If he doesn’t know by now…

Stay with it and stop discussing your diagnosis with him if he is not receptive. What he is saying to you is verbatim things my ex was saying to me. It was way more difficult for him to control the narrative and to shift blame to myself for his behavior. In my situation it escalated. Listen to what he’s saying, he means it. He’s not misunderstanding your diagnosis. Maybe he couldn’t name it, but ADHD is a narcissist’s catnip.

I call that “working a double”.

I want to play with all of the Know Yourself Academy stuff!

Genetics.

Even my leftist friends are discussing voting third party. This is the easiest vote to cast in my life. Huge fan of autonomy over here.

I’m toilet paper rich.

Is your wife typically forgetful?

In line, but I forgot to include in my other comment.

Frixxion erasable gels pins. Friction removes the ink. They have vibrant colors. There’s no little eraser bits. Respectably fast drying as well which is a plus for lefties. They make erasable highlighters as well that I’m excited to play with.

Let’s do this. I’m currently eyeballing the Hoboniche Jibun. I use their Campus notebooks and love love love them. Being left handed it’s a love-hate relationship with stationary and pens. This particular one is dated, so I’m still fence sitting.

I have a small collection of guided journal. I like Best Self as far as those go. I find outlining and adapting that far less restrictive than obligating myself. I use Weel calendar for displaying my obligations. My calendar is more handy for showing when I have gaps between events. I can then work my more self directed activities with intention.

I stopped doing the gratitude journal and started just telling people in the moment that I appreciate them. It felt very performative and insincere. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I thought my roommate got us a pet bunny. It was a good sandwich without though.

I like this! Especially for construction.

I have never had so much time off in my life. I love leaving work and not thinking about it. You can effect the overall form and function of workflow. There’s a lot of opportunity to engage with less static work due to never ending projects and I love me an interview panel when it’s slow. I feel like all my previous employers had elements of abusive relationships.

Ah! I could scrolled further down! Did you listen to the interview with the author?

America’s Test Kitchen has the version I want.

There’s a Cleveland speciality someone just found out might be exclusive, too.

Well, not a solid representation then. NW Ohio into adulthood. Never heard of it.

There as a bit on NPR with the author of 50 Pies 50 States. She started the project while her permanent visa was processed.

I also found The Immigrant Cookbook trying to find the pie bit. So that’s that new rabbit hole.

I do not wear jewelry for this very reason. It took a long time for me to accept my watch and worn badge. I addressed the clothing issue by structuring my wardrobe to better align with reality and less with “That’s so cute!” Now I shop to close gaps or replace items. Most of my clothing is soft and well fitted or loose and flowing. I’m more apt to go bare under and layer over. I wear a lot of tops over rompers actually.

Makeup and I are at an impasse. I’m terrible at removal. Thankfully I got impulsive and bought a thicker concealer that I hate and so I’m all bare faced lately. I mix green tinted primer in to my sunscreen. It evens out my skin tone well enough.

Anyone with mirror issues?

We listened to Project Hail Mary while cleaning and loved it. I really like Andy Weir’s writing style.

I had a seven pounder as well! One of my coworkers is short and she carried like that! I’m pretty certain my pregnancy was karma from giggling when she wore a white puffer coat. She looked like a little snowman! It was adorable.

Money buys comfort. It’s easier to be happy if you’re comfortable.

I am slowly replacing our socks with these. I have had a thicker, admittedly least worn pair, for almost ten years. Still going strong.

10:05 PM

You are married. You have a legal obligation to contribute meaningfully in the relationship. Everything said in this thread is a legally acceptable argument as to why you will not get the split you deserve. When a parent paying child support takes a job making significantly less it is circumstantial to decide how to proceed. That is even if some cases are based on a desire to be a more engaged parent, supported by statements that DO NOT sound anything like these. Your behavior is financial abuse. Think of it as indentured servitude. I’m going to assume his mother has encouraged and maybe even facilitated a conversation with a lawyer. With no children you are fucked. He has the receipts. You tried to hose him and I’m guessing by the lack of an update a lawyer is telling you this or you’re love bombing him?