Had dinner in Brooklyn last night. 4 ppl. Bill came $159 pretax with final bill being $173.
I had to $100 bills and a $50 in my pocket, so just paid $200 out of convenience.
To my surprise, the waitress comes out and gently interrupts our conversation asking if our service was fine or not. We were all kind of confused for a moment and I ultimately took the bill to the side and paid an extra $10.
Service was just regular. The food was good.
Never had this happen before & feeling like an asshole. Is the expectation 20% now? Was $200 on a $173 bill considered rude? It felt like a pretty awkward end to an otherwise decent meal.
It’s fascinating how the restaurant industry conned consumers Into thinking it’s their responsibility to pay employees fair wages and over the course of that process, convinced employees that they are ENTITLED to tips from consumers.
This phenomenon is uniquely American; in as much as American capitalism is uniquely off kilter compared to the rest of the world. It’s astonishing that some people believe 20% is a BASELINE — just 5 - 10 years ago this was the starting point for exceptional service/experience.
Now, before I get flack for this, I used to work in the service industry for about 6 years. I never EXPECTED a certain baseline tip. Taking myself out of it, I was always aware that for some people, all they can afford is the meal and that being out as a family or with friends took significant savings just for them to be there. It didn’t change my approach to providing service to them because I CHOSE the profession.
Idk how we got here but it’s awful. I’d be much happier if the price per item reflected what’s necessary to pay employee fair wages. Yet the irony is that most waiters don’t want this because depending on where you work, you’re in on the racket.