Okay, so after a long ass discussion, my wife has agreed to never talk to talk to her best friend she used to sleep with, she has put me above her whole friend circle, either she will join then without him, or she will refuse to join them if he is present, that was what I want and she agreed to it
But now I feel bad, for putting up such conditions, what happened was that, I asked her if she is disagrees with what I said, we can divorce, she refused, she says she's not doing that, in her words 'shes not losing me over stupidity'
Well I just said she can meet with them or him whenever she wants, but I must be present all the time whenever he is involved, I'm trying to find a middle ground, I told her, and she said yes, I told her I'm not being controlling and I'm just being protective, protective towards her and myself, and she agreed
So I am once again here for advice