The boys (namely Aaron and Kordell) need to learn to stop setting themselves up for failure by self imposing boundaries that are impossible for them to meet (such as no kissing, sleeping w clothes on, sleeping outside, not going beyond cuddling, etc., rules that they broke almost immediately).
Better to be a Miguel and fully embrace and own being a fboy, bc at least the women know what to expect and arenāt disappointed, than a sneaky undercover fboy masquerading as a self-righteous fake ānice guyā w alleged āmoralsā (*cough Aaron *cough).
And honestly I have no issue w ppl in open nonexclusive couples exploring other connections in CA, just donāt make promises to others and yourself that you canāt even bother trying to keep.
(For my fellow Bach fans it reminds me of Zach Shallcross during the now infamous āsex weekā where he declared he wouldnāt have sex with anyone during Fantasy Suites only to fold instantly w his first FS.
He then proceeded to self flagellate the rest of the week which in turn humiliated/shamed the woman he had slept with bc she felt that he was embarrassed he slept w her and also made her feel guilty and like she was wearing the Scarlet Letter as if she had done something wrong when it was his own failure to meet his unnecessary self imposed boundary that he projected on her.)
Her EQ is off the charts š
Own who you are & set boundaries you can/intend to keep
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