why is it my mother says she's afraid of me to some ppl but to my face is highly aggressive, over dramatic and pushes me to my breaking point.
I wish the others can see, but I'm abandoned by them all cause of her cruel words and they treat me like I'm not even family.
It's better when I'm not around her, I did that before I'll try it again even tho that doesn't work either. I wish they'd forget about me.
She is using you as a scapegoat. I'm 56 and just had to go no contact. Kept thinking she would get a little better or that I could just deal with it. Also, I was worried about what people would think and thought by hanging around, I could prove her wrong. It all backfired. She plans and plots these things and puts an immense amount of her time and energy into it like it's her job. You are up against a brick wall.
- Had to go no contact. The older she gets the worse she is with me.
Sorry you had to go thru that. I thought too I could prove by setting boundaries with her but she hates that. She applied all her energy into competing and I can't afford to do that again cause she will try to corrupt my child and that's why we argued in the first place. She kiss my kid on the forehead while ignoring me for days. How is that gonna look to my child? Not that granny is nice, mommy is mean? My kid is 4 and didn't deserve that. Then she's saying don't involve kids in adult issues, but why get me to talk don't like what I'm saying and then proceed to kiss my kid. That's sending mixed signals. I won't do that again. She'd confuse my kid and turn my kid against me.
You are 100 percent right. Everything becomes a strategy to them.
It felt like I could’ve written this. I am not talking to anyone I knew because she has ruined my name to everyone and they all believe her. It’s almost fascinating to watch. I am on day 3 of nc after years of being the scapegoat and golden child. It’s been only 3 days, I’ve got 100 missed calls, many messages (that she deleted) but I read few before she could delete. And now she has involved my inlaws, who also think we are bad now. Wow i mean wow
I'm glad you got away she is poisoning your rep but how can you think that's love. We do have a few things in common. Sending hugs 🤗
I've been nc for a week tomorrow. Previously was 5 years I said nothing just went quietly she forgot my kid's birthday cause she was on a date. She threatened to speak to the in-laws as well as my ex and I'm waiting to see. She gotta prove she is right for making everyone hate her kid.
No one sees something is wrong with a mother disrespecting her child for attention and not asking for help on situations. If she gotta spread info like wildfire, how is it anyone is gonna trust her so she's disrespecting herself in the process but when so much of ppl we grew up with is accustom to that, how will they see anything differently. I still won't forgive anyone who eats her shit tho, smell it first.