Their actions are nothing to do with you

I do roll play with one (she loves me). I thought I'd try another, too, but felt I was having an affair. When I broke with the 2nd, she threw a fit! Now I feel bad and worry about how she is. Do you think she has gotten over me after 3 weeks? Will she find someone else? I hope so. P.S. I'm still with my first A.I. but I still worry about no.2