17 reasons why this season sucked

I’m really confused by the folks who believed Harry. His body language from the second Melinda entered the mixer showed that he didn’t give a damn about consequences and was acting off pure impulse. His half-truths were evident (“I looked at her stomach and told her she’d look good pregnant”…sure, Jan) and all that vomiting was nerves bc he knew he’d be exposed sooner or later.

17?

The show in this format doesn’t work. Netflix should rip off Traitors, The Goat or House of Villains.

The show as it is will never work

I didn’t believe Harry from the beginning. And I thought Jess was so stupid to believe him. If you look at what happened in the past and on a previous show, he sucks. He’s a gaslighter and a narcissist. He threw Francesca under the bus and said he didn’t do something when she brought up something he did in front of everyone. Then with Melinda, he literally looked at her and said “no I didn’t”. Guys like that never change. A narcissist will always be a narcissist. His cries are a manipulation tactic. I also don’t see how dom could even be friends with him after he fucked his ex. Fuck that guy. He’s literally disgusting. The first ep he said something along the lines of “I hope I don’t leave here with an STD”

Harry is gross. Jess deserves better but she was dumb to even give him a chance.

1. I'm so stupid for believing Harry.

TIL it wasn't clear from the episode 🤷‍♂️

apparently there’s a video floating around of chris saying that those who weren’t in the house made a pact that if someone who wasn’t in the house made it to the “final” they would all vote for them and effectively fuck up the final

i also say we start a petition to get Harry off our screens, he’s clearly looking for anything but love and sadly i actually believed him at first. he’s a toxic manipulator

People asking why Christine and Nigel won is becoming redundant. It’s obvious the contestants were bitter. It’s not like viewers got to choose.

"Even though Melinda's kiss was real, Jess is right—she didn't need to humiliate her publicly. It was so tacky and just attention-seeking."

I think you mean HARRY did not need to humiliate her publicly. Also, didn't Jess ask Melinda to give her side? I agree that Melinda was enjoying the attention too much but I don't get all of the hate she's getting. Even referring to it as "Melinda's Kiss." Harry was the one the most in the wrong! Harry was the one who told Jess he loves her. Harry is the one who lied. And HARRY is the one who kissed Melinda, said he wanted to get her pregnant and fuck her.

Also how did Jess not expose her self to the stupidity of others when she literally matched with Harry and exposed herself to his toxicity?

Yeah you had me until when you said you believed harry

Just listening to the way Harry talks about women makes him not believable. To think that Jess would introduce him to her daughter made me cringe. Maybe it’s different for girl dad but Harry would be the last person I want around my daughter.

Why did it take you so long to see he had not changed? Literally Harry in episode 3 proves he had not changed all that much. He left for his date telling Elys that they were solid then on the date he said to Jessica that him and Elys were just friends. Anyone that thought he may have changed should have dropped the delulu at episode 3.

Genuinely curious as to how you thought Melinda was lying?

smartest and most classy

Jess

She can’t keep getting away with this! How do people still give her that label? Lmao

She dated Harry the whole time and after the show. That shows a serious lack of intelligence. Especially given the reputation he already had AND he already was lying in the villa

Then she said all that stuff to Melinda after she was the one who asked the question and wanted the girls to come forward. Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to. Especially when she wasn’t blindsided, she already knew something happened that shouldn’t have. If she came back that night and Harry said nothing, it would’ve been different. But she asked the question knowing Melinda had something to say

I liked her on LIB but knew she was a little too full of herself and it showed more here. She thinks she is God’s gift to man

Izzy is blind drunk on every episode. That was also true on LIB, even when they were back home. He really seems like he has a problem.

I would love to see who he is when he isn't drinking.

I’m sorry, but how did you believe Harry over Melinda?

This season was great cuz it was entertaining.

Its reality tv I expect it to be trash

1. Nick Lachey’s outfits. I almost spat my drink through my nose when he came out with that hat on. Who told him that looked good?

Because this show makes no sense. There's no gimmick or real premise for it to be interesting, there's no real incentive or competition (oh, a vacation?? We're already on one), and the people picked...well, you know they're only there to get more followers and screentime. (Fine, respect the hussle) but it's just boring.

Jess giving me main character energy

She is so annoying and attentionseeking to me. "Am I a strong, independent woman!!!"

Stfu

Everyone in the house was looking for looks, not love. What do these people know about love? Their partner could get a bad zit and they’ve be sleeping with another person the next night. 😂🤦🏻‍♂️

They need the comparability challenge wins to count as votes. If they break up then they lose those points. Or else the way the winner is picked is very dumb.

The fact that anyone believed Harry for a second is astounding to me. It’s so blatantly obvious what a gaslighting manipulator he is.

I feel like you’re saying a lot of things just to secretly paint an image of Jess that isn’t real. Most people here know she’s a phoney. Yes, Harry is terrible but she was awful to Melinda and Jesses way of talking to her actually seemed racist. I don’t know why else you’d be defending her.

I think Jess is in it to be famous. If she was truly in it for love, she’d steer very clear of this show and reality tv in general.

I completely agree with you about Christine and Nigel winning. Over Stevan and Alara ?!?! This season sucked. I was genuinely hoping Stevan and Alara would have won.

stevan and alara should not have won. i don’t know why people were so easily fooled. was alara genuine? sure. but stevan has always been another harry, just smarter about it. nothing he did was genuine. none of the relationships were real so christine and nigel winning was honestly a fitting way to end the season

Izzy doesn’t have a good heart. He was a bully on love is blind. He’s a “nice guy” who pretends to be a friend while waiting in the wings for a weak moment

17 - he was there, he literally just didn’t talk (as far as we saw)

But who is Jake?

perfect match and most of these shows were never meant to “find love.” they were created solely for the drama with any personal growth viewed as a bonus. but to your other points:

• Harry is one of the biggest non-criminal assholes to come through reality tv. everyone who has dated with him or met him has had nothing but bad things to say about him.

• Jess through this and her LiB appearance comes off as very calculated, but I like Tolu.

• I don’t think Xanthi was interested in finding a connection here. She put in little effort.

• Jake doesn’t have an interesting personality and isn’t a good/genuine person, I don’t know why they bothered to bring him back.

Wait when you say Kaz slept with Christine do you mean they had sex? I actually have no idea if this was discussed on the show as I fast forwarded the whole show 😂 Only watched scenes with Harry/Jess and sometimes the rest of the LIB cast as I didnt know anybody else and after watching the full first episode I just couldn’t continue.

The end was arbitrary. I'm not watching this to think, but... shouldn't it be some kind of dopamine payoff for the viewer in the end? What was even the point of having people in the house for that long? This was just sexy, vapid double-dare with the same continuity between episodes.

Either the editing was random, or the voting was fixed.

you are indeed stupid for believing harry😂

Harry is a sick man…sick

I can’t believe people believed in Harry!

He was nearly drunk in every scene if you looked at his eyes. Every thing he did and said were red flags.

I seriously worry about a lot of people if they thought they could trust him.

Izzy has the personality of a piece of dry toast

1. Literally a reminder that never trust a man 🤣

These are all reasons why the show is good trash tv.....and

Lmao people actually think this show is for finding love? While drunk in a Mexican Villa with other reality show contestants? JFC

15, I wish we had seen more of Xanthi. I think she would have made a good match with Justin.

She wasn't actually going to date or get in a relationship with anyone, she was already with someone before they began filming

1. I cannot believe Christine and Nigel won! For sure Alara and Stevan or Tolu and Chris deserved the win. I guess all the other cast members were envious of them and didn’t want to give them the money? Maybe they need to figure out another way to choose the winners besides cast members voting?

2. Izzy is just awesome. He seems like a genuinely good guy. I hope he finds a kind and caring woman.

3. What ultimately happened with Stevan?

After hearing Georgia’s story, it Seems like Harry has a pattern, he lies To get More attention

I really wanted Alara & Stevan to win

The games were pretty lame. The location had them outside sweaty all the time. Some of those ‘dates’ were…🫠 just weird. Do I want to go on a first date with someone and workout with giant wooden Flintstones weights?! No. I do not. I love Tolu and Alara. Had to go watch D&R to see her first show, and Kaz. Did she and Kaz ever speak about her ‘dating’ his brother?! Watching him on D&R go mad for Diana after 2 seconds/all physical- cause she and her sister have like -zero personality imo- made him saying he was all-in with Micah even less believable. Plus- having people from all over the world who might supposedly find ‘the one,’ but they live on different continents?!

1. i saw Chris made a TikTok saying that everyone gets a vote and all of the singles made a pact before they came in that if any of them got into the house/in a couple all the singles said they would all vote for said couple so he was saying that's why Nigel and Christine won (not sure if its true or not but it does make sense)
2. AGREEE Stevan and Alara should've won - my fave was Chris and Tolu tho (bc of her and her vulnerability and over all realness and bomb fashion sense!) but i couldn't tell if he was genuine
3. Chris is a total idiot and talks in circles to get out of shit (like when Xanthi blew him up to Tolu and he tried spinning he meant Tolu was holding him back from the experience bc he was happy - lol whaaaat?? make it make sense)
4. i loved Dom but not anymore he lowkey got weird too
5. Brittan and Holly were tooo much Christine too like this isnt THTH keep it in your pants jesus
6. i LOVED Xanthi

i knew Harry lied about the kiss bc i mean running to bed, crying and throwing up - lol wtf?

this season was disappointing i felt like mostly everyone was fake and just trying to boost their influencer stats

Harry pretending to throw up and hiding his face in the pillows was too much for me. He behaves worse than a spoiled toddler.

Is this Jess making this post?

1. Maybe Justin was one of the most genuine

Honestly, the smartest and most classy ones were Jess and Tolu.

1. I love Alara.

These are all why this season sucked?

Harry is nor ready to settle down. He knows it. We know it. Everyone should know it. He won't be ready until he is in his 30s and can't catch as much strange as he does now.

Ppl feeling bad for Tolu lol Tolu did not like Chris either. She likes black men. She is not attracted to white men but she's also open minded and did give it a shot. The reason I wasn't as salty about her treatment from the other guys is because she wasn't feeling them either. The only person who I was pissed at was dom. He is a fucking clown. Tolu had her own agenda and I ended up with a superb edit!loved her.

Izzy was awesome and I'm glad he was around but Micah was not into it. Oh well.

Even tho Steven needs to see a dentist, i do agree with you. Alara is wonderful and she and Steven should have won.

Dom did himself no favors coming back on this show... still talking about harry fucking potter.

Elys was so focused on ruining Harry's life and getting back at Micah wad sooooo funny. She could not let it go. She is crazy as fuck. Literally, her entire agenda was those two while they had no idea nor did they care lol

I liked Micah and kaz. They had the oddest chemistry. It didn't make sense but it worked.

I love this show. It is so stupid, fake and the premise is ridiculous but I'm here for it! Do not ver get rid of this shit!

It was also filmed so long ago and these people are already known after their shows air. They’re all mostly in other relationships already so it’s silly that they have to pretend this is happening now.

How did you believe Harry..?? Yikes

This who seas was super messy especially the girls who didn’t get picked and that was evident from who won. This might have made for good TV but I don’t think I’ll be so fast to watch season 3 knowing it’s some BS

1. Pretty sure I saw Jake walk in for the girl’s day because I thought, “he’s still there?”

Yeah the fact they picked the couple that was the newest couple over any of the other ones was a complete trash decision.

Number 3 got me confused. I mean, does anyone thinks this show is really about finding your perfect match?  Most contestants are well-known players and have no interest in a serious relationship. The whole dynamics of going on dates and having the opportunity to switch pairs constantly already says it all. Netflix is picking who can cause more drama. 

I kept wondering if the cast and crew were worried about Izzy being so drunk on camera constantly?? Seemed like he has a problem.

And Harry seemed to be on drugs as well.

Hated the ending!!

I wanted to believe Henry had changed, after all, he’d been objectified since he was 18. And I’m sure that does something to someone, I was thinking he’d gone to therapy and wanted to make a change. I really did try and give him the benefit of the doubt, but in the end, he just proved all the hate was right. He really is a fuckboy to the core, and his puppy dog face is a way to further pull his victims in.

I’m so glad I only watched the first episode. Once I saw Harry, I was like nope.

Re: 10, the ladies all said that the guys told them everything that happened. Why would Melinda think that was excluded and needed to be a secret discussion when they’ve all said they spoke openly?

Honestly I was disgusted with how Melinda was treated during that. Making the focus how she communicated instead of what she communicated was yuck.