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That's a duck
you never heard of duck-duck-goose?
Good ass game
🪿There u go
IM actually a goose goose thank you very much
In my experience people who call themselves a "girl's girl" are the same as people who constantly talk about how "nice" they are. I think a lot of the time when people feel the need to tell you who they are, they're the opposite.
I was just talking about this. People who need to make it known the good deeds they did in a day and how nice they are to people and all I want to say is "didnt ask"
Yes I agree. This is exactly what I mean by this post finally someone gets it.
Im An EmPaTh
honestly yeah lmao. I hate it. It’s always the caddy insecure bitches that say it.
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no, it means women who go out of their way to be friendly or helpful towards other women. female solidarity. the opposite would be intentionally putting other women down to lift yourself up and make yourself look better to men
Idk I feel like a woman who goes out of her way to be friendly and helpful towards other women wouldn’t brag about it … or even have a word for it because they think it’s just the normal standard …
Seems a little homophobic to use a sexuality as a dig.
I’m as feminist as they come and it’s a lame ass phrase lol. It weirdly comes with hyperfemininity and gender roles.
“I’m a girls’ girl only to girls I personally approve of”
Honestly, if someone has to tell you they're a girls girl or whatever equivalent there may be, they most likely aren't. There's a difference between saying it and showing it.
The girls I’ve heard say this are genuinely supportive and say this as a means to dismiss someone’s gratitude.
Ex:
Susan: Hey thanks so much for picking me up at 3 in the morning. That guy was such a creep.
Lisa: No worries - I’m a girl’s girl. I always have your back.
So I suppose we have very different experiences
I feel the same about a man’s man. Anytime I hear that he proceeds to be a horrible person
What?
It’s not that hard to understand. Guys do the same thing. Isn’t just women
I’m not disagreeing with your post either
What's unclear about that comment?
the concept of girls girl is so cute why are you guys so desperate to hate on it
I agree it is a cute concept but what i’m talking about is a completely seperate thing. I’m talking about the girls who use this term but aren’t actually girls girls. This post isn’t for you. The girls who get it get it.
I think it's only really bad in excess. If you are unsympathetic of men or actively support the woman in any situation preemptively.
You know the type. Man cheats, he's scum. Woman cheats, he's scum who drove her away. Really, it's more a dislike of hypocrisy.
That and women who act like shitty women don't exist. That's frustrating
I envision it more as some girl who's goth as fuck telling someone dressed as Barbie that she looks awesome after hearing someone call her a bimbo and shutting the haters down.
Like, just because we don't have surface level things in common doesn't mean we can't collectively back each other up.
I agree completely. Women supporting women is a GOOD thing. A great thing. Superficial differences like aesthetics do not at all matter. Frankly speaking, it'd be nice if more men did the same. It genuinely was heartbreaking to see some of these dudes use men's mental health awareness month as some ploy to shit on women. Instead , how would it have been to uplift and be there for fellow men in a healthy, assuring way?
My earlier comment was merely to highlight how some women use the girl's girl attitude to blindly support women right or wrong. And THAT is an issue that hurts men and women.
Oh yeah. I totally got your initial comment and just didn't explain myself well! That's my bad.
Yes, I've been privileged to periodically be in mens spaces where they are supporting each other and it's been a really beautiful thing to see!
Hopefully, we'll see more of both in the future
"I'm a girls girl" - girls
"I'm a goose goose" - geese