When my father was around her, he did everything for me and my sister. When he cheated and left her, I took the role my father had. I spoke up then left cause it was so stressful, my sister is bait now but my father is saying it wasn't that bad when I remembered he had to drop us to school everyday, complained it was an hour away from his job when she abandons ship and runs to work at 6am when her work starts at 8am. I don't understand his need to always protect but admit to my sister how difficult our mother is.

So when I wanted guidance in raising my child, suddenly it's I only have one kid it's not hard literally I'm figuring this out as I go and ill continue to. She was financially there, never maternally.