I posted here a while ago about my kitchen situation with my gross roommate. Unfortunately, it hasn't gotten any better. Since we don't have a microwave, my roommate uses an electric popcorn popper that you plug in. You're supposed to rinse out the lid after using it, like with most kitchen utensils. However, my lazy roommate removed the lid and, without even attempting to clean it, placed it on the drying rack above other clean dishes. He also used a pan to make eggs, left half the crusted egg in the pan, and then put it back in the cabinet. There has got to be a thick layer of butter still on that lid. Make it make sense!! I guess I should be glad it’s not piled up in the sink? 🤣
Yeah I accepted to just clean everything long ago and not get too upset about it. Just put on a podcast, vibe, and focus on upping my career to hopefully not clean up after an adult again!
When I had roommates that's what I did as well. I couldn't get anyone else to clean up after themselves when it came to the kitchen so I would just wake up about two hours before everybody else in the morning(it was still like 8am since my roommates never woke up until at least 10am) and completely clean the kitchen and do all the dishes for the day.
Thankfully now I live with just my partner and he is incredibly helpful when it comes to keeping the kitchen clean. I don't even have to ask him to do the dishes, he just sees that there's dishes in the sink that need to be done and does them
Side rant aside from shitty roommates bothering me. Isn't me or does someone saying I live with my partner piss anyone else off? Like your partner in what a game a stupid adventure you're taking. It's your boyfriend or girl friend. Partner just sounds so we know where not going to last cause we are afraid of offending someone it's irritating.
First off we're engaged so no he's not my boyfriend. And even before we got engaged we were living together we had shared property and pets together and were very much more than just boyfriend and girlfriend. We had a partnership.
The fact that you get so pissed off about that is 100% a you problem that you should really work on.
Exactly your boyfriend who's now your fiancé that will be your husband. If my girl introduced me has her partner as opposed to her boyfriend I'd be wondering about that. You can't tell me that Partnership doesn't sound vague or only transactional. wasn't attacking you either. I was simply saying it sounds bland. This is bob my husband,fiancée boyfriend. Or this is bob my partner one lacks that more then feeling you expressed.
Boyfriend or girlfriend sounds completely juvenile if you are in a long-term mature relationship and have shared property together. We are not children. We got together in our mid 20s and are now in our early 30s
Again, this is a you problem that you really need to work on yourself. Even if it's not your preference the fact that you get so pissed off about it is nobody else's issue but yours
Also don't try to backtrack and say that you weren't attacking me when you literally were. You were making stupid assumptions about my relationship based on the way I choose to refer to my fiancé. You do realize that people have been calling their significant other their partner for decades?