Our twins are going to a twins birthday party and we cant remember what the other twin family got for our twins. Which option is more proper?;
A. Our two kids to get two presents for their two twins, so 4 presents total.
B. Our family gets the twins each a present, so two presents total.
C. Our family gets the twins each a present along with a group present, so three presents total.
We always feel the family that follows the stated gift giving rules and then get burned because everyone goes above and beyond. So I don't want to seem cheap or go above and beyond so they feel bad.
Because it's a system set up by bullies. Just like the golden rule, do unto others as you wish done to you. How long do you put up with someone taking advantage of your kindness?
I do unto others as I wish done to me, twice. Then if they're taking advantage of my kindness, I do unto them as they unto me. Obviously, they want people to treat them the way they treat other people!
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