I am trying to understand why soo many people are "ride or die" for Leah. I don't find anything striking about her personality personally. Is it the fact she comes off as ditzy so people think she is capable of doing no wrong ? The fact that she says "relatable things" like " I need to go to therapy." I think if someone with a personality like Liv, who is very straight-forward, moves around the villa like Leah does, people would dislike her. Before anyone says Leah is straight forward, I personally don't think she is. She talks big when the person is not there. She only mouthed F* to Rob because the other girls were there. When she is alone with Rob, she is a different person. She talked all this stuff about Rob( like him being dramatic, his crying turned her off ) to the girls, but then still tried to go back to him. She doesn't say this stuff directly to Rob. Also, I do not like how she territorial she got, including the "s*f*" when Nicole complimented Rob's boots.

What Connor did to JaNa was wrong, but that does not mean it doesn't show who Leah is as a person. She talked how Connor is an Ick, but I do think Leah seeks male validation and it can be seen through Rob and the Connor-Leah- JaNa situation. People are hating tremendously on Andrea for not being a girls girl, but Leah literally laughed with Connor when he was talking ill about JaNa to hype her up. I saw posts stating Andrea is not best suited for Rob because she is a Miami girl who will not want to live his Alabama lifestyle and how Leah is best suited, when Leah is a Calabasas girl herself lol.

Not to mention, Leah is always cussing at others when there is conflict. Both her and Rob are emotionally immature and play victim. They both move weird. I think a fair amount of Leah fans formed a Parasocial relationship with her. A lot of Leah fans were ok with Leah going back to Rob ( before the Liv-Leah situation) after Andrea left despite how much negativity was spoken about Rob. I am not sure if a lot of Leah fans were originally Rob fan girls who thought he was attractive ( he reminds me of a typical high school jerk, which a lot of girls fantasize about) and then felt betrayed themselves because they saw themselves through Leah when he picked someone else over her.

A lot of people on these shows lack emotional maturity and self awareness, including Leah (despite her saying she needs to go therapy lol). That is why it blows my mind that Leah fans will defend her no matter what. I think it is fine to want her on the show for the drama, but not holding her accountable is concerning.

Thoughts?

EDIT: I am concerned with the enabling with certain behaviours. I am not saying we don't make mistakes, but it is the enabling and holding her to different standards vs other islands by the same people. If you do not want to explain why you are a Leah stan, you can ignore my post. But if you want to answer, you can answer the question. I am not forcing anyone to answer so I don't know why there are people saying I am being entitled to know an opinion and nor am I generalizing every single Leah fan. I am speaking about the ones who hold her at a different standard and attack the others for making the same mistakes. Oh well, that is just how the world works I guess. Thank you for everyone who have left their pov without bashing my intentions from both sides of the opinion.