Shevvv
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Medicinal

1s-orbital is defined by two quantum numbers: n - this is the average distance of an electron from the nucleus (very oversimplified), and l - this is your shape, basically, a sphere in the case of an s-orbital. Through geometry we know that any circle (and sphere as well) needs only an origin point and a radius to be uniquely defined. In case of an s-orbital the origin point is already chosen for you - it's the nucleus. The n sets the radius, which means those two numbers are enough to uniquely define a sphere. Uniquely = you can't have more than 1. In fact, for every n there's always only one s-orbital, because for each origin point (the nucleus) and radius (the n) there's only one possible sphere.

Now, with a p-orbital it's different. A p-oribtal is like a line with a point along it (the nucleus). Lines can be rotated, that is, they have direction. This gives you an extra degree of freedom. This means that you can have another line going through the same point (the nucleus) but in a different direction. The new line will form an angle with the original line. How much? Well since the line represent orbitals, which are populated by electrons, it's useful to think of them as if they're negatively charged. Two negative charges will obviously repel each other, so the biggest angle possible is what we should go for. Note that it's not 180 degrees, in that case the two lines will end up superimposed on one another. The two lines will be most separated at 90 degrees instead. Can you add another line so that ALL angles between all of the three lines are 90 degrees? Well, since atoms exist in three-dimensional space, let's ask ourselves what it means for space to be three dimensional? It means that there are three primary directions (forward-backward, left-right, up-down) spaced exactly at 90 degrees from one another. So yes, it's totally possible to have 3 lines intersecting each other all at 90 degrees (think of x, y and z coordinates), because space is three-dimensional. Since space is three-dimensional and not four-dimensional, it also becomes apparent why adding a 4-th line at 90 degrees to the previous three is impossible. That's why every level n has 3 p-orbitals (if any), labeled px, py and pz, just like the axes x, y and z of three-dimensional coordinate space.

With more complicated orbitals like d- and f-, shapes become complicated enough that it becomes a bit more difficult to explain how they are all oriented in relation to each other (although it's still possible with d-orbitals). Add to this that from d-orbitals and onwards shapes themselves can be slightly different (has to do with nodes and their orientation), it becomes fairly complicated to predict the number of orbitals based purely on spatial reasoning done in your head. However, if you look at the fact that d-orbitals always come in 5's, and f-orbitals in 7's, a very simple pattern arises: each subshell has 2 extra orbitals for the previous one. s has 1, p has 3, d has 5, f has 7. Any idea how many orbital subshell g has? 9. What about h?

This pattern is often expressed with the use of the quantum number l. I mentioned it earlier but didn't really use it. lt describes the shape of an orbital (without going into to much detail) and is the same thing as calling orbitals s-orbitals or p-orbitals, but using a number instead. So an s-orbital has the l-value of 0, p-robital has the l-value of 1, for a d-orbitals l = 2 and so on. First of all, this way we can clarify that for any given level n, the maximum l is limited at n-1. So for the first level n = 1, lmax = 1 - 1 = 0 (s-orbitals are the most complex ones at level 1). For n = 3, lmax = 3 - 1 = 2 (d-orbitals are the most complex ones at level 3, with s- and p-orbitals also there with their simpler shapes). As we've seen with p-oribtals, they have direction. This can be expressed with ml. The values of ml are integers between -l and +l. So for l = 1 (p-orbitals) ml can have the values of -1, 0 and +1 (three p-orbitals). for l = 0 you can only have ml = 0 (1 s-orbital). And for l = 5 (g-orbitals) you can have ml at -5, -4, -3, -2, -1, 0, +1, +2, +3, +4, +5, that is, 9 g-orbitals. This is the same conclusion as in the previous paragraph, but this time mathematically expressed with the use of quantum numbers.

Exactly. I actually think that Adam Driver has too much energy and too little subtlety, like, the opposite of what a Snape should be like.

Seeking: Dutch / Offering: Russian, English

Hello! I'm from Russia, 31M, I speak Dutch at B2 but feel like I still need to work on it because too often in a casual conversation I can hardly understand the words being spoken, and I need to improve it as much as possible by this September.

I myself speak Russian as a native and a very decent English with a distinct American accent. I have a great interest in general linguistics which allows me to learn even more about foreign languages as well as my own and would gladly share my knowledge and insight. Discord and Skype are my preferred channels of communication.

I also love programming, video games, hard sciences and watching movies/TV shows.

DM if you're interested! Discord and Skype are my preferred channels of communication.

How much time do I need in Versailles?🏰 Versailles

Hello! Kinda late asking this, I suppose, but! I bought a ticket to Versailles (A Passport + Audio guide), and I now wonder whether I'll have enough time for it. My passport is for 11:00 and I can stay until 6:00 pm at the latest. So is 7 hours enough to see (mostly) everything?

Also, I've read some people spending hours in the line. Is that also true if you've bought a ticket in advance? Just so I know how early to arrive there.

Got a message from them a couple of hours ago, with the manager agreeing to fully refund me because the whole misunderstanding wasn't intentional.

I'm just glad it's over.

Basically the difference between hearing aids and contracting AIDS :D

I don't have much presence in the social media, but if I finally make a post about the situation in the coming couple of days, I'll sure drop a link here as well! As for the review, booking.com said that I can't leave a review because there was no stay at their place, and you can only leave a review on the property if you've had one.

Super frustrating that paying money creates problems rather than solves them and makes me spend an enormous amount of time I could've spent doing things I like.

In this case I can suggest you wear glasses because every other date around the time I booked is still available, which is a month away, by the way, so it seems like they have it totally free, they just choose to be a bitch when within 8 hours of having booked the place I offer to miss a day and check in on the next day while they get to keep the money, and they still very drily refuse.

The "two students of European origin" was definitely uncalled for and really makes me question the integrity of the owner when it comes to being a stickler for rules (which I myself am, btw, but to a sensible degree).

You forget, hoever, that the owner listed English as a language they speak and then refused to follow with what they themselves have indicated. If anything, it's double standards: you do everything to the letter and I don't owe you anything, even if I said I can speak English. And when I would have arrived there, what then? Do they expect me to have them ramble in French and hope I can manage to record their voice and translate it to English somehow? Please, don't be shy, tell me how you think it was supposed to work, from someone who listed being able to speak both languages yet refuses to abide by their own rules.

Well, it's official. Just talked to booking.com, they can't refund me (understandable) and can't allow me to leave a comment until I physically have stayed there (expected but outrageous). The best they can do is send my complaints to the owner. For him to wipe his ass with, no doubt.

So basically if you want to earn money and do basically nothing, just list your estate at booking.com with non-refundable pre-paid booking - anyone who would like to check in, you make them so they'd want to stay as far away from you as possible. This way you get to keep the money - and the unsatisfied guests can't even leave a public complaint about it! Then all you do is let an occasional guest stay once a month or two - and voila! Money, good scores and barely any actual guests.

Haha, funny enough, I've heard even a few Dutch people say they didn't like going to France all that much. :D I guess nothing beats that first-hand experience, huh.

I think sharing it here would be a little excessive. Ideally I'd just want my money back, if no, an honest review from me about the situation that felt a bit scammy, even when it is all in the contract (which didn't look much like a contract, btw, just a webpage description of the services I'm paying for).

Sure, and I would've accepted it, when people are polite. I find it very weird for a HOST to be this aggressive. They weren't even giving an answer, every time I asked something they'd refer me to the contract and be like "yeah, figure it out, I'm not here to inform you or make things clear". And the fact that they refuse to speak English even though it is listed as a language they converse in is very telling of double standards, and I have little respect for that, unfortunately.

As in is it too high? Or too low? I'm confused :D

Well, not so much in the Netherlands, probably in part because I don't meet that many people in my school - internship - home routine. But I was surprised to hear a very similar sort of talk from a Belgian guy I've known for 7 years. He really hates that I came here as a refugee, even though within 2 years I got a decent job and can speak Dutch at B2/C1 (and keep working on it daily). His stance is "you chose to be a refugee and lived off tax payers money so don't you dare make a peep about anything". There's also this place I was trying to get a job at a month ago, an all-white organisation, and I got a weird feeling that I might find it hard to be accepted there (when asked where I'm doing my internship now, there faces were screaming "Jesus, not that filthy district filled with foreigners!" when they heard my answer, Also later during a tour around their place they made a comment, totally out of a blue: "They say that people in our region are xenophobic. That's not true, it's just that we don't like people who don't work". Uhmm, I didn't ask but ookaay, I guess? I don't think they meant anything personal by it, but the comment itself did make me feel uncomfortable.

I live in a big city, and that has a benefit of people being more open-minded, but I do hear stories from friends having random strangers coming up to them and telling them they're not welcome and should go back to wherever they cam from. I hear it from my friends of color that people think they should not be allowed to work in education because Dutch isn't their first language. And a few others. I didn't believe those stories at first, but seeing how they keep coming from too many friends, I'm inclined to think they are.

Anywho, it's not like there's much I can do about it, the best I can is to just accept it and not allow myself to be triggered by that attitude. It is true that the majority are very sympathetic and really helpful and I am very lucky to have ended up here.

Unfortunately I paid with iDEAL, that's a Dutch online payment method which immediately sends the money over to the receiver and does not provide security in case of disputes like this

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I have sent a message to the client support of booking.com hoping to discuss this situation with them at length. Unfortunately, trying to talk to the owner seems to be of no avail.

I am however worried since their page has this "Cancel insurance" for which you pay 12 euros extra to be able to cancel for free. A limited number a situation are acceptible for free cancellation though: unexpected sickness, COVID, losing a job and a natural disaster (all of which needs to be proven first, as explicitely stated). If you have sudden worsening symptoms of your pre-existing condition or there's a strike in the area which makes it impossible for you to reach the destination - get shafted. The fact that booking.com has this sort of thing makes me think they will side with the owner.

Yes, I had the same thinking: I wouldn't feel safe around them anyway after what happened and would fear being framed for having broken something I didn't, for example (their page does list the €200 fine for breaking stuff). Too bad that even a partial refund is not an option, but that should be a lesson for me to steer away from non-refundable apartments from now on, I guess.

Well, in my last message I went something similar, as far as politeness goes, sadly, I must confess. I said that they can keep the money and that they should think of it as my charity to them since they surely need it more than me.

"The greedy pay twice" is a mistake I keep making over and over again :(

[RANT] All it takes is a weird name: a booking problemSocial / Personal

Moved to the Netherlands two years ago outside of Western Europe, my name is a dead giveaway that I'm not a local. This summer I decided to spoil myself a little and have a little trip around Europe. In one of the cities where I decided to stay I made a big misktale: I paid for an apartment instead of a hotel.

Now, sure, the prices were the lowest, so should've suspected something. Sure, an owner of a private estate is not entitled to the same standards as everyone else. Sure, a significant part of the blame is on me as I didn't read the entire page carefully enough. But still:

I rented an apartmant at one of French cities for 3 nights for a price of 180 euros, non-refundable ("It's not like I'm cancelling it anyway!", thought u/Shevvv). Having notified the owner that I would arive between 8:00PM and 9:00PM (the train is scheduled to arrive at 8:18PM) I though I was done. Check-in time adjustment rejected: the owner only checks in between 5PM and 6PM. Very drily (and in French) I am advised to re-read the contract. Yes, it turns out that at the bottom of the page (way below the big blue "Book now!" button) there's a line saying "checking between 5PM and 6PM". My bad. Should've looked better. I ask whether an exception can be made with the help of Google.Translate as the owner is definitely inclined to have the conversation in French.

"Today I checked in two students who were both on time between 5PM and 6PM and from the European Union". Whoa. What does THAT have to do with anything? Kindly I offer my apologies for not having read the page from top to bottom and asking whether I can cancel my booking with a refund (made 8 hours ago, a month in advance). The reply is "yes, according to the terms of the contract. Not my problem you can't get here in time" (hint at "I get to keep your 180 euros since it said non-refundable"). Frustrated, I try to find another solution, like spending a night at a hostel maybe and checking in during the sacred 5 to 6 pm timeslot on the next day of my 3 night stay instead, while still paying the full price (since they are not giving a cent back). The reply to me asking to check in on the next day of my 3 night stay is "according to the terms of the contract you are to check in between 5 to 6 PM on %INSERT_DATE%. I don't get why you think you belong to a special group of people when everyone else follows the rules". Another hint at me not being in the same group with "everyone else".

I blow up and write to them in my politest English how I don't appreciate their implication about me not being from EU, their lack of politeness and the expectations that his cheap lodgings would exclusively be booked by EU tourists. Funny enough, the page of their lodging lists two available languages: English and French. Their reply to me having had enough of Google.Translate and ranting purely in English? "You are travelling to France, so speak French". Truly the double standarts in regards to information listed on their page: You do everything I say and I do none of what I have myself listed.

Am I the asshole here? I feel like I'm an easy person to scam when it's being done politely, but this, this was anything but polite. Even worse, I feel like the owner was just looking for an excuse to reject me simply because my name isn't European.

Shevvv
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The website says it will be open for booking shortly. No idea what exactly is meant by shortly.