I have just recently came to know this term. I have been living in limerance since I was about 15, I'm almost 27 now. Trying to live in real life and look for real relationships.
I want to know if anyone else is struggling with this. It seems to be strongly connected to childhood emotional neglect.
Yes, constantly, all my life. It's always EU men who are jerks but sort of flirty to me (or hot and cold).
I always have a limerent object until a new one comes along. Then it's like the old one is forgotten instantly. I can only have one at a time. It's always someone I know in real life and not a celebrity or something. I think about them almost all the time. Even if we haven't kept contact, I will keep looping on them until a new one comes along.
I need to get rid of this addiction. I hate it.