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20/23 [FM4F] Northern Virginia couple looking for another woman
Your BF can get fired for being poly Just a warning
Only if married. If they are dating and bring in a third no one cares. And you don't get fired you can get pay withhold or demotion, but that only really happens if mps are involved or it happens on the base
They can still use it against you. I personally wouldn’t want to be 23 and ruin my career
Also, they will be married to be out of the barecks 🤷🏼♀️
You can have sex off base like in a hotel or such while still daiting a lot of soldiers seak people in its very common. And really, as long as you are sharing with your higher-ups about your sex life, no one is really going to know
If they wanna risk it. They can do so. They are unicorn hunting away ways.
Have you had any luck with your search?
Not much 🙃
I wish it was a better way. Hope for the Best for you
Thank you 😊
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