Context: Dad lives one state over. My son is 2. He has visited x1 time when he was born. I went to visit him x1 time that first Xmas
No one knows my address either because I very rarely get any packages that are sent to me.
And all roads go both ways. OP has a young son. Traveling out of state isn't exactly fun with a toddler.
Yeah roads go both ways, making OP also at fault. You can’t just expect things to happen without doing something to make them happen. All I’m seeing is excuses to be upset
But the dad is the one who supposedly wants to be in his grandsons life. Why is it on OP to facilitate all of that for him?
OP doesn't seem upset. Dad clearly is, but can't even be bothered to call on the weekends like OP asked. OP doesn't need to work dad into his own parenting schedule. Dad can, I dunno, maybe call on the weekend?
OP seems to be upset with lack of contact from Grandpa. If he didn't care, he wouldn't be upset. If he wants his son to have a relationship with his grandpa, that is his responsibility and he can work on that. Travel with a toddler is certainly possible, not that big of a deal.