Yea that makes sense. I usually buy the travel size one rather than the full size. I feel like the full size just dries out super fast.

You’re welcome! I’ve seen what alcoholism can do to people and the fact that you’ve made the effort to stay clean is a big deal.

So I’m part Korean…. Is there any like tension between the Korean and Japanese side of your family? I ask because my Korean grandmother can’t stand anybody Japanese. When my grandpa got stationed in Okinawa the woman barely left the damn house cause she hated the people so much. Like is there any like hatefulness in the family cause of that?

I’m part Korean. In Korean “niga” or “nega” means “you”. Is it possible they could’ve been saying the n word? Yes it’s possible, but they also could’ve just been having a casual conversation with each other. Obviously if you see the kids again and they do it every time they see you then that’s something to look into. I don’t necessarily think you’re an ah but you could’ve handled the situation better.

I have very sensitive eyes and I’ve been using the Benefit Badgal Bang mascara. It’s one of the only things I’ve found success with.

Yea. I was super sick for weeks.

My red lipstick

I’m a person that wears red lipstick every single day. My favorite ones are the Mac Russian Red, and the Mac Ruby Woo. I’ve tried so many and these are pretty much the only ones that stay on me all day.

Congratulations on your sobriety. Alcohol can be hard to quit. I hope you have many more years of being sober. 🍾

First of all I’m so sorry. I was assaulted on and off for two years when I was in middle school. Before it became a SA it was just plain old assault. One time the boy that did it took one of the like scooters you have in pe and chucked it at my head. Thankfully I didn’t have a concussion or broken jaw, but my braces got juked up. I had wires break, brackets break, and rubber bands snap. To this day I still have nightmares from it. Like two years ago I was diagnosed with ptsd and have been trying to work on it ever since. Hopefully you’ve gotten the help you need so you can recover.

I’ve had it like three times. The first time I got it was when I was hospitalized for some health issues I have.

When my father beat up my oldest sister. I remember that night clear as day. He got into a full fist fight. That was the day my view of my father did a 360. Since then he’s done so much. He took his fork and stabbed my arm one night. Yes it drew blood. He’d call me stupid, dumb, fat, and he even called me the r slur. On multiple occasions he threatened to chain me up in the basement. When I turned 18 I left and haven’t looked back. I’ve been happy living with my mom full time. Thankfully I’ll be moving 3,000 miles away from him in August for college. I honestly don’t know if we’ll ever reconnect.

The Fenty skin tint is totally something I can’t live without. I hate the way foundation feels on my skin. The skin tint is very light which I love. The shade range is also great. I have very very yellow skin. Most brands don’t make stuff that’s yellow enough for me. But this Fenty skin tint is perfect.

I’m not religious but I wouldn’t consider myself atheist. I don’t think a god exists; however, I do believe in spirituality. I believe in ghosts and spirits and shit. I’ve seen and had some shit happen in my life and sometimes I just feel a presence. Even though I believe in spirits, I think god does not exist. Frankly with the way the world has become there is no way that there can be a god who is omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent. I just don’t believe that such a being exists.

Mine is strange since it’s far from what I normally lose by to. I’m usually a rock/metal person but my big summer jam so far is I Wanna Know by NOTD featuring Bea Miller.

The Fenty Killawatt Freestyle Highlighter. I’m usually not a big powder fan, but I love this one. My skin is very yellow, and since this shade is a very yellow gold it looks more natural on my skin than the typical shades.

I have two. One is the Chanel Chance Eau Tendre. The other is the Victorias Secret Bombshell.

YTA. Bullying is in no way acceptable at all, but letting your husband talk to your kid like that and then agree that he needs to be kicked out kinda does make you a shit parent. First of all the child is 13 not 18. Maybe y’all actually should have been adults and had a conversation. Probably a good idea to get both sides of the story before kicking a child out of your house. Maybe you should’ve taken the time to figure out why your kid was doing this in the first place. Of course your kid is gonna call you a traitor and say he hates you. You didn’t even hear what he had to say! I wouldn’t be surprised if he resents all of you including your other son for the rest of his life.

Master of Puppets by Metallica. All imma say is there is a reason why it was named one of the best metal albums of all time and why it’s one Apple Music’s top 100 albums of all time.

Tombstone is a class. I also like The Magnificent Seven.

NTA. You have every single right to feel this way. It’s honestly ironic that your husband’s mother dipped out on him and now he’s dipping out on you and your son. I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Sadly I can guarantee that once you leave, his mom will just leave again and he’ll be begging at your feet to not go through with divorce.

Taylor Swift. Musically she is not original at all. There is absolutely nothing special about what she does. I do not understand why so many people just worship her. Her music just sounds bland. It’s the same stuff over and over again. There is no message behind her music. And don’t even get me started on her fans. They are absolutely ridiculous. I always tell my mom that her fans are like trump supporters. It’s the whole she can’t do nothing wrong and is just a god. The wtf are y’all on.

Drinking water straight from the hose in your backyard

Paul Mitchell. I have very thick hair and I’ve used Paul Mitchell for a while.

I never expected that I’d being going to college in Hawaii