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Just here to say same . I think people.like my sweetness and sense of humor. But they freak out when my brain shows up. That seems to really bother them. But the people.who like my brain first see the other stuff as a bonus.
I might have that many but I'm forty, and a woman. I've probably bought one or two pairs a year for the last 20 years... I take good care of them ... I've probabought more but they've worn out and been trashed.
Hahaha I'm in Georgia USA. How funny man.
My kids are gonna thank you. π
Um would you like to come over before I move? I have so many things I've held onto because I knew others would want it. Yes I have hoarding issues... but everything is tidy and nothing is overflowing. I do get rid of broken non working things .
I have old bedside radios, tape decks, probably a dozen or so old phones, and a bunch of VHS tapes.
I have the tiniest version of this. It's just as satisfying
And she's tiny again!!!! I have so many saved for treats when I do what I'm supposed to do. I'm getting a special one for going to the dentist. I bribe myself.
I'm no contact with the whole lot of them.
I am keeping my MIL hostage and she can never leave me.
Oh my gosh... I know Pompeii has a shitty ending, but like how fun.
I wanna go find the penises that sounds so much better than disney
All cats and dogs go to heaven .
Heaven is a place where all the lo e we gave out comes back to love us back.
I pray anyway
Brown sugar oatmeal.
Cheddar cheese
Homemade bread
Peanut butter and white chocolate melted on a flat bread tortilla
Raw veggies blended and heated up as soup.
I lost 30 + kids from K-12 to death. Then after high-school the funerals came faster than the weddings.
My parents were abusive fucks. Much like the rest of the area I grew up in. My goal in life was to do a shit ton of drugs, fuck a lot and die. I wanted to be a waitress in a diner and live in a rv , maybe get married.. Seriously that's as high as I wanted to go in life. I lacked ambition wasn't the insult people thought it was.
Too many people I know haven't gotten this far. So I try to be grateful for the years and decades I've had that others don't get.
I treat everyone the same. Really. I don't have contact with the people who hurt me anymore. Being mean takes energy I just do not have.
I have learned to apologize and correct my behavior. The better you get at recognizing your triggers or that you are triggered. It's easier to communicate with those around you.
I can not be near people in the morning, I will lash out. Doesn't matter what happened yesterday. The first 2 hours I'm awake is dangerous. The pope himself would get a tongue lashing. So, I've let people know not to call before 10 am.
It's not that I'm all better, but I isolate myself enough in times I know I won't be OK. If i know im not going to be fully comfortable, i make arrangements until i know i feel safe. If that makes sense.
Well I've been on it since December. And I've noticed some changes . So... off to make a note to call the doctor
Right. I just want to send a plater of cookies over.
Nta- Real friends insult you to your face. Seriously. Shitty assholes talk shit behind your back...
For me, I was so angry and bitter. I did all of "this" all because I love you and want what's best for you. And you're gonna turn around and betray me? Hurt me? On purpose?
Then I remembered, that's THEIR FUCK UP, NOT MINE.
I'm proud of always being there and kind and helpful. That shows who I am.
Them turning my kindness into their sick cruelty, that's on them.
My actions spoke of who I am. Theirs spoke of who they are.
Do.. do you wanna hang out with my 10 year old. I feel like you two would have days of nonstop info dumping .
I will go with
BEARS
I want to set up a center for abuse victims. Private rooms and bathrooms. First floor is therapy. Second floor doctors. 3rd floor those private rooms. With big locks. 4th floor library and cafeteria. Basement, full gym and spa. Lots of small tiny homes with more privacy too. Sounds like jail, but not.
Have a farm to provide work and food. Everyone lives on site.
There should be one or two based on population.
A Crack head once gave me life advice I live by, Walk away with grace and dignity, don't lose it in front of them and lower yourself to their level.
A former troubled teen taught me, no pills ,no powders, no needles.
A child abuser, actions speak louder than words.
The gutter people have learned , so we should listen.
Sir and mam are important . It's a show of respect for the person. Please please let's keep some manners..
Do American teenagers really address their dads as "sir"?
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