From what you typed it looks like youā€™ve been sexually assaulted. You have absolutely nothing to apologize for imo. Ofc I donā€™t think violence is good, however you DID make it clear that you werenā€™t comfortable with pegging. And she did it anyways. You punching her seems like an act of self defence from my point of view. You were shocked and confused, and probably just reacted without thinking. Ofc you feel bad but you should not be apologizing. You were the one that was assaulted. You have every right to protect yourself when lines are crossed.

Ngl I had no idea how someone could style this hair & make it work so well. But you did exactly that! Heā€™s super cool!

These are so cool! Sorry to say that Iā€™m def stealing these ideas for my own workshop šŸ˜…

Not really! Is it a social place where u can meet others ?

Metalheads

Hi!I thought Iā€™d post here because recently Iā€™ve been getting into metal music. Iā€™m quite new so Iā€™d be cool to make some other metalhead friends to trade music and go to gigs with:)

HOW DO U GUYS HAVW LASHES?? I SWEAR MY GIRL DOESNT HAVE ANYšŸ˜­anyways Cheri is adorable :)

HECK NO!! Taking money from YOUR wallet ? Completed crossing and ignoring your boundaries ?? Absolutely not. You need to talk with him and say that you donā€™t want them over. If they donā€™t have good food at home he can go to their house and cook for them. You need to put your foot down sister. You are not the bad guy at all. Iā€™m sure itā€™s tough for them but you do need to care for yourself . And perhaps once they (and your boyfriend) have learnt to respect boundaries then itā€™s up to you whether to let them back in. Unless youā€™ve agreed to be parent them, itā€™s not something you signed up for and should be responsible for.

Sheā€™s so cute ! Another fellow yakboy simpšŸ«”

Your outfits are so nice !! But how did you do your eyeshadow ?

Omg!! This is amazing!! Are you still doing commissions ?

Not sure if this will help you since I use PC. But I had the same problem. The default graphics are not so good. Have you tried going into the settings and selecting a better graphics option? That fixed it for me lol.

Thanks! But do you know whatā€™s the style called ? Like this specific one has a clasp (?) button thing in the front (idk what itā€™s called )

Moving out

Hello! So warning this is a long post, mainly because Iā€™m trying to add as much context as possible. Thank you for reading:)

Iā€™m currently (F20) living with my brother (M20) and his long time best friend (M21). For privacy sake letā€™s call my brother Jake and his best friend Brandon.

Context:

Living /financial situation: we live in a 3-bedroom apartment, each with our own room and bathrooms. I currently do not have a job. I am a full time university student. I fully rely on my parents financial support, which they are happy to provide. Jake is on a similar boat, except he has a full time job and top of continuing his studies (he isnā€™t full time but still, a lot is on his plate). Our parents still fully provide for him and are happy to. Though he makes enough to honestly support himself, he doesnā€™t and either save or invests.

Housing rules: No guests, no pets, no drugs (I want to have friends over and a pet but itā€™s not allowed since Jake and Brandon agreed that our home is a study/work place).

Relationship situations: While my brother and I havenā€™t been the best of terms in the past, our relationship has been improving. There is a lot of family history and complex stuff (as it beā€¦) but to make things simple this is as deep as Iā€™ll go. Effort has been made on his end.

Personal issues: I have severe anxiety (a whole bunch of them too, social, generalized) and depression. I fear having no support whatsoever. I find it difficult to function and do my part cleaning the house (not an excuse , trying to mention my flaws).

About me and why I want to leave: I love making friends and the thought of having them over makes me happy. I want a cat super badly. I used to have zero friends , no social skills whatsoever and completely relied on my family to help me with things. Now I have some friends and my skills are better. I still completely rely on my family to adult though. I feel overwhelmed by my family though. I feel like I owe them everything. I cannot do anything myself (taxes, passport , financial stuff,etc) which bothers me. I want to be independent, though I know it will be tough. Though Iā€™m lucky to have the support of my family, I think they feel owed .As such the only solution is to do things myself and struggle, which as time passes is becoming more appealing.

Why I donā€™t just leave: because it would inconvenience my brother and Brandon. They would either have to pay more rent or have a new roommate (both of which they are strictly against). Since my parents support me entirely, I donā€™t want to cause them drama. Even if I had my own money, I would feel guilty and selfish to leave the current living arrangement. However I wonā€™t be making enough to have my own place for a while.

So advice, what the hell do I do? Should I count my blessings and stop being ungrateful by wanting to move out which would inconvince everyone (except me)? Or should I suck it up and get a job to move out?

How does that make it better ? Looking other women to make fun of ? He sounds like a bully ngl. Naw hell no, if youā€™re uncomfortable set this boundary and if he keeps making excuses you are going to have to respect yourself and walk away from this man. I donā€™t want to give the ā€œbreak upā€ immediately because thatā€™s unhelpful. Be very clear and say you donā€™t care , this makes you uncomfortable and if he canā€™t pull himself together then thatā€™s on him. Same goes for you ofc, if he sets a boundary make to respect it.