NTA. He has shown you time and time again where his priorities are and it’s not you or the baby. It’s his mom. She’s ranked as the most important person in his life. He got your calls and texts but decided to ignore them. Even though you told him you felt labor was coming. It doesn’t matter if you had 3 false alarms when this time could have been the one time it wasn’t and that’s exactly what happened. I wouldn’t feel guilty I would be mad af. I would be putting my foot down on this because I can already see you being a single mother because he is never home to help raise the baby because his mommy needs him at her teat.

He needs to decide who and what is more important. He sounds enmeshed with his mom and his mom is milking it and she knows it works. She’s loving the attention and more importantly she is loving how he is choosing her over you each and every time. For me personally, that is not the type of marriage I want.

Not for my parents. My mom is from the Philippines. She has a big family and they were very poor. As in my mom didn’t eat after school unless she went house to house and found work in exchange for food. My dad is from Pennsylvania and is the oldest and 5 and his family was also very poor. My dad went into the military at 18 and worked his way up to a high ranking officer. And while he was in the military he was taking classes for computers like networking, security etc. and when he was still in the service he took an unpaid internship at a local computer shop that fixed computers and did other repairs. This was in the 90s.

He was a high ranking officer and retired with 30 years of service. He has a very, very nice pension. And when he retired from the military he went back to the same job basically on base only as a civilian contractor making even more money.

My dad has always been quite frugal because of how he grew up. Always planning for the future, retirement etc. they have no debt. And when my dad went back to work as a civilian contractor he didn’t spend any of that salary. He lived off of his pension which was more than enough to not only pay their monthly expenses but have a few thousand left over to save and/or invest.

My mom doesn’t like buying expensive things but she does love her bingo. My dad refused to let her waste money on it so she went and got a job so that she had bingo money. She recently quit and uses her retirement to fund her bingo since my dad is now very well off.

If it were me it would tell the wife and expect my friendship to end. Although tbh I wouldn’t want to continue the friendship anyways. I don’t want to associate with people who have such low morals and go after married men.

I started with the Mars 3 pro and it’s a great printer. I printed with default settings and never had any failures except when I messed up the supports. It prints pretty good. I only upgraded to S3U because I used it to much the screen needed to be replaced and since I wanted a bigger build plate I decided to upgrade to something bigger. It’s a great starter printer.

My daughter usually begs to pick out my outfits lol 😆. Or she gives me her 😑 look when we are clothes shopping and I pull stuff off the rack to show her something she should get lol. 9 times out of 10 it’s a big no

Thank you for the video! It has helped me to understand the process and this is what I needed. Thanks again.

Thank you! I found a different video that shows the method with the plaster of Paris! Now I need to go get some!

I agree with NoxNeno we need a subreddit for people in relationships looking in advice about hygiene because their partners don’t practice basic hygiene.

Sorry OP but this is pretty gross. I have a teenage boy, he’s 17 and do you know how many times I have to tell him to 1) shower or 2) brush his teeth? Never. He wears braces as well and I don’t even need to make him floss. I haven’t had to do that since he was in elementary school.

I wouldn’t want to put up with someone who smells and is too lazy to even brush their teeth. It’s disgusting. It makes me wonder if he is one of those people who think they don’t need to soap their legs, feet and/or other areas since the water and shampoo runs down and cleans it. Wouldn’t be surprised if he doesn’t bother to wash his ass if he can’t even be bothered to brush his teeth.

Sorry not sorry if this is harsh but it needs to be. This is your future. I wonder how long he will still have all this teeth with his lack of dental hygiene. And if he was willing to put in more effort then maybe it’s something you can work with. But he gets made because he’s disgusting. He thinks he is fine just the way he is and he thinks this is YOUR problem because it doesn’t bother him. He will never change or adapt acceptable hygiene practices.

I’ve made a lot of tutus and dresses when my daughter was younger. She’s 14 now and much more picky with what I can make her and it’s usually a Halloween costume. If I’m lucky and she lets me. I’ve made a little ball gown for my toddlers little girl. Last year her costume was a wedding dress since she went as a bride. Although I messed up on the sleeves and didn’t have more material or time to get more. So I had to improvise.

This is what it looked like (although I remembered to take out the pins before I gave it to her) and the belt isn’t attached so I was able to straighten it out.

I love doing beading and embellishments. Or I should say I love the way it looks when I’m don’t but the actually process is very tedious. But I’d imagine it would take less time on smaller clothes.

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here is the link to the one I saw the first time. I accidentally clicked out of the one I posted in my post that I found on my google search.

In this video it’s blue and seems to be tacky and she presses the pieces down into it. She even uses a cut open pipe to put inside and then lays the curved wire on top of the pieces to give it that headband shape.

She uses it on other of her videos and I just remembered in the comments she mentioned that it’s a silicone paste. I tried looking that up but all I have found are silicone mats, or soldering mats.

I saw soldering boards on Amazon but I didn’t see one quite like this. Those were more flat. This has the jewelry embedded into it so that it stays in that position. At least from what I could tell between this and the other video. I’ve checked jewelry sites also and it’s the same type of flat board. So if something is 3 dimensional and not flat if I turn it so that it’s on its front if will go off on one side or the other.

It almost looks like some sort of clay like material you can embed the pieces in. I looked up some more videos and checked the comments and it said something about it being a silicone paste. Not this particular video but the other video I saw.

I love that full set and when I saw 19 in stock I got so excited until I realized that’s for just the basic doll without any of the clothes or accessories 😭

Even if you don’t want a divorce you can’t stop it and force him to stay married to you. It looks like he wants you to be the one to initiate the divorce so he can blame it on you. At this point the marriage is already over. He’s abandoned you and your baby as well as the unborn child. He’s likely cheating or at the very least planning on it. He’s already acting like a single unmarried man.

lol mom. My husband wouldn’t be caught dead in skinny jeans lol 😆 just thinking of it is so hilarious 🤣

My son started at 6. He went from failing every single class to passing with flying colors. He also caused less disruptions in class because he was less impulsive. We didn’t give it to him on weekends or when he was out of school (this was approved by his pediatrician). We did it this way because he was having a very hard time putting on weight and I had to take him for monthly weight checks for a long time until we went to every 3 months. He is 17 now and he doesn’t take it every day. Mostly when he is studying and taking a test. Or when he feels like he needs it. My son has ASD and adhd.

I’d be upset also. I’ve had 8 surgeries and each and every time the surgeon came to my bedside where I was waiting in the prep holding area to go over everything and sign the papers before I even got wheeled to the back and I never got the stuff in my IV for relaxing until after the consent forms and speaking to the doctor were signed. Yeah this was a huge mistake on their part and even though it sucks at least it sounds like the doctor has some morals and didn’t just sign it and do the surgery. Not to mention they likely also wanted to cover their own ass too in case something went wrong.

IANAL and I don’t think you have a legal leg to stand on regarding suing. Unless they try and bill you and make you pay.

Yeah I will be making clothes for MSD and SD so much bigger than 1/6. I’ve made clothes for my teenage daughter and little ball gowns for my best friends toddler. So I’m hoping it isn’t too much harder to make them for dolls. I keep telling myself even if it’s more tedious because it’s smaller at least it won’t require as much fabric lol 😂

I’m in the popular crochet sub also. And when I saw this posted I had assumed it was in this sub. Until I happened to see the name of the sub lol

That post was the first thing I thought of too. There was another one where the husbands BIL passed away and he had to be there for his sister and he was grieving and even after 6 months he couldn’t bring himself to have sex with his wife more than once a week (or month) because BIL passed away. And his sister always needed him, he had to be available as emotional support and justified neglecting his sister because they were close growing up and now she was alone and didn’t have a partner anymore. I still wonder if his wife left him yet.

For my kids? I’d try pretty damn hard. But if I wasn’t able to keep them safe and they didn’t survive I don’t think I’d even bother.

Yeah I asked for Friday off. We get personal observance leave each year that was can take so I used that. So I dont have to use any vacation time. I took yesterday off too now I wish I had taken Wednesday off instead. Could have had a 5 day weekend instead.

Yes. My son is ND, he also has adhd and a language disorder. He had speech delays as a kid and was in speech therapy and his speech still isn’t the same as kids his age. He’s 17 now. My daughter is 14. My MIL clearly favors my daughter. I’ve had arguments and fights with her about and went long periods of time without letting her see the kids because of it. The worst was Christmas when she spent nearly $1000 on my daughter and bought my son a cheap $10 drone from the family dollar (didn’t even bother to take the tag off) and a cheap generic Lego set. I could see the look on my son’s face when he realized that’s all he got and my daughter had piles of presents from her. I packed up my kids and I told my daughter that unfortunately she wasn’t going to be able to take this stuff with her. She asked if it’s because her brother didn’t really get anything nice and I said yes. And she told MIL that that wasn’t nice and that she was showing favoritism and we don’t do that in our family.

My MIL asked if I was for real and I said absolutely. My son was heartbroken. He isn’t one to complain ever, but the sadness on his face. Especially since he didn’t even get a birthday present. His birthday is a week before Christmas.

My family is the opposite. My mom loves my son. She watched him almost daily while I commuted to college 2 hours each way. She watched him the first four years of his life. She didn’t get that with any other grandkids because we all lived 2-3 hours away. I moved once i finished school when my son was about 4. Even before he was diagnosed it was apparent he wasn’t like other kids. My mom has always been very protective of him. He’s the first and oldest grandkid.

I did tell my mom that even though he is her favorite, she still needs to treat both kids equally. I won’t let her play favorites between the two. And she has done exactly as I asked. One thing I hated about MiL is that she would only ask about my daughter. Only asked if she could come over. Only wanted to see her. Never asked about my son. My mom always asks about both kids. she doesn’t treat one better over the other either.

I’m so glad I went no contact with MIL. There is a reason I never trusted her alone with my kids. And it’s hardly a surprise my son never wants to go to her house now as a teenager.

So glad to see that you finally quit. And yeah good call on not meeting up with your former boss. She would absolutely gaslight you. Maybe even try to find out where and when you are leaving. She seems to be on your stalkers side and I am positive she gave him your new number. Please keep yourself safe and don’t post on social media. He is obsessed and I wouldn’t doubt him checking your social media to find out where you went.

Yes lol. I wouldn’t be surprised if that was for the day or even the weekend.