I read IT when I was 10. My mom said she’ll never forget when I asked her what a “blowjob” was. I still wonder now and then what I really thought about that book as a preteen.

This is the way to do it. Thank you!

Barely slid under the radar here.

Same. Let’s see if I’m back.

Heck yeah. Half the time the order is wrong, or cold, and you pat a shit ton. I’ll climb in my car and save $20.

Thank you for everything. I wish nothing but the very best for you.

No. Don’t do this. This is creepy and violating.

I’m guessing this is bait. But if it’s not, this is a really bad idea. Interesting is not how I would describe it.

Yet ANOTHER reason to love Mac and cheese.

This would absolutely make me feel better. Forget the flowers. Bring the food.

There a lot of advice from people here so I’m going to give mine too. You will only truly get sober when you want to. You have to make that choice. Nobody else can, or you won’t succeed. Please don’t wait till rock bottom. You will find hobbies that are more physically and mentally rewarding when you get over the hump. I know this sounds unobtainable but it is, I’ve seen it. And I believe in you.

I agree with everything you say.

And if by any crazy chance you live in the Chicagoland area, DM me. Maybe I can help ya find something at least $15/hr plus tips. Please don’t take this as patronizing. I’m sorry if the tone or wording is off. I just want to help.

I don’t work 5 nights, only weekends (usually 2 nights). I don’t have to fight for shifts, schedules are out a month before and the events I work at are booked a year to two years ahead of time. The only day that I CANNOT request off is NYE- I’ve never been denied requests off. We are scheduled fairly and if schedules need changed or swapped we just communicate with each other. We are all professionals. I don’t get PTO, or healthcare, or retirement match, true. But I knew that going into service. I started a 401k long ago and contribute myself. You don’t get these benefits from a lot of jobs, but this one lets me live comfortably on working part time.

I’m not arguing that this is the norm. But it’s possible.

Pretending like they average $300-400 per night at all bartending/serving jobs is a joke

I took this as singular. I don’t pretend or lie when people ask how much I make. But I agree that this is not the average or even the majority. But it can be done consistently. You were also in the service industry for a decade so you must have done alright. I’m sorry you’re around out or worked with people who felt the need to be untruthful. I would never convince someone to get into the industry. But there is amazing money if you can make it.

Absolutely not a joke. I make that a night, plus $15 an hour. I have been doing this 22 years though, but definitely took a while for me to get here. Also location and place of employment makes a huge difference.

YTA. Who cares about others mental health as long as YOU got what you want right? Typical “project and serve” behavior. You are not special in any way.

This is more about how much of a shit stain he is, and by dating her now has a much larger platform and recognition. I only know this from Reddit honestly, I don’t get Swifties myself but I do understand this outrage.

Correct and well worded answer. A+

This literally makes me nauseous. I can’t wrap my brain around the thinking of the right. The complete lack of empathy.

Be kind, please rewind. Avoid heat. I’ll never forget. It still is like a mantra some days for who knows what reason.

I’m pretty sure she suffers from an ED. That with the volume of the surgery is what makes this looked botched. I hope she gets help.

Happy Mothers Day!!

People actually believe this? I shouldn’t be surprised.

Same. hugs

Good Corvid. Have something shiny my love.