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When I was a little kid and and discovered girls were really cute and boys were gross. So first grade, kindergarten?
I’m bi, but it took me a while. It was a decades long gradual process for me. But there were some hints:
• A dream about kissing a boy on my school bus in elementary school.
• a secret boyfriend I never had the courage to be intimate with in high school.
• my porn habits and some involuntary erections to scantily glad men in movies and music videos.
• a college party in which a girl tried to blow me and I couldn’t get erect, but a guy jokingly made a motion to take over and I instantly did.
• later sleeping with the above guy
• later same sex hook ups
But I didn’t really take it in until I was talking openly with my wife, casually, about some of the above and she pointed out “dude you are not straight.” And I just kind of went “ha, yeah, I guess you’re right.”
You sound exactly like my story too, in denial for way too long. Turns out losing your first kiss and virginity to a guy, imagining getting bent over things regularly, and waking up in the middle of the night to pound yourself, might be just a little bit gay. My girlfriend at the time had to explain that to me too.
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Is your wife accepting of you being bi I've been openly gay since I was in school but I found a woman that thought I was a cool guy because I didn't hit on her so we decided to get married she lets me have fun with my guy friends and I keep her satisfied when she wants it so I guess we have a healthy relationship.
We are monogamous but yeah, she’s definitely accepting of it. She’s also bi.
I am bi or pan not really sure.
I was at my first and got a crush on my boss who was also a woman.
My world kinda crumbled then, I am not from a Western country and was always told that being gay is not natural and that people in the west are gay because they have no religion.
I am fine with it now, it is fun, also I left that country and have no religion :D
ChatGPT Rephrase this to me in a conservative way:
Sure, When did you first start craving a massive c*** in your a**hole
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I liked it when he kissed me.
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I’m bi, and I’ve always known. 💜
like age 12, didnt really tell anyone and everyone just assumed so as i got older, anyway
I was kinda just hanging out with my friend in middle school and she was playing w my hair, my stomach felt like it was in my throat. That’s how I found out I was bi <3
2002, season 1 of American idol. Ryan Starr. I was 9 lol happy pride ya queers 🥰
I feel like I'm a heteroromantic but homosexual. Still dunno for sure tho. I've only had a huge romantic crush on one guy but I don't get turned on that much by looking at guys. I get turned on looking at random hot girls.
At age 30 😩
When I (30F) saw Kate Hudson in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days.
aromantic lesbian. So didn't really have the early puppy love thing a lot of people experience, I was just in middle school and some neuron connected for the first time while I was looking at some classmates. And I kinda panicked for a while. (Embarrassingly the aromantic part didn't click until I was in my twenties when I realized that just *deciding* not to deal with crushes or dating until I was better put together wasn't in fact a choice that most people would or could make. And at the same time I realized I hadn't really made a choice because I couldn't exactly decide to start.)
I realized I was bi when I hooked up with a guy and had one of the hardest orgasms of my life.
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No. I am very physically attracted to women. I just like my butt touched. lol. I’d say I’m still a lot more into women.
Im bi. My best friend in highschool jokingly kissed me while we were messing around drunk. From that moment onwards I knew I liked women too.. she’s straight.
When I saw an underwear model on a clothing store poster. Yep, definitely bi
I’m bi but a big clue was that the best parts of summer camp was getting to kiss other curious girls. It’s amazing how long it took for me to put it all together.
I’m bi. It took me a while to actually place it I guess. I’ve kinda known since I was a kid though. Like I had a huge crush on Megan Fox in Transformers. This was when I was like 5 or 6. I never really knew what it was or what to call it cause I liked boys too. I knew for a long time but I didn’t actually come out about it till I was a freshman in high school, and even then I didn’t tell everyone around me.
Realizing that I called myself a pragmatic because I didn't care for romance not due to actually being that way, but because of the receivers in question being men
Noticing that I never cared for men in boxers or tight swimsuits and that my thoughts about them were never sexual
I am ace. The "hard" part was realising I was Asexual. Then I asked myself if, at some point, I could also like people of my gender. The answer was a solid "yes", and that's when I realised I have been fruity AF all my life.
I’m aro, and I didn’t know the term at the time, but I basically realized ‘romantic relationships seem like too much effort. I’m not gonna have them.’
The only time I’ve ever been 100% confident in something in all my life.
I had a scarily quick realisation I was attracted to another girl, and when I realised it, I tried to argue with myself and say that it was just like the intense friendships I had growing up. Then I had a mental look at those friendships and had several subsequent realisations. Anyway, I'm bi. People are hot.
I am bi, but there were signs when I was pretty young, and I feel like if it'd been the 2010s vs the 1990s/early 2000s, I would have realized it pretty quick.
In late elementary/early middle school, I used to get mild obsessions with girls and look them up in the yearbook and stare at them in class and my dumb ass thought it was because I liked their hair or wanted to be their friend. No, bitch, you were crushing.
I also obsessed over specific singers or movie/tv characters who were female. No joke, I wrote self insert fanfic when I was like 11-13 about how me and the women in question were BFFs and went on adventures (dates). Notable crushes/writing subjects were Phoebe Halliwell from Charmed, Kelly Taylor from 90210, Britney Spears, Buffy, and the singer Mya.
Anyway, I was 15 when I realized this was pretty "gay" and I was probably also into girls.
I realized I was bisexual when my friend who was also a girl kissed me. It made sense to me because I thought a fictional girl cartoon character in a movie I saw was hot lol. Some of my crushes were girls like Selena Gomez who I had a little obsession with when she was on Disney Channel. Honestly, I think girls are more attractive than most guys and I prefer looking at them more.
When I got a boyfriend
Uh... Porn Everyone has interesting stories but it's just that, it all started thanks to that
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Yep that is true, I didn't really accept it until I saw that one guy and knew there was no doubt
I always had crushes on girls and although my friends always talked about cute boys, I didn’t realize I was different. As I got older I learned about gay people. Then, in high school I fell head over heels for my best friend and was finally forced to admit to myself that this is who I am. Came out my senior year and felt this huge weight lift off of me, then joined the military and had to go right back into the closet.
Around middle school, started noticing I wasn't into the same stuff my friends were.
It was more I realised some other people weren't. Always liked boys.
Mine’s a bit tragic so i dont wanna say
Bi and in my early teens. I liked giving a bj as much as getting one.
I’m bi, but I realized it when I realized why I liked watching the movie Titanic. It’s not the type of movie I usually like but I would watch it frequently. I was maybe 15/16 when I realized the reason I enjoyed it was because I was attracted to Kate Winslet- especially in those period outfits and especially when her dress was getting all wet
I was sent to an all girls secondary school. I thought I was gay but it turns I am an equal oppurtunity lover of genitals
Kindergarten (I liked boys and girls)
I saw dick and liked it
Very simple I guess but not at the same time, after I hit puberty I developed sexual and romantic feelings for men instead of women but I was in denial for a while I did eventually understood that it wasn't that I was bi, or that I needed to experiment with women, I am gay and that's it and I could say that's when I truly realized that I am gay
In college I said it was kinda cute when a girl leans forward and her necklace swings out a bit, and a friend looked me in the eye and was like “Effie, you like girls.” Oh.
when i created a reddit account
At some point, I realised that the only reason I like men was because they gave me any attention (aka mental issues), also the thought of a penis always disgusted me
About 2 years ago in therapy. We were discussing something else, my therapist brought up the definition of sexual fluidity, and then it clicked. I like everyone ❤️ but I'm extremely shy to flirt with anyone 😮💨😭🙃
just now -- thanks for nudging me like this !!
shadow of kyoshi was a bisexual awakening. Women are so great
i was about ten years old when i realised the idea of going out with boys had no appeal to me. i had a huge crush on this girl in my class at a rural composite school. she was three years older than me.
I don’t think I ever really realized, I just knew. No one ever told me being gay was ‘different’ until after I had my first gay relationship so I never had a moment of realization because I already knew I was. It’s hard for me to pin point an exact moment cause I’ve known for as long as I can remember
I was five years old
I was 5 years old and my mom sat me down to watch her favorite Disney movie The Little Mermaid. I fell in love with Ariel. She was my first crush! I also crushed on Jasmine from Aladdin... and Rapunzel from Tangled... and Elsa and Anna from Frozen... I have a weakness for Disney princesses lol. Someone help me if I ever make it to Disney World
July 2022. Started to like a guy more than normal…
and here we are!
I’m being serious when I say this but ever since I was young like young young like 4-5? Maybe a lil order? It’s always been in me ☠️
I always sorta knew but I fell in love with my best friend in 5th grade and we had a sleep over where we all kissed each other and I almost passed out when she kissed me. I had a crush on her for two years after that and in that time we kissed, cuddled and slept over at each others house (non sexual ofc we were abt 10), however she asked me out at the beginning of grade 8 and I regected her after I hated myself because a girl in grade 7 sexually assaulted me and I thought I would never like a girl ever again. Surprise, surprise I still do. I still think I still like her many years later and it kinda kills me to see other ppl with her but I hope she’s happy.
freshmen year of high school because there was a girl in would always see at volleyball tournaments playing for another team and i thought she was soooooooo cute, i would see her every year at the same tournament and then again when we played at their school. well fast forward to the first day of senior year, i was in a off campus program that let you learn about specific things such as sports medicine, dentistry, engineering, robotics, culinary, etc. i walked into my sports med class on the first day and take my seat, then as more people start to walk in THERE SHE IS, this girl i’ve been crushing on since freshmen year just so happens to be in my class. after a few weeks i became friends with one the girls that went to her school and told her about my lil crush and she says she didn’t but she must have said something because i got a screenshot from my friend and it was the girl i liked saying “tell vee to text me😉” my heart literally jumped out my chest and then we talked for maybe a week or two then we just kinda fell off eh our vibes were different oh well. then about half way into senior year i realized im actually pansexual lol, i started to get really close to one of my friends who was trans and we started to get feelings for each other and we never actually dated but it was like a situationship the rest of the school year and the summer lol
When I came to gay thoughts way harder than I came to straight thoughts.
I’ve known I liked the same sex ever since I was a small kid, but didn’t accept or acknowledge it until my early 20s.
I’ve known from a super young age. Back in elementary school I remember all the girls and boys talking about their crushes. My boy friends would talk about the girls they liked and I just knew that girls kinda really weren’t for me. I remember thinking in my little brain “I think I like this boy the way they like girls”. So one day I told my little crush to meet me at the top of the slide bc I had something to tell them. And I said “I like you”. And him just being a kid was like “okay 🤷🏻♂️” and went down the slide lol and I kinda just went back to my regular business, having my snacks and coloring. Obviously I didn’t know what “gay” was but I kinda just always knew I was different and that was ok! I didn’t actually realize I was gay until I started to grow up and people would point out these differences
Using gay as an umbrella term here. I am Aro/Ace, meaning that I feel little to no sexual attraction towards people. It's not impossible, it's happened before. It's just rare. I was laying in bed, watching story times about someone else who realized they were aro/ace and it just clicked for me.
I’m still not sure if I’m gay or bi, I just know I like boys. Something was always a bit unusual for me, I got along with girls easily (still have guy friends tho), I didn’t like sports like my other guy friends, in porn gay or straight most of my attention would be on the guy. And of course in the famous underwear aisle I found myself staring for a bit too long lol. I’ve only just accepted it to myself, no one else knows. I’m still not fully comfortable with myself due to my religious upbringing. I’m still a work in progress lol.
I’ve kinda always known that I wasn’t attracted to men, but I didn’t know that the way I was feeling wasn’t “normal”.
I’d have panic attacks at 6yo because I didn’t want a husband, and my parents told me I’d grow into it.
When I first learned what lesbians are, I remember thinking “oh, you can do that?” I didn’t even know that was a possibility.
I’ve been out for nearly 4 years now, and I’ve never been happier
Wow, just now! 🤔🤷🏼♂️
Once I was rolling in the deep , sweaty balls across my ass Cheeks.. something something fortnite battlepass.
I'm Bi and when i was about 13 me and this girl i was friends with were mucking around and she kissed me.. this evolved into regular full blown make out sessions and dry humping until she moved away about a year later. Didn't actually realise this wasn't normal until i heard katy perry's "i kissed a girl" a few years later and i was like "huh, so girls aren't supposed to kiss girls?" It was my first kind of sexual experience.
How often I thought about my crushes smile and the fact that my feelings scared me.
elementary school when my fav movie was Batman and Robin and my fav scene was Uma Thurman as Poison Ivy stripping out of a gorilla costume
When Marky Mark came onto the scene..... seriously.... I was transfixed by that muscly, sweaty chest when I was 11
To me, when I was in elementary school, I used to experience touching myself. I would always look at the guys, not the girls, then I started to search for my sexuality because I didn't know that homosexuality was a thing. That's when I knew. That I'm Gay.
I'm Demi. Realized at first what I thought was bi or lesbian when I was in 5th grade. Realized I was trying to show off to girls with strength and jokes way more often than trying to impress guys.
when my best friend introduced him (a fictional character) to me
Wanted to kiss girls, turns out I'm actually a guy though lol
So you're straight?
I'm assuming he's a trans guy
Yeah, but a straight trans guy?
I was just trying to clarify.
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