sex with her because he’s worried he’s too big. It’s a low angst, smexy read with a lot of comforting if you’re in the mood for that. Fair warning : dorky nicknames included. Story feels like a warm bath - with strategically placed water jets. 😆

{Guarded by the Snake by Layla Fae}

My god 🥵

He is a snake monster working as a hired body guard.

He has two 😏 and they're huge, and she's like... hell no. But he's sooooooo slow. Patient. Lots of praise, comfort, "just the tip", ughhhhhhhhhhhh.

Actual slow, sensual, time taking, sex. Super refreshing. Bit sick of constant rough sex that she just happens to be fine with.

....

Bit of predator prey vibes too. He likes the idea of coiling around her, holding her still. Taking control while she just takes what he gives.

{Chasing Cassandra by Lisa Kleypas} he is so careful with her, and after accepting that the initial position is not working, he switches to spooning and doesn’t even thrust, just keeps touching her and lets her wriggle until he’s all the way in

{Breathe the Sky by Michelle Hazen} CR, FM. This is a bit of a spoiler but Spoiler

{Guarded by the Snake by Layla Fae} has several long scenes of this and they are all 🥵. He is a big protective snake man bodyguard and he takes his time and it’s so so good.

{I married a minotaur by Regine Abel}, they have a considerable size difference and she's worried so he lets her set the pace.

{When She Purrs by Ruby Dixon} it's a while since I read it, but I remember some slow going during their first sex scene while she gets used to it

I just read {Beauty and the Blacksmith by Tessa Dare} and it has this. This novella is so sweet.

Sophie Scaife series by Abigail Barnett. It's an age gap series which isn't my thing, but it was hot and he was... Large ... It's very BDSM, he's a billionaire (of course). There's I think 6 books? I stopped after book 5 because there was a huge tone shift that I wasn't ready for.

Quite a few trigger warnings BDSM Chronic illness Death Hospitals

{Soul of a witch by Harley Laroux} is perfect for this

Almost every Ali Hazelwood? 😬

{Nyx by Serena Akeroyd} he has a big one that has always been too big for everyone and its very realistic about how that works for both of them. Also piercings... enjoy 😉

{Holiday Intrusion by Nora Ash} Spoiler

Morning Glory Milking Farm by CM Nascosta. Based on a few other responses I guess this is a common trope for Minotaur romances

{Heart of the Domini by Talia Rhea}. You have to read the first 4 in the series for the plot to make sense, but they are all really good. There's really detailed world building, real character development and a decent overarching plot.

Big plot point in {My Minotaur Husband by Lyonne Riley} Super sweet novella and he is very focused on her overall comfort and happiness in all aspects 🥰

{Bitter Sweet Heart by H. Hunting} - Maverick the MC is Alex Water's (from Pucked) son so he's super hung. He is very knowledgeable about lube.

{Tangled Like Us by Krista and Becca Ritchie} - Thatcher is very intentional about not bruising Jane's cervix

{Lights Out by Navessa Allen}. First time they have sex he’s VERY cautious and wants to ensure she’s properly prepped…and the FMC just yells at him to fuck her

Maybe {A lot like adios by Alexis Daria}? He seems to think he's bigger than most, so he tries to take it slow with her.

Just finished { girl gone viral by Alisha Rai } and given that you dont mind books with medium-ish spice this could be a perfect fit for you .

A Soul to Touch by Opal Reyne (dustwalker brides, #3) The first book of the series is really good, not so much the second but the 3rd 🥵.

I’m pretty sure Hannah Grace is really good about this. Her hockey players are stacked every which way and they all (so far the two) give their respective FMCs time to adjust!

ETA: {Icebreaker by Hannah Grace} {Wildfire by Hannah Grace}

Thank you for asking this! I can’t remember if we had a thread like this recently or if I’ve just been wishing we did. I would like to read “it’s so big” and then working her/him up to it with lots of patience and praise and “tight fit, but we get there…” and then the delightful release of when it’s in and we get to the painless stroking part.🥵 Not a fan of “it hurt, but she didn’t mind.” It’s wish-fulfillment fiction! Can’t we make it not hurt at all??? /rant

{The Hookup Equation by Roxie Noir} the MMC really REALLY cares that it’s good for the FMC who is a virgin.

Idk if you’re into this but:

{A Pack for Christmas by Jillian West}

It’s a RH, sweet Omegaverse, interconnected standalone, first in “The Omega Exchange Series.”

There is one MMC in the book that is described as a mountain of a man. When it’s finally time for him and the FMC to get down and dirty he’s actually very reluctant and afraid bc of his size. He confesses to her that he’s actually really inexperienced with sex, bc every time he tried before he was just too big and most women saw his size as a challenge. He’s like genuinely embarrassed about all of this and is terrified he’ll hurt the FMC, their scene starts slow bc he’s so unsure of himself and self-conscious. It’s was really cute tho. ☺️

I hope this helps!

{Amour Amour by Krista and Becca Ritchie} i think. He's 6 ft 4 at least and FMC's about 5'3 or less

{Dizzy by Cate C. Wells}

{This Could Be Us by Kennedy Ryan} I loved this book and the one she released last year but this one specifically has the issue of needing to take it slow and worrying about the fit. What else I loved about the book: she’s divorced and a single mom, so finding love again after heartbreak, she is a strong Black woman entrepreneur and influencer, leads a bell hooks book club, and is learning to love herself. The MMC falls first, and is also divorced but has a great coparenting relationship with his ex as they parent twin boys. He gives space and time when the FMC asks for it or seems unsure. Love love love!

{Fall of Ruin and Wrath by Jennifer L. Armentrout}

{Unfortunately Yours by Tessa Bailey} fits the bill, it’s the second in a series about a wine family in Napa.

The Orc Prince by Qua Hudson

{Morning Glory Milking Farm by C.M. Nacosta} lol

{Knockout by Sarah MacLean} It’s a great scene.

{PUCKED (THE PUCKED SERIES BOOK 1) by Helena Hunting} has this! It’s a CR hockey romance.

Alex is very concerned about Violet being able to take his huge man part. It comes up a lot in the book. Great story. This book made me love hockey romances!

Brash brothers by Jenna Myles. 9 brothers (found family) all find love in their own books, each book is about a 5 hour read. Very liberal cussing and curvy girls. There are usually sexy times leading up to the main event. Which is a nice change from meeting someone to sex the next day.

{Never Sweeter by Charlotte Stein}

The MMC's dick is described as a Pringles can.

Okay so went to check a recent read {dragon called by Cassie Alexander} and even pulled some paragraphs

Urban fantasy, He is a dragon shifter. First time they have sex he takes his time.

🐉🐉🐉But there...there... there...his lips and tongue were so insistent and the sensation of electricity didn't stop. It only heightened. One of her hands curled on the chair's armrest, the other wound tight in his hair, and her hips ground up of their own accord. "What're you doing to me?" she whispered.

She'd meant the question rhetorically, but that didn't stop him from pulling himself away from her to answer. "I'm big. I want you ready," before rolling his tongue across her elit again and starting to push two fingers inside. Andi felt her body tighten and then give against him, letting him in.🐉🐉🐉

Claimed by Evangeline Anderson. The MMC is taking every precaution to make sure the FMC is 100% ready and consenting to everything he does to her from holding her to kissing, even touching her body before he eventually gets down to it. In the book, the FMC is drafted in the Kindred bride selection, and she is required to spend a month with the intended husband. And of course, she is completely against it and tries every trick to get out of the contract. Each of the weeks is themed, holding week, bathing week, tasting week, and finally, Bonding week. But, along with the massive girth he has there's also his Mating knot, which is a large bump at the base of the shaft that expands once inserted in the FMC and will not release until the several hour long Bonding sex is complete. Think of the XL dildos sold by Bad Dragon and you will understand what I'm describing.

{Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood}

Now I want a book with the phrase “it’ll fit because you’re meant for me” and an immediate cut to awkward fumblings and apologies, and trying different positions lmao

{After the Night by Linda Howard}

I don’t remember specifics, but {Shark Bite by Naomi Lucas} has this. He’s actually too big so it makes it very difficult.

If you don’t mind monsters, the duskwalker bride series. Every MMC has to take his time.

Everyone's views on her are different, but Sarah J Maas writes sex with larger men quite well. MMC in A Court of Silver Flames, House of Sky and Breath, and Empire of Storms, are all described to "work their way in using small thrusts," and one even refuses his partners request to slam it in the first time because he doesn't want to hurt them (he only slams it in the second time because she is used to it and explicitly asks him to, and he still is hesitant snd makes sure to confirm, again saying he doesn't want to hurt her)

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{Anaconda by Lauren Landish} {The Way I Hate Him by Meghan Quinn}

{Tapping the Billionaire by Max Monroe} FMC is a virgin, but not inexperienced. Her best friend has - with no real evidence whatsoever - nicknamed the MMC "Big Dicked Brooks"... and it turns out to be true. When they're about to have p/v sex together the first time, the FMC even makes a comment about wishing he wasn't so big. He is very gentle and sweet about it.

I feel like I've read others where the MMC very explicitly makes the FMC cum with his fingers or mouth first to loosen her up and make the sex easier... but I'm blanking on all of them right now 😆 will add if any more titles come to me...

Flame kings captive. Nuff said.

Midnight in Scotland series by Elisa Braden.

Books 1, 2 and 3 all feature this. I’ve not read the rest of the series yet so can’t confirm on those.

Okay so, and I already regret this especially because it's gonna be controversial but purely from a "dude with a big dick doesn't slam it in" viewpoint? That Sik Luv by Jessie Hall.

{Tangled Like Us by Krista and Becca Ritchie}

{Things we left behind by Lucy Score}

The quote "I need you to relax, you don't have all of it yet" lives rent free in my mind.

{Things we left behind by Lucy Score}

The quote "I need you to relax, you don't have all of it yet" lives rent free in my mind.

Brides of the Kindred series by Evangeline Anderson

Cherrie Lynn - Unleashed, Rock Me, Breathe Me In / Leave Me Breathless. Get after it! 😘

{Thing We Left Behind by Lucy Score}

{The Orc Boss by Lark Green}

Very smutty. Kinda annoying FMC but good choice for what you're asking for, if you're also okay with fantasy.

{Chasing Cassandra by Lisa Kleypas}