Glad it wasn't a bad experience for you ☺ It will get even easier and you will be a pro in no time.

Ja sam '94 godište, pa nisam bila preterano upućena u politiku, ali moj utisak je da je bilo dosta bolje. Neposredno pre promene vlasti 2012 sam krenula sa omladinskim aktivizmom uglavnom vezanim za kulturu i zdrav život. U raznim udruženjima smo pisali projekte za gradske konkurse po kancelarijama za mlade i realizovali ih bez problema. Predstave, festivali, sportski turniri, edukativne radionice za školarce, sve što je imalo neki značaj je prolazilo. Nakon 2012-2013 su prolazili samo projekti onih koji su SNS ili članovi njima bliskih organizacija, a posle toga su počeli da kradu stare projekte i koriste ih za izvlačenje para iz gradskog budžeta.

Što se ličnog iskustva tiče, tu je bilo baš značajno bolje. Mogla sam da pogledam vesti bez da imam osećaj da mi neko vređa inteligenciju. Mogla sam da saslušam obraćanje predsednika koje je bilo fazon jednom u par meseci i trajalo 5-10 minuta. U nekim periodima tokom vlasti demokrata je moj otac, nevezano za politiku, bio bez posla. Mogli smo da preživimo nas petoro sa platom moje majke, medicinske sestre. Kad je tata imao posao, mogli smo na more, ponekad u pozorište ili bioskop, nekoliko puta mesečno smo mogli da napunimo veliku korpu u supermarketu. Prošlog meseca sam otišla sa bakom u market, napunile smo korpu uglavnom hranom i malo kućne hemije, ali je tu bilo samo 2 kg mesa i recimo hrane za jednu nedelju i malo slatkiša. Račun je bio pola njene penzije.

Dok su demokrate bile na vlasti, plasirali su se bolji uzori i sve što liči na 90e je bilo osuđivano. Kriminala je naravno bilo, ali nije bio "kul". Bilo je dečijih kanala i dečijih programa na drugim kanalima. Edukativnih takođe. Javna kritika i zezancija na temu vlasti su bile normalna stvar i koliko ja znam, niko nije morao da skuplja brojeve i glasove da bi ostao na svom radnom mestu (bar ja nisam znala nikoga tako ucenjenog).

Danas imam više novca iz prostog razloga što sam odrasla i imam svoj posao, kao i moja starija sestra. Bile smo studenti kada su već naprednjaci došli na vlast i naši roditelji su morali da se dovijaju i odustaju od svakog putovanja, od garderobe i svega mogućeg da bi nam pokrili troškove, čak i na budžetu. Ne mogu ni da zamislim kako danas žive porodice sa decom koje žive kao podstanari ili imaju jednu platu.

I wouldn't do arms until you are confident, as they are a bit more sensitive and bruise easily. Top sides of your thighs or lower belly would be easier to start with.

Nažalost, imala je mačiju virusnu leukemiju. Nabavila sam lek, ali nije se izvukla.

I'm not sure what would I do... I had my first dog for a month short of 15 years, but I got two more dogs when she was 12. They made her life longer and happier because she started acting like a puppy again. When she passed, the younger dogs were great for my mental health. I would have died if I had to remove the bowls, the toys and the beds. It was a lot easier because they kept using those and kept me company. But I'm not sure if I would be able to get a new puppy while grieving.

That's great! I've been on Saxenda for a year, too. But I only lost two cats (20lbs) because I have trouble with side effects and had to stay on low doses for a long time. I made it to 2.4 once, but I had to go back to 1.8 because my stomach protested a lot. But I got my hormones in line and feel much better, so after my dogs and cats, I will be able to measure my weight in babies one day 😄

Dog comparison is cool, I just realised I want to lose the weight of my labrador 🤣

Ako voliš Sci-Fi gledaj Fringe. Ja sam bila oduševljena u srednjoj, uključila pre mesec dana ponovo, očekujući da mi sada bude bezveze i bindžovala oduševljena kao da gledam prvi put.

Slažem se, hvala.

Reših na kraju da neću ni ja. Jedino zašto sam se dvoumila je to što čovek ne pokušava da uđe u neku firmu, već mu je priprećeno praktično gašenjem zanatske radnje koju je otvorio čini mi se još njegov pradeda. Elem, onda sam se setila lika koji u centru grada godinama drži kafić iako je opozicionar, maltretiraju ga non stop ali on radi sve po zakonu i opstaje. Jedva, ali opstaje.

Naravno, ostavljam mogućnost da i mene neko hoće da nasamari. Svakako sam rešila da ne radim to i osećam se rasterećeno. Hvala na perspektivi.

Hvala, javila sam da ne želim. Od početka nisam želela da se uplićem, ali sam želela da pomognem. Svakako mi je žao čoveka i njegove situacije, ali ovde mi je predočeno da bih tako bila saučesnik. Kad sam bolje razmislila, shvatila sam da bih na neki način bila saučesnik i u maltretiraju tog istog čoveka čak i sa precrtanim glasom jer bih na neki način učestvovala u celoj mašineriji koja mi se gadi.

Meni je Mobi odlična, nikada nisam imala negativno iskustvo sa njima.

Intesa jes, ali Poštanska štedionica... Njima još nisu javili da je Sloba umro. I Titu još prave pomen.

I am so sorry for your loss. It is horrible how some illnesses can go undetected until it's too late. You gave your best to love and care for her and made it possible for her to go without ever feeling the pain. After some time, I promise you will be able to look at her photos and videos with a smile on your face, feeling grateful for the times you had together. You will always miss her, but only the good memories will last. 🤍

Drago mi je što nisi u sličnom problemu i nadam se da nikad nećeš ni biti i da ćemo se što pre spasiti ovih gadova, ali to je kao da kažeš da ni jedna žena ne trpi nasilje jer ti ne biješ tvoju.

Ne pravdam sektašenje, kao što vidiš ni meni nije pravo, gadi mi se zapravo, ali vidim da su u gradu sektori usluga, ugostiteljstva i zanatlije ucenjeni do guše inspekcijama, izbacivanjem iz lokala, nabavkom materijala i gomilom drugih gluposti.

Don't ignore the side effects and track your BP. Mine was elevated after only 3 days on the med. I had the entire spectrum of side effects and developed an allergy after less than a month so I had to stop it. I am not great at tolerating meds, so I should not be taken as an example, but do make sure to listen to your body.

Ako nepotizmom smatraš zanat koji se uči od malena i prenosi s kolena na koleno, onda ok.

Ne pokušava da se uhlebi u državnu firmu, ne pokušava da se obogati, samo da zadrži svoj pošten posao koji je ugrožen zbog obesnih botova koji su od grada napravili divlji zapad i izigravaju šerife.

Jasno, ovo samo dokazuje da cela vladajuća stranka krši gomilu zakona da bi ostala na vlasti. Ja lično nisam pod pretnjom, ucenom, niti mi je ponuđena nagrada. I ako se ne varam, imam prava da svoj glas pokažem bilo kome, ili ne pokažem nikome. Srećom, nisam u situaciji kao moj poznanik i verovatno bih pre otišla iz zemlje nego pristala na tako nešto, ali imam razumevanja za njega i ljude u sličnoj situaciji kojima su opcije po godinama, obrazovanju, poznavanju stranih jezika već smanjene, pa ih još onda neko maltretira i ucenjuje jer im se može i nema ko da ih od toga zaštiti.

Ne, ne, posao koji ima generacijama, a sada je ugrožen zbog lešinara na vlasti. Stvarno nisu ljudi botovi, s takvima ne komuniciram.

I hope you find comfort in my experience when I say - This goes away. It took me a while but now I am absolutely positive that I did the right thing and chose the best option for my beloved dog. I think the doubts are a normal part of the grieving process because with every death I grieved I wondered if I could have done more or better. I believe that if we follow their signs and our hearts, there's no way we could be wrong.

My friend once said - Anyone who ever went trough the suffering of a person and a pet, knows that euthanasia would be a blessing for both.

Those words were imprinted in my head and my heart because in the next year, my dear grandma became terminally ill and for a month, there was nothing we could do but try to alleviate some of her pain and wait for the end. She begged us to stop the meds, not knowing they were only painkillers and that her body is actually the one keeping her barely alive and suffering. All the love, care and attention we provided weren't enough to keep her from suffering and feeling like her dignity was gone. It was hard for her and everyone around her and it made me feel useless and helpless.

A year after that, my first dog, my sunshine for almost 15 years approached the end of her life too. We knew it was coming but she was a fighter and she kept getting up and going outside. She was only eating a few bites of food from my hand and only drank water once a day, but she would wagg her tail whenever we stood by her side. She was on painkillers that kept her comfortable. We helped her get up and walk for weeks. When the day came and she wouldn't even try to get up, I knew she was ready to go. She stopped eating and drinking, but she still wagged her tail a bit when we gave her the cuddles. With cuddles is how she went away. We had the vet over for an at home euthanasia. She fell asleep peacefully, feeling loved and protected. For me, this experience was sad and hard, but beautiful and peaceful at the same time. I would choose this for myself and everyone I love because I believe we should all be able to end our lives on our terms if the end is near and inevitable.

Apsolutno se slažem, verujem i da hoće, ali jasno ti je da je u pitanju vladajuća stranka i da za sve što radiš u manjem gradu plaćaš reket njima i/ili praviš liste sigurnih glasova da te ne bi zatvorili ili ugasili na neki način.

Šilje, Diznijevog fucking Šilje. 🤷🏻‍♀️