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I don’t have any profiles at the moment, but I’ll think about it for next time!
I don’t mention money etc or put cars/possessions on my profile because I think it’s obnoxious and tends to attract the kind of people I don’t want to date…
It is a rare problem too, most people either like it or don’t care…..🤷🏾♂️
Then it probably wasn’t worth mentioning here?
My boyfriend had something similar on his profile, And I thought “oh I could never date someone like that. But I could fuck them a couple of times”
9 years later, here we are.
We do have ground rules. He never ever tells me how much money he’s spent on something, unless he wants me to tell him what a colossal waste of money it is.
I also told him I would never be impressed by dollars, or monetary success, and all I want and need is to know that he’s happy, thriving, and doing the things that bring him joy.
Well, it was more to do with my experience on Feeld and the conversation seemed to just go that way.
I never talk about the numbers. Ever. It’s no one’s business. The outward signs make it obvious though.
I don’t expect anyone to be impressed by it, I don’t do it for them. I don’t want a sugar baby type, a princess that thinks I’ll just give them money for transactional sex.
I briefly put it on my profile once at my wife’s suggestion to see what would happen. I got lots of “hey, you’re an arrogant asshole” messages followed by “ don’t expect me to be impressed by it, but shall we go on a date?” “Take me to Nobu” 🤣
You’ve obviously got a deep connection if it’s lasted 9 years and you seem to have it nailed. I just didn’t want it to be a factor and there are not many women who have your perspective. 🤷🏾♂️
I mean, I’m clear. I think status symbols, and status seeking, in general are/is shallow, empty and vain.
I think driving around a city and suburbs in a high performance vehicle in an urban area is a bid for attention. You don’t always get positive attention.
Thus when he parked his car outside of my house, and it got vandalized, I shrugged. The fact that he did too, was key.
He knows it’s not his best attribute. I do too. Nobody’s perfect.
It has nothing to do with his bank account.