I just got back from a short sightseeing trip to Chicago and unfortunately had a few issues with harassment during the daytime. I've had minor instances of catcalling here and there when traveling over the years, but never anything I couldn't quickly dismiss. This trip was different, as I had a few instances mid-day in civilized/popular areas (Michigan Ave for one) where guys yelled derogatory comments as I walked by, and also had a guy who wouldn't stop trying to engage/hitting on me at an afternoon Sox game (shoutout to the awesome group in the row behind me who knew exactly what was up and looked out for me!).
To provide some context, I'm a late 20s white female. I have a very average appearance and am a bit on the heavier side. This past week I was wearing unisex t-shirts, hair in a bun, no makeup. I give this information not to victim-blame/shame those who dress different by any means (it's the culture that's the problem, not the women), but just to give an idea that in these situations I was pretty nondescript and unsure how to fade into the background more.
I have a pretty severe anxiety disorder, so I tend to always anticipate the worst when traveling and have a strong guard up; that being said, situations like these definitely don't calm my nerves or make me eager to travel more. For those who have found themselves in similar situations, have you found anything that relatively helps the issue (like the wedding ring thing)? How do you calm your nerves and try to move past it, in the event it happens?
Thank you for all input/suggestions!
Agree - I used to work in education and a handful of times per year there would be a new hire with some kind of note on the board agenda like "Ms. XYZ has a preplanned vacation June 1 - June 4, discussed at the time of hire."
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