###[NOTE] Learn how to properly submit a Poly Personal by [clicking here](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/comments/327oan/how_to_properly_post_a_poly_personal_in/)!


#Welcome fellow Polyamorist!
Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for polyamorous redditors seeking other polyamorous redditors. This is *not* a hookup reddit, this is exclusively a reddit for polyamorous relationship seekers.

#Posting guidelines?
[*PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE POSTING*]

Thousands of people are doing the same thing you are. If you are using one post for two or more members of an existing relationship you'll need to post info on each of you *individually*.

Other than that, good luck, and happy posting!

#Polyamory & Swinging
***Is Polyamory not the same as Swinging?***

That's right! A polyamorous person(s) is someone who is defined as someone who has a **romantic relationship**  or involvement with more than one person at the same time where as a swinger is defined as a person(s) who has a **sexual relationship** or involvement with more than one person at the same time.

#Post Title Examples
***Post Title Examples (please adhere):***

25 [F4M] #NewYork - Looking for someone!
32 [M4MF] #Princeton - Searching for a couple!
52 [R4A] #SanDiego - Looking for love.

#Search using Tags!
#####Click a Tag Below

Choose| A Tag
:--|:--
[F4M](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4M&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[F4MM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4MM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[M4F](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4F&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[M4FF](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4FF&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[M4M](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4M&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[M4MM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4MM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[F4F](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4F&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[F4FF](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4FF&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[F4FM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4FM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[FM4M](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FM4M&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[M4FM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4FM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[FM4F](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FM4F&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[FF4FF](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FF4FF&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[FF4MM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FF4MM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[MM4FF](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MM4FF&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[MM4MM](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MM4MM&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[MF4MF](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MF4MF&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[M4F+](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4F+&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[R4R+](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=R4R+&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[F4M+](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4M+&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)
[RR4R+](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=RR4R+&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)|[R4R](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=R4R&sort=new&restrict_sr=on)

#Interested in Polyamory?
We invite you to visit /r/Polyamory for news, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues. Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.

#Sister Subreddits

Sister|Subreddits
:--|:--
**r/Polyamory**|/r/PolyFidelity
/r/PolyFamilies|**/r/SexPositive**
/r/SoloPolyamory|/r/Triad
/r/dirtyr4r|/r/AnarchaFeminism
/r/Swingers|/r/BDSMcommunity
/r/NonMonogamy|/r/SexWorkers
/r/Tranarchism|/r/Asexuality
/r/Rape|/r/SaferSex
/r/Kink|/r/Cyberfeminism
/r/RadicalQueers|/r/r4r

#Polyamorous Resources
If you're new, check out some of the useful resources by clicking the links below. Thank you!

* [Polyamory Wikipedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory)

* [Polyamory FAQ](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/wiki/faq)

* [What is Polyamory?](http://www.polyamorysociety.org/page6.html)

* [Modern Polyamory](http://www.modernpoly.com/)

* [Polyamory Conferences](http://www.lovemore.com/)

* [Polyamory News](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/polyamory/)

* [Polyamory Community](https://www.reddit.com/r/Polyamory)

* [Another FAQ](http://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html)

* [Other Website Links](http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/cq9pu/a_list_of_polyamory_swinger_cuckold_and/)

<div class="md"><h3>[NOTE] Learn how to properly submit a Poly Personal by <a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/comments/327oan/how_to_properly_post_a_poly_personal_in/">clicking here</a>!</h3>

<h1>Welcome fellow Polyamorist!</h1>

<p>Welcome to <a href="/r/polyamoryR4R">/r/polyamoryR4R</a>! This place is for polyamorous redditors seeking other polyamorous redditors. This is <em>not</em> a hookup reddit, this is exclusively a reddit for polyamorous relationship seekers.</p>

<h1>Posting guidelines?</h1>

<p>[<em>PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE POSTING</em>]</p>

<p>Thousands of people are doing the same thing you are. If you are using one post for two or more members of an existing relationship you&#39;ll need to post info on each of you <em>individually</em>.</p>

<p>Other than that, good luck, and happy posting!</p>

<h1>Polyamory &amp; Swinging</h1>

<p><strong><em>Is Polyamory not the same as Swinging?</em></strong></p>

<p>That&#39;s right! A polyamorous person(s) is someone who is defined as someone who has a <strong>romantic relationship</strong>  or involvement with more than one person at the same time where as a swinger is defined as a person(s) who has a <strong>sexual relationship</strong> or involvement with more than one person at the same time.</p>

<h1>Post Title Examples</h1>

<p><strong><em>Post Title Examples (please adhere):</em></strong></p>

<p>25 [F4M] #NewYork - Looking for someone!
32 [M4MF] #Princeton - Searching for a couple!
52 [R4A] #SanDiego - Looking for love.</p>

<h1>Search using Tags!</h1>

<h5>Click a Tag Below</h5>

<table><thead>
<tr>
<th align="left">Choose</th>
<th align="left">A Tag</th>
</tr>
</thead><tbody>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4M&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4M</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4MM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4MM</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4F&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4F</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4FF&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4FF</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4M&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4M</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4MM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4MM</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4F&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4F</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4FF&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4FF</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4FM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4FM</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FM4M&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">FM4M</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4FM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4FM</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FM4F&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">FM4F</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FF4FF&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">FF4FF</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=FF4MM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">FF4MM</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MM4FF&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">MM4FF</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MM4MM&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">MM4MM</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=MF4MF&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">MF4MF</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=M4F+&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">M4F+</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=R4R+&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">R4R+</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=F4M+&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">F4M+</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=RR4R+&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">RR4R+</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryR4R/search?q=R4R&amp;sort=new&amp;restrict_sr=on">R4R</a></td>
</tr>
</tbody></table>

<h1>Interested in Polyamory?</h1>

<p>We invite you to visit <a href="/r/Polyamory">/r/Polyamory</a> for news, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues. Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.</p>

<h1>Sister Subreddits</h1>

<table><thead>
<tr>
<th align="left">Sister</th>
<th align="left">Subreddits</th>
</tr>
</thead><tbody>
<tr>
<td align="left"><strong><a href="/r/Polyamory">r/Polyamory</a></strong></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/PolyFidelity">/r/PolyFidelity</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/PolyFamilies">/r/PolyFamilies</a></td>
<td align="left"><strong><a href="/r/SexPositive">/r/SexPositive</a></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/SoloPolyamory">/r/SoloPolyamory</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Triad">/r/Triad</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/dirtyr4r">/r/dirtyr4r</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/AnarchaFeminism">/r/AnarchaFeminism</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Swingers">/r/Swingers</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/BDSMcommunity">/r/BDSMcommunity</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/NonMonogamy">/r/NonMonogamy</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/SexWorkers">/r/SexWorkers</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Tranarchism">/r/Tranarchism</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Asexuality">/r/Asexuality</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Rape">/r/Rape</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/SaferSex">/r/SaferSex</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Kink">/r/Kink</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/Cyberfeminism">/r/Cyberfeminism</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/RadicalQueers">/r/RadicalQueers</a></td>
<td align="left"><a href="/r/r4r">/r/r4r</a></td>
</tr>
</tbody></table>

<h1>Polyamorous Resources</h1>

<p>If you&#39;re new, check out some of the useful resources by clicking the links below. Thank you!</p>

<ul>
<li><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory">Polyamory Wikipedia</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/wiki/faq">Polyamory FAQ</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.polyamorysociety.org/page6.html">What is Polyamory?</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.modernpoly.com/">Modern Polyamory</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.lovemore.com/">Polyamory Conferences</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/polyamory/">Polyamory News</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Polyamory">Polyamory Community</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html">Another FAQ</a></p></li>
<li><p><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/cq9pu/a_list_of_polyamory_swinger_cuckold_and/">Other Website Links</a></p></li>
</ul>
</div>

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Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for redditors seeking to find and create new polyamorous type relationships! This is strictly not a hookup reddit, please read the rules carefully before posting.

<div class="md"><p>Welcome to <a href="/r/polyamoryR4R">/r/polyamoryR4R</a>! This place is for redditors seeking to find and create new polyamorous type relationships! This is strictly not a hookup reddit, please read the rules carefully before posting.</p>
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<div class="md"><p>Format your title properly or your submission will be removed.</p>
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20/23 [FM4F] Northern Virginia couple looking for another woman