I’ve heard my own mom make fun of me to relatives about me being a “virgin”. She has no idea if I am or not because I refuse to discuss my sex life with her since it’s none of her business. She’s also never talked to me about boys, sex, dating or relationships. I’ve had to learn on my own. She’s a very religious Christian woman who is judge mental and views other women as competition too. I’ve also overheard her tell other relatives about me “no man in my life”. She’s very male identified and believes a woman’s worth is based on if she has a man or not.