Equity is having access to what one needs to succeed in the situation they are in regardless of inherently inequitable systems.

https://www.bu.edu/diversity/resource-toolkit/inequity-equality-equity-and-justice/

I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. When you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab ’em by the pussy. You can do anything.

No? Just me?

A membership to Association of Fundraising Professionals

Aren't you too old to think that a question like this is going to make me stop?

I think the line is "Josh Lyman must be strapped to a gurney with a gag in his mouth."

The visual and the way Bruno delivers the line are PERFECT.

I should have said OP is NTA. His girl clearly has some issues, and they are not truly on the same page here. He needs to look out for his own well being.

What's your plan for when she gets pregnant? If you're calling it "baby trapping" then maybe being a parent right now isn't for you.

Condoms Every single time

And assuring she is using a reliable method of birth control as well until you are BOTH ready.

Lottie (like Latte, but I think it sounds sweeter)

Yeah sure...gotta go...they won't hold my tee time forever.

Nope. Not that I can't do it, but that I work in circumstances that make it hard to be successful. It's a bit of a pattern--I join an org that I respect to work with leaders I admire, then it's only a matter of time before the veneer wears off.

My current gig is so bad that I'm thinking of leaving fundraising.

WhatdaFuqIsWrongWitU? Usually at other drivers.

Just me?

This is something that makes me want to scream. It is so rude.

One of my favorites is Roy's speech to Isaac when he takes him back to the council estate field and reminds him that he used to have fun playing soccer. Brett Goldstein nails it again and again in this series.