I saw that. Sad turn doesn't always mean death. Usually I've heard it as sad turn of events, which could refer to the whole mom dying, then losing his gf.
If OP has verified that's a different story of course.
Where did you get that he died?
If she had our numbers we would be bombarded with messages.
We ALL know why Amanduh doesn't have any girl friends.
LMAOĀ
From OP's first post I'd say Amanda is following her usual bitch pattern.Ā
Amanda is mean and cold. She always makes disparaging comments about other girls. At every event, around one hour in, she will make some sort of scene that either has her running away crying or sitting mad at a table telling everyone to "leave her alone" and then making a cryptic comment about something "hurting her."
And no one even had to wait for the wedding!
Also, GO MOM.Ā
My mom advised him to call for a welfare check if he was genuinely concerned because he, as an individual with no training, wouldn't be equipped to handle such situations.
NTA
But you're fighting a losing battle and as soon as your son is old enough to do so, he's going to move out and grandma is going to spoil him more with opens arms you can't stop. You will have zero control so enjoy it while it lasts, I guess.
And not inviting her to dinner is laughable since she can obviously afford to take him to dinner herself.
Your punishment should have been grounding and no social activities outside the big ones (prom, grad parties), until the dye is completely gone from his sisters' faces. And he should be responsible for paying for covering makeup.
Ā sufficiently traumatized
Totally stood out to me
That's the part where I lost interested in reading and just said aloud, "Christ, OP is a fucking asshole."
1st of July celebrations.
So you guys celebrate postal workers? Cool!
Lol people being mad at me for my reaction to something from last year. Keep it up, dumbasses. š
Keep down voting.
"Wedding" lol
Literally stopped reading after OOP said she was waiting around for someone to french braid their hair. Do it yourself. š
Ain't no best of about any this.
Don't you know that mead is literally the skibidi toilet of weddings?!
No. Jennifer is a piece of shit, too.
Yup. Used her to get closer to little sis with the massive chest. Both of them are assholes. Lil sis is complicit in all this, too.
Jesus Christ, OP dodged a bullet. This would have been a lifetime of bullshit regarding her sister and ex.
Jennifer is a piece of shit.
Thank you! I was about to ask if everyone was just ignoring it. But I also didn't want to be the one to point it out!
I took our family of 4 to Negril for a week and $5k covered everything. Passports, hotel, flights, cabs, shipping, food, alcohol, extras. That is plenty for a fantastic vacation if you don't go all inclusive fancy. We had a private cottage on a beach shared with 6 other families, and our beach was bigger than the hotel next door where all of the chairs were on top of each other.
We bought fresh juice from vendors on the beach, snorkeled with Sargeant majors, had privately cooked dinners, hit Rick's Cafe. Totally fun.
Who even cares? OP is not responsible for funding a party for someone who lied by omission directly to her face for months.
I'm sure you're next atrocity to will be something like, "She didn't Fkn lie because she's not responsible."
Ain't nobody saying she forced her dad to cheat. They're saying she's complicit in hiding the affair.Ā
Grow up.
Ā IĀ responded that I was taught not to give men my money
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C'mon that was funny!
From your update: please do not go to therapy with an abuser. All it does is teach them how to hurt you.Ā Stay with your mom if you can.
A MAN 10 years older than you manhandled you and locked you in a bedroom forcing you to piss yourself. That is absolutely abusive and he was STICKING it to you because he didn't want to fill up a pitcher of water. Then he stayed in that bathroom knowing you were in agony. It was abuse all the way through.
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AITA for not telling my husband I was in labor?
AITAH